“Gone Girl” : The Devil’s Greatest Trick

“The Dental School, please.” I said as I stepped into the taxi.

“The dental school?” asked the african male driver, “What are you getting done?”

“They’re doing a root canal, to prepare for my implants.”

“Implants? Aren’t those painful? how did you lose the teeth?”

“My estranged wife knocked them out.”

Silence

“May I ask how that happened?”

“We were on a trip to Wildwood, NJ. It was the end of the trip. It had not been a good trip. She had been fighting with me before we left, and she did some things that were really disrespectful, like kissing a girl in a bathroom, and then telling me to deal with it.”

“What???”

“Yes, that happened. Then, after a less than stellar weekend with friends, we were all driving back, and they asked us to stop at a house on the way. I asked her to come in and she refused. I knew it would take a long time, and I wanted her to come in because I know I am non-confrontational, and would not be able to get them to hurry it up, so we could get home.”

“Okay.”

“So over an hour passed, and she finally comes in. I’m sitting on the couch with them. She just stands there, staring at me, and asks me to show her where the bathroom is. They tell us where it is, and she asked me to come with her. It was next to the kitchen. She doesn’t go to the bathroom, but pulls me into the kitchen. She had me sit her up on the counter, literally had me pick her up to place her on it, and I thought we were going to talk.”

“So what happened?”

We’re stuck in traffic, on the way to the NYU School of dentistry, so I actually have time to tell him this story. It’s rare that NYC taxi Drivers actually talk to you any longer, so, since he’s interested, I continue.

“She’s sitting there, and I’m waiting for her to talk, and then, suddenly, she raised her left fist, and tried to bring it down on my face. I was surprised, but I caught it. She lifted her right fist and did the same thing. I caught that one also.”

“WHAT?? Where did that come from? Why did she do that?”

“I have no idea, but that’s not the end of it. She then quickly leaned back, shoots forward, head buttes me in the mouth.”

You don't get to decide you didn't hurt someone

“WHAT THE HELL???”

“Yes. I let go of her wrists, and grabbed my mouth. She leaned back, crossed her arms, and smiled.”

“You’re kidding me.”

“I wish I were.”

Silence, then, as he turns the corner,

“What happened after that?”

“I had to get a root canal, because the tooth was pressing against the nerve. Her dentist. She suggested him. I found out later they should have just tapped the tooth back into the canal.”

“But how does this become implants?”

“Well, because her dentist was an idiot, some Doctor Paul Stanciewickz, this was back in Virginia, the root canal was never finished, and that, according to my new Doctors, allowed for infection to get up into my gums. That spread to four other teeth, so now I am forced to pay almost $40,000 to replace the six teeth. One lower tooth is random. No idea why that one had to come out.”

She knocked out your teeth. She’s not paying for any of this?”

The denture I have to wear, due to the teeth Ania Ziolkowska knocked out by head butting me in the mouth

The denture I have to wear, due to the teeth Ania Ziolkowska knocked out by head butting me in the mouth

“Nope. And missing teeth causes a lot of problems. Go on interviews, and even if I’m wearing a three piece suit, they still judge you on your appearance. Teeth missing right in front of your mouth makes them think you’re a crack head. I have six teeth to replace, and she’s partying around the world and not paying a dime.”

“You’re serious?”

“Yup. She played victim after the tooth came out, cheated with some DJ, and ran off to Poland, then India, a place she knew I wanted to go to since 2001, when we met, and then moved here, to New York, before me, after refusing to for YEARS, with the DJ. Made a point to connect with people I met a year before her, while she was out of the country, and cried victim and said I was the one that abused her.”

Ania Ziolkowska Destroys and runs. Here she is dancing at Riou, In queens, at Psychill Psysundays. Ania Ziolkowska Knocked out my teeth, then "punished" herself by jumping on another dick, and partying around New York City.

Ania Ziolkowska Destroys and runs. Here she is dancing at Riou, In queens, at Psychill Psysundays.
Ania Ziolkowska Knocked out my teeth, then “punished” herself by jumping on another dick, and partying around New York City.

 

“What the fuck???”

We’re getting close to the Dental School now, but he still wants to talk.

“Can’t you sue her?”

“Statute of limitations. I can’t do a thing.”

“Didn’t you press charges when she attacked you?”

“We were together, getting married. Of course I loved her, so I was an idiot and didn’t. Anyway, have you ever tried to be a guy reporting domestic violence from a woman?”

“You know what? I know what you mean. My friend is going through the same thing. His wife beats him and embarrasses him, and they don’t do anything about it.”

“Exactly, and in Virginia, it’s even worse.”

“So what did you do?”

“The only thing I could do, I started a blog.”

“Really?”

“Well, first I tried to party, and distract myself from everything, but she kept pulling things, while she was out of the country, like contacting my employers and ruining positions for me. I even became suicidal at one point. It’s hard for a man, in this situation, because no one believes you. YOU are always the bad guy.”

It didn’t even take him a second to ponder this.

“Man, thank you. You’re right. There’s NO protection for men against women. We’re just told to deal with it, be a man, get over it. Thank you for what you’re doing. No one does this. No one helps men who are attacked by women. Thank you so much. Keep doing what you’re doing, man.”

I paid him, shook hands, and went in to my appointment.

Gone Girl - Ben Affleck & Rosamund Pike

Gone Girl – Ben Affleck & Rosamund Pike

This is Domestic Abuse Month, and it’s been a long time since I have written an entry. And, in an interesting twist of fate, “Gone Girl” has also been released in theaters this month. Why is this relevant? Before I proceed, I should say,

“Spoiler Alert”!!!!

if you haven’t seen the movie, you should probably stop reading, go see it, and come back to this. Seriously, because this will be an exploratory of my personal experience, reveal what the movie is truly about, and illustrate a huge problem men like me have always known about, but have been defenseless in confronting. “Gone Girl”, now the number one movie in the United States, is, if one were to believe the contrived reviews, about a marriage. “Gone Girl” is not about a marriage. What “Gone Girl” is really about is the socialized control women have over society. Their duplicity, their manipulative nature, how they can get away with nearly anything, but “virtue” of the fact that they are women. All of the reviews attempt to obfuscate it, attempt to gloss over, to hide the true issue, however David Fincher was very successful in fleshing out a veiled allegory toward the contemporary feminist movement, illustrating how damagingly toxic the narcissism of women actually is. “That aspect of marriage as a con game, or whatever. The idea that we perform a sort of ideal version of ourselves that the other person wants. We perhaps belie our true nature in order to perform to the ideal. David and I talked a lot about living in an age of rampant narcissism.”

Women are narcissistic. Women are borderline sociopathic. Women are so much so, that they manipulate EACH OTHER.

When a woman feels “hurt” over her own mistake(s), she will instead choose to hurt someone else, more than likely the man she feels manipulated her (or, to be more accurate, did not fall easily toward her own manipulations, such as the student that fully knew she was having an affair with a married man.) Sometimes it’s because they come from Narcissistic parents (the mother) The absolutely obscure and cryptic “clues” they leave, expecting you to figure them out, with absolutely no reference at all (her maddeningly frustrating scavenger hunts) They manipulate men, and throw each other under the bus (the girl at the cabin) Men are disposable to them (Neil Patrick Harris) And once you figure they are a narcissistic sociopath, you know how to manipulate them back (the television interview) And they will explain away their own evil as “being a survivor” (how she justifies murdering Neil Patrick Harris to her husband, and getting away with it) There are so many allegories illustrated in “Gone Girl”, toward modern narcissism, especially female narcissism, in this film that it’s quite disturbing. At least it lets me know I’m not the only one that has seen this, both in relationships and in society. Oh! I almost forgot: Narcissists have a limited bag of tricks, a limited tool box, whether it’s to attract (the husband), or to punish (the wife), and bank on creating constant emotional states of confusion, to keep themselves from being found out as what they are. You’ll see this MULTIPLE times in the film. Basically, in the end, it shows that not only are both sexes narcissistic, but that women are MORE TOXIC, and MORE DAMAGING in their narcissistic sociopathy, but are allowed to get away with it, because, let’s face it, they’re “women”.

“Women, for instance, concentrate on their body (many also suffer from eating disorders: Anorexia Nervosa and Bulimia Nervosa). They  flaunt and exploit their physical charms, their sexuality, their socially and culturally determined “femininity”. In its extreme form this is known as HPD or the Histrionic Personality Disorder.

Ania Anicca how she really looks, nearly busting out of those clothes and double chins

Ania Anicca how she really looks, nearly busting out of those clothes and double chins

Ania Anicca vain and narcissistic as ever

Ania Anicca vain and narcissistic as ever

Many female narcissists secure their Narcissistic Supply through more traditional gender roles: the home, children, suitable careers, their husbands (“the wife of…”), their feminine traits, their role in

society, etc. It is no wonder than narcissists – both men and women – are chauvinistically conservative. They depend to such an extent on the opinions of people around them – that, with time, they are transformed into ultra-sensitive seismographs of public opinion, barometers of prevailing social fashions and guardians of conformity. Narcissists cannot afford to seriously alienate those who reflect to them their False Self. The very proper and on-going functioning of their Ego depends on the goodwill and the collaboration of their human environment.”

The myth of “male dominance” is a well manicured deception. And this has been happening for CENTURIES.

Psychology, like society at large, continues to be baffled by the persistent belief that men and women differ in important psychological ways, in spite of countless studies that fail to demonstrate such differences or that capture them for only a brief moment. New approaches avoid the polarization of `male’ and female’ traits, emphasizing how and why these qualities change over the life span, across cultures and throughout history. To understand where the differences are, we must look to narrative, power, and the conditions of our lives.

I have always said if a man does what a woman does, he’s labeled a “Narcissist”, but if a woman does it, she’s just “A Woman”.

Back to the spoilers……..

“Gone Girl” is about a female narcissistic sociopath that shows the entire range of manipulation that women wield in their absolutely socialized, essentially accepted, behaviors. These are the same behaviors I experienced with Ania.  As I said earlier, David Fincher and the writer, whom is a female, must have had their experience with Narcopaths, especially female narcopaths, because they lay the entire tool just bare in that film The actions, such as her leaving a clue based scavenger hunt, every year, with obscure clues only SHE could understand, that you don’t put together until after they are gone, and your head is clear of the constant emotional distress they put you through Ania left her journals behind, I can only assume expecting me to read them. (I didn’t read them until I learned of her and Chris “Exeris” Michael Sevanick. I respect privacy, unlike Ania, who read my journals before we were even dating. I realize now she did that in order to read me, and manipulate me. That’s what narcissists do.)

I don't do well with hints. You're an adult. Speak your damn mind.

Ania Ziolkowska would leave the most cryptic hints, rather than being upfront.
This is how narcissists manipulate and gaslight.

Ania Ziolkowska Destroys and runs. Here she is dancing at Riou, In queens, at Psychill Psysundays. Ania Ziolkowska Knocked out my teeth, then

Ania Ziolkowska Destroys and runs. Here she is dancing at Riou, In queens, at Psychill Psysundays.
Ania Ziolkowska Knocked out my teeth, then “punished” herself by jumping on another dick, and partying around New York City.

Ania had her email address and phone number sent to me via an old email she knew I had access to, but never checked, I realized later, to give me a way to contact her, before she jumped BACK into bed with Chris. She was already fucking him before she left. Uzi Grindler told me. It was Chris’s child she adopted out, after she went to india, to hide her pregnancy, not mine. Little obscure clues, just so they can say you never paid attention to them, so they can justify to themselves what they do to

Gone Girl - Ben Affleck Agonizing over Rosamund's Scavenger Hunt Clues

Gone Girl – Ben Affleck Agonizing over Rosamund’s Scavenger Hunt Clues

you. The manipulation of other women, and men, as Ania did with Eva “Annika” Backstrom and Uzi Grindler (Uzi wanted to fuck Ania anyway

“Don’t they look so alike?”,

Uzi would constantly say about Ania and Annika, and apparently DID, which allowed Ania to get them to ignore incidents they witnessed, such as physically attacking me in the back of their rented Infinity SUV, my only offense being listening to an iPod, on our way to a Stella Nutella show in NYC, and, later, connecting Ania to Chris Exeris, Annika’s ex boyfriend, all in Uzi’s wanting to get revenge upon me for outing his cheating on Annika, which I was forced to do, because he refused to stay out of my relationship – I was actually curing Ania of her narcissism, and he reversed it all, for his own selfishness, Uzi and Eva “Annika” Backstrom, themselves being Narcissistic Sociopaths.) In one of our earliest blogs, we get to hear Ania’s version of how my teeth were lost……..

  • 8:09pm John What happened to make him so fucked up?
  • Exeris Icon8:09pm Dj-vj Exeris he’s been that way for a long time
  • 8:09pm John He says she abused him for 10 years
  • Grains of Sound Icon8:09pm 

    Dj-vj Exeris made worse by doing meth every day for 3 years (Author’s note – Hearsay. He does not know this, nor can he prove it, which makes this SLANDER.)

  • 8:09pm John  Says he begged her to move to NYC and she said no
  • Douche Bag Icon8:09pm Dj-vj Exeris yea he has twisted everything (Author’s note – This catches up to him later.)
  • 8:10pm John When did he do that? He looked healthy to me?
  • Exeris Icon8:10pm Dj-vj Exeris not sure if he belives his lies or not (Author’s note – Pot calling the kettle black…..)
  • 8:10pm John  He doesn’t even smoke
  • Grains of Sound Icon8:10pm Dj-vj Exeris 97-2000 (Author’s note – Interesting as neither Ania Ziolkowska, nor I met Chris Sevanick until 2008. And we only hung out with him a total of THREE TIMES between 2008 and 2010. I met him again after Ania Ziolkowska lied and went to Poland, then India, and told him everything that happened between us, and even have additional proof. As I said, this catches up with him later.)

So, according to Ania Anicca / Ania Ziolkowska (Ania got the “Anicaa” name at “Yogaville”, during her teacher training. They don’t know what the word means, and she can’t come up with anything original on her own. No narcissist can, actually), the story she concocted, is that I did meth for three years, before returning and pursuing her, and I had ALL of my teeth, until TEN YEARS AFTER SUPPOSEDLY DOING METH???

I seem to have a full mouth of teeth here.....oh! And Ania seems to be THIN. Hmmmmm.....

I seem to have a full mouth of teeth here, even if they ARE yellowed from smoking, something I finally have been able to quit…..oh! And Ania seems to be THIN. Hmmmmm…..

This is the story she fabricated to cover the damage she could no longer hide.

But, what’s more disgusting, more disturbing, is OTHER PEOPLE BELIEVED IT. 

Why? 

Because she’s a girl, that’s why.

Ania Anicca has one of the most practiced fake “charm personalities” known to man

Up until recently, there has been no support, no resources, for male victims of domestic violence. As a matter of fact, if you are a man and the subject is brought up, it is actually assumed that YOU are the abuser. Even the police essentially refuse to believe that women, especially small, petite, demur women, can actually be the abusers (not that Ania is small, petite, or demure, ANY LONGER….)

The CDC’s Web site also cites data showing: “In the United States every year, about 1.5 million women and more than 800,000 men are raped or physically assaulted by an intimate partner,” and 24 percent of intimate partner homicide victims were male (‘http://www.cdc.gov/ncipc/factsheets/ipvfacts.htm‘) Experts have expressed concern that male victims have been unfairly ignored due to gender-driven politics and that this contributes to the intergenerational cycle of domestic violence. When male victims are ignored or just “take it,” their children suffer long-term damage by the exposure and are more likely to commit the violence as adults.  The mass media often contributes to this neglect by framing domestic violence as “battered women” or as primarily a male crime and by citing inaccurate crime data. The media says “men and women” when covering soldiers or fire-fighters; it should do the same for male domestic violence victims. The National Coalition of Free Men calls on the media for fair reporting this October. As Dear Abby said, “Domestic violence is a human problem, not a gender problem.”

But, as illustrated above, and in the movie “Gone Girl”, a woman can play victim, and get away with even the WORST atrocities (such as murdering someone she thought to use, as she did with Neil Patrick Harris.)

More men than women were victims of intimate partner physical violence within the past year, according to a national study funded by the Centers for Disease Control and U.S. Department of Justice. According to the National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey (hereinafter NISVS) released in December, 2011, within the last 12 months an estimated 5,365,000 men and 4,741,000 women were victims of intimate partner physical violence. (Black, M.C. et al., 2011, Tables 4.1 and 4.2) 1 This finding contrasts to the earlier National Violence Against Women Survey (Tjaden, P. G., & Thoennes, N., 2000)(hereinafter NVAWS), which estimated that 1.2 million women and 835,000 men were victims of intimate partner physical violence in the preceding 12 months. (One-year prevalence “are considered to be more accurate [than lifetime rates] because they do not depend on recall of events long past” (Straus, 2005, p. 60))

Do a basic google search about domestic violence, and you have to DIG to get the following results:

About two in five of all victims of domestic violence are men, contradicting the widespread impression that it is almost always women who are left battered and bruised, a new report claims. Men assaulted by their partners are often ignored by police, see their attacker go free and have far fewer refuges to flee to than women, says a study by the men’s rights campaign group Parity.

Or “A Voice for Men”which, if you didn’t know it existed, you would never find it

From this information researchers found that of the 18,761 relationships, 76% were non-violent and 24% were violent. Of the 24% that were violent, half had been reciprocal and half had not—reciprocal meaning there was violence inflicted by both partners. Although more men than women (53% versus 49%) had experienced non-reciprocal violent relationships, more women than men (52% versus 47%) had taken part in ones involving reciprocal violence. This statistic was undoubtedly the most striking: in committing acts of domestic violence, more women than men (25% versus 11%) were responsible. In fact, in the 71% of non-reciprocal partner violence instances, the instigator was the woman. This flies in the face of the long-held belief that female aggression in a relationship is most often predicated on self-defense. Further, while injury was more likely when violence was perpetrated by men, in relationships that featured reciprocal violence, men were injured more often (25% of the time) than women (20% of the time).

A medical journal

While aggression in heterosexual relationships is believed to stem from men, a recent study presented on June 25 at a symposium on intimate partner violence (IPV) at the British Psychological Society’s Division of Forensic Psychology annual conference in Glasgow, found women are more likely to be “intimate terrorists,” or physically aggressive to their partners than men.

A Telegraph UK article of a FEMALE DOCTOR LEAD STUDY

Dr Elizabeth Bates, who led the study at the University of Cumbria, said: “Previous studies have sought to explain male violence towards women as arising from patriarchal values, which motivate men to seek to control women’s behaviour, using violence if necessary.”

Even Time Magazine, though you can see the obvious feminist slant, since the feminists have a huge lobby, and they want to not piss off that demographic, even when the facts illustrate otherwise 

Research showing that women are often aggressors in domestic violence has been causing controversy for almost 40 years, ever since the 1975 National Family Violence Survey by sociologists Murray Straus and Richard Gelles of the Family Research Laboratory at the University of New Hampshire found that women were just as likely as men to report hitting a spouse and men were just as likely as women to report getting hit. The researchers initially assumed that, at least in cases of mutual violence, the women were defending themselves or retaliating. But when subsequent surveys asked who struck first, it turned out that women were as likely as men to initiate violence—a finding confirmed by more than 200 studies of intimate violence. In a 2010 review essay in the journal Partner Abuse, Straus concludes that women’s motives for domestic violence are often similar to men’s, ranging from anger to coercive control.

But, as I said earlier, you have to dig to almost subterranean levels, in order to obtain this data. For me to find them, I had to finally do a Google search of “Women More Violent Than Men” Why?

As it is profitable to claim victimhood in this age, a good indicator is whether any condemnation by the supposedly oppressed of their oppressor could be similarly uttered if the positions were reversed.  We know that what Rev. Jeremiah Wright said about whites could not be said by a white pastor about blacks, and we see even more of a double standard regarding what women and men can say about each other in America today.  This reveals one of the darkest depths of the human mind – when a group is utterly convinced that they are the ‘victims’ of another group, they can rationalize any level of evil against their perceived oppressors.    Go to any major ‘feminist’ website, such as feministing.com or Jezebel.com, and ask polite questions about the fairness of divorce laws, or the injustice of innocent men being jailed on false accusations of rape without due process.  You will quickly be called a ‘misogynist’ and banned from commenting.  The same is not true for any major men’s site, where even heated arguments and blatant misandry are tolerated in the spirit of free speech and human dignity.  When is the last time a doctrinaire ‘feminist’ actually had the courage to debate a fair woman like Camille Paglia, Tammy Bruce, or Christina Hoff Somers on television?  Ever-tightening groupthink that enforces an ever-escalating narrative of victimhood ensures that projection becomes the normal mode of misandrist thought.  The word ‘misogynist’ has expanded to such an extreme that it is the Pavlovian response to anything a ‘feminist’ feels bad about, but cannot articulate in an adult-like manner.  This reveals the projected gender bigotry of the ‘feminist’ in question, which in her case is misandry.  For example, an older man dating women 10 years younger than him is also referred to as a ‘misogynist’ by the older bitterati.  Not an ageist, mind you, but a misogynist.  A man who refuses to find obese women attractive is also a ‘misogynist’, as are gay men who do not spend money on women.  The male non-compliance labeled as ‘misogyny’ thus becomes a reaction to many years of unopposed misandry heaped on him first, when he initially harbored no such sentiments.  Kick a friendly dog enough times, and you get a nasty dog.  There are laws such as the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA), that blatantly declares that violence against women is far worse than violence against men.  VAWA is very different from ordinary assault laws, because under VAWA, a man can be removed from his home at gunpoint if the woman makes a single phonecall.  No due process is permitted, and the man’s IConstitutional rights are jettisoned.  At the same time, half of all domestic violence is by the woman against the man.  Tiger Woods’ wife beat him with a blunt weapon and scratched his face, only to be applauded by ‘feminists’ in a ‘you go girl’ manner.  Projection can normalize barbarism. 

I received a DUI charge and conviction, because, after having taken my prescribed Ambian, when I asked Ania to leave, so I could sleep, tired an hungry, in an apartment she succeeded in having us evicted from IN ONE WEEK, due to HER behavior (that was told to me in confidence, by the leasing manager of the Aspen, in Alexandria, VA), she instead attacked me, and chased me out of the apartment. Knowing what I just listed above, I got in my Mini, and attempted to drive away. Not having eaten, my Ambian kicked in in ten minutes, rather than 20, and I had a victimless accident. The Mini caught fire, and I had to be pulled out of the burning car. Ania Anicca immediately went to the police, while I was passed out, and said

“I think he was trying to kill himself. He took Ambian.”

But how did Ania Anicca spin it, playing victim all the way, when she tells other people the story? 

  • 9:31pm Dj-vj Exeris when she left she left him with everything
    the apartment
    even paid for the apartment for a whole year
    gave him half of her 401K
  • 9:32pm John He said she caused him to get a DUI because he was trying to get away from her while fighting
    Said Shee lost him three jobs and two apartments
    Lost him his car
    She tell you anything About that?
  • 9:32pm Dj-vj Exeris he got a DUI because he swallowed a whole jar of ambien or some other such pills and then got into a car
    he didnt have to do that
    she didnt make him do that
    you see how he is not taking responsibility for his actions? (Author’s note – JAR???? Also, there are details missing to that explanation, as she full well knows.)
  • 9:33pm John He said he did not get half her 401k she paid for an apartment so she wouldn’t have no eviction on her record
  • 9:33pm Dj-vj Exeris he wrecked his car
  • 9:33pm John He told me about that but why was she fighting with him? (Author’s note – first time asked. Pay attention. This is a tactic Ania uses.)
  • 9:33pm Dj-vj Exeris she saved both of them from having an eviction on their record. she didnt have to do that
  • 9:34pm John He told me all that. But why was she fighting with him and why did he leave?
    She saved herself from having an eviction then
  • 9:34pm Dj-vj Exeris the point is he took the pills and got into the car
  • 9:34pm John Look I sorta don’t care but none of this makes sense
    Why did he leave?
  • 9:35pm Dj-vj Exeris didnt he tell you?
    leaving is not a crime, but getting into a car after taking so many pills is
  • 9:35pm John Because she was fighting with him and she tried that domestic violence thing before so he left
  • 9:35pm Dj-vj Exeris he was lucky not to have killed anyone (Author’s note – Avoidance.)
  • 9:36pm John He said he wished they’d left him in his burning car after finding out what she did
    He has the report where she told them they were fighting and he left
  • 9:36pm Dj-vj Exeris doesnt change the fact that he took a whole bottle of pills and got into a car (Author’s note – Deferral of fault. Still doesn’t acknowledge the FIGHT.)
  • 9:36pm John Then calmly told then she thought he was trying to kill himself and what he took
    Was she fighting with him?
    Did she try to do that before?
    You seein where it makes no sense?
    It was his place why would he leave?
  • 9:37pm Dj-vj Exeris makes sense that if he was laying passed out she would be afraid for his life and tell the police he took pills (Author’s note – HOW does that answer the question, and what does that have to do with the question? )
  • 9:38pm John Unless she was fighting with him and he didn’t want to deal with her lying to the cops
  • 9:38pm Dj-vj Exeris and its not her fault he took the pills
    and got into a car (Author’s note – STILL avoiding that fight point, isn’t she? Deferral and deflection. Narcissism one oh one.)
  • 9:38pm John Why was she fighting with him? (Author’s note – This is the THIRD time this question has been asked DIRECTLY.)
  • 9:38pm Dj-vj Exeris he could have killed someone (Author’s note – Deflected again. You get the point, so I will not point it out any longer.)
  • 9:39pm John Why was she fighting with him? (Author’s note – This is the FOURTH time this question has been asked DIRECTLY.)
  • 9:39pm Dj-vj Exeris lots of people fight
  • 9:39pm John Why was she fighting with him? (Author’s note – This is the FIFTH time this question has been asked DIRECTLY.)
  • 9:39pm Dj-vj Exeris but who takes a bottle of pills and gets into a car? (Author’s note – Avoidance. Attempting to put the onus upon the victim. Victim blaming.)
  • 9:39pm John Why was she fighting with him? (Author’s note – This is the SIXTH time this question has been asked DIRECTLY.)
  • 9:39pm Dj-vj Exeris that is really irresponsible (Author’s note – OMISSION and victim blaming.)
  • 9:39pm John Why was she fighting with him? (Author’s note – This is the SEVENTH time this question has been asked DIRECTLY.)
  • 9:40pm Dj-vj Exeris beyond irresponsible
    he could have killed someone (Author’s note – Further attempt at redirection from the TRUTH.)
  • 9:40pm John Look it looks like he’s not the only one avoiding their issues (Author’s note – Obviously THEY are avoiding more than I am.)
  • 9:40pm Dj-vj Exeris sounds like they were both arguing with each other
    and it sounds like they did that a lot
  • 9:41pm John I deal with psych patients all the time and she hasn’t accepted her fault in anything That’s just my two cents
  • 9:41pm Dj-vj Exeris sounds like it was a good thing that the relationship ended (Author’s note – Here’s where the Narcissistic Personality Disorder aspect of Ania Ziolkowska REALLY shows. All that yogaall that mediationIndiaNepal, and still THE EXACT SAME ISSUES. Actually, DUE to all of that, she has gotten WORSE.)
  • 9:41pm John I’m not judging, but you might wanna really wonder why she’s really with you.
  • 9:41pm Dj-vj Exeris and you can tell by whats going on now who the victim was all along (Author’s note – YES, we CAN.)
  • 9:42pm John Just lookin out for my boy
  • 9:42pm Dj-vj Exeris he says he is the victim (Author’s note – And Ania Ziolkowska’s words and actions PROVE THAT TO BE TRUE.)

And that’s not even touching on how Ania Anicca, in that conversation, attempted to make a supposed suicide of someone she could care less about ALL ABOUT HER. The facts show, and have repeatedly shown, that domestic abuse against men, by women, is repeatedly and continuously buried, or ignored, on such an accepted social level that it’s just disgusting. But how can you continue to argue about and ignore THIS?

I can tell you a story. It’s a story about when Ania did meth. We had a friend named Brian, who had seen the success I created by how I made and marketed an after hours club in Washington, DC (another thing I regret, as it put me in business with two Jewish cheats, and Narcissists, Ian Morgenstein, WHOM I INVITED IN AFTER IT WAS CREATED, and Uzi Grindler, whom has already been mentioned above – crazy how Ania ran to the sides of the people that cheated both me and her, which is what narcissists do – they go to their own kind), and began to shadow me, to learn how to throw parties himself. I don’t think he ever understood that when I threw a party, it was for the attendees, not to fill my pockets, or inflate my ego. Brian was dealing and addicted to meth. He was over at our house in Alexandria, VA, one night, and he gave it to her to try. I had to go to work. Ania wasn’t working. Fired, again. I asked him not to have it around her, and he gave it to her anyway. I’m preparing to go to work, and Ania is smashing every single glass in the kitchen.

Every

Single

One

I rush into the kitchen to stop her, and she attacks me, tackles me, and I somehow keep us away from the glass on the floor. She’s in her robe, naked underneath, and I have her on her back.

ANIA ANICCA REACHES UP AND CLAWS ME DOWN MY FACE.

I am forced to let her go. I have to go to work, at that time contracted to arrange displays in grocery stores, dried scars on my face, and the women I worked with, as I was the only man, asked me what happened. I was an idiot, constantly covering Ania’s abuse of me, so I lied –

“Our cat clawed me in my sleep. She’s a little feral. She’s a rescue kitten.” 

The woman who was my supervisor stood there and stared at me, grabbed my forearm, and took me to the pharmacy, grabbed a box of “Mecderma”, and told me to buy it and apply it, which I did.

She didn’t believe me. She knew another girl’s claw marks when she saw them.  

However, most of the time, Ania’s abuses were NOT under the influence of drugs. Ania Anicca must have obviously been prejudiced, and felt she could abuse all the black men in her life.

“She used to chase me around the house with pots and pans, trying to hit me with them.” Charles Gudet, another black ex of hers later told me.

Charles told me a lot of things, most of which will be visited upon later, in new blogs, just as we will visit upon Uzi Grindler, and Eva “Annika” Backstrom. “Gone Girl” covers all of this, including the ending, illustrating that even when you think you’re free, they still hatch plots to steal your life. For me, that was Ania Anicca stealing all of my dreams for herself. Okay, I think we will call this “part one”, because there is so much more I could write, but it took me forever to put most of this together, just to get this down for Domestic Abuse Month, which this is, and I literally have a decade of abuse to flesh out. But I had to write this, because, as the cabbie said, someone needs to speak up for abused men, so that someone may as well be me (and a few other men who finally have the courage to speak out.) Domestic Violence, like racial prejudice (another subject we touched upon earlier, and will return to later), is narcissism. Narcissistic Sociopathy, to be more accurate. Also known as narcopathy or psychopathy, and “Gone Girl” shows for all to see, both the prevalence of this, and the completely imbalanced scale upon which it weighs. By the way, did you know that “Twilight”, Ania’s favorite series, she even has the Polish version, “Saga Zmierzch”, which is how she read it (probably so I couldn’t read that she was reading about how she was treating me (Hint: Ania is Edward, NOT Bella. We will explore in a later blog how narcissists, such as Ania, project their personalities on to their victims), is about Domestic Abuse?  “If you’ve suspected that there’s something unhealthy about the relationship between Bella and Edward in the phenomenally successful Twilight series, then it turns out that you’re exactly right. In fact, there are fifteen examples of unhealthiness.” Next time we will explore how Ania, was going to a domestic violence counselor named Lynn Greenfield, in Alexandria, VA, under the advice of Eva “Annika” Backstrom and Uzi “Ozzie” Grindler. The same ones who would watch Ania abuse ME, and knew Ania had knocked out my teeth, remember? Uzi is israeli, and was teaching Ania how to psychologically manipulate the outcome SHE wanted, with the help of getting the abusive relationship checklist from Lynn Greenfield, and how Ania has assimilated in NYC, and all her travels, by essentially mimicking ME. She DID have ten years to learn how to be me, after all. At least on the surface. She’s still empty on the inside.

I usually save these for jabs at “Exeris” (that name, oh my god that NAME.…), but after this post, you all deserve a treat…..

Part two is on it’s way, and comments can be left at the bottom of the page, but always remember……

“La plus belle des ruses du diable est de vous persuader qu’il n’existe pas.” (“The devil’s finest trick is to persuade you that he (or she) does not exist.”)”

~ Charles Baudelaire

Compliments: How the cunning Narcissistic Sociopath guarantees himself a “Cash Cow”

Perfect example of how Chris Sevanick / Chris Exeris manipulates Ania

Perfect example of how Chris Sevanick / Chris Exeris manipulates Ania

“Psychopaths, narcissists, and sociopaths are experts at flattery & charm. Although it feels amazing at first, this idealization is actually responsible for just as much damage as the abuse itself. They set a trap, and it’s a trap that no unsuspecting victim could hope to escape from.

1) By idealizing you, they can expect this attention & adoration to rebound very quickly. Their love-bombing ultimately results in a very quick bond, one where you fall fast and give back all of the “love” you are receiving. In your mind, this individual truly becomes the most passionate, perfect soul mate you could ever imagine. You feel and express this love on a daily basis.

2) You share your excitement about this relationship with all of your friends and family. Often times, they already have a front row seat for this constant flattery. Sites like Facebook ensure that the mutual idealization is visible to the world. It feels good to have our vanities stroked, ignited by all of this public praise. [sic]”

The post above may seem benign, however, it becomes less so, when one is learned and observant enough to understand the modus behind this methodology.

Narcissists will pass themselves off as your soul mate, your perfect match, by mirroring you right back at you. Ania Ziolkowska, in the end, tried to mimic me, thinking I would be attracted to myself. I've never worked that way. But she, as you can see from Chris Exeris, in her narcissism, apparently does.

Narcissists will pass themselves off as your soul mate, your perfect match, by mirroring you right back at you.
Ania Ziolkowska, in the end, tried to mimic me, thinking I would be attracted to myself.
I’ve never worked that way.
But she, as you can see from Chris Exeris, in her narcissism, apparently does.

To truly understand what is happening here, we shall reference the observations of Leon F Seltzer, PhD

“But praise has its dark side, too. Much more than we typically realize, it can constitute a kind of verbal bribery, offered primarily to serve the interest of the person offering it. This post will suggest six ways that praise might be disbursed with the hidden intention of winning your favor, or wrangling something out of you—something you probably wouldn’t be willing to grant otherwise.

If you’re insecure, and so require external confirmation to feel worthwhile or good about yourself, you’ll be especially susceptible to (or a “target” for) disingenuous praise with invisible strings (or a price tag) attached to it. Such praise comes at a cost. Exploitive praisers prey on those with self-esteem deficiencies and seem to have radar for detecting them, They know exactly how to raise your confidence—and reduce your uncertainty—through flattering machinations ultimately designed not for your welfare but their own.”

Or there’s this

1. Complimenting You Often

“Of course, you needn’t automatically assume that every time someone pays you a compliment they are trying to manipulate you into something, but someone who pays you a lot of compliments, particularly if they never did much before may be trying to coax you into something. Watch for sugary compliments in regards to your valuable skills, knowledge and experiences.”

Or this

2. Flattering You Publicly

“A manipulator know that if they make themselves seem like your biggest supporter, and number one fan, you are more likely to feel somewhat indebted to them. Be wary if someone constantly seems to brag on your abilities and accomplishments. You are possibly being manipulated without even realizing it!”

Okay, a little background.
Ania Anicca / Ania Ziolkowska, is herself a narcissistic sociopath, though, in my experience, one of the dumbest and most easily manipulated that I have ever known.
I’ll always remember one of her last statements to me, after she had delved head first into yoga, Vipassana meditation, psytrance, and all the brainwashing those toxic environments provide –

“I’m listening to myself, now”

As WE delve further into past history, where we will begin to illustrate others, such as Eva Annika Backstrom, Uzi Grindler, Debora Jackson, Masuda Mohamadi (the owner of Radiance Yoga), and even Christoff Ziolkowska, Ania’s own father, and how she would tell me she was listening to herself, while actually following the instructions of everyone else but her own mind.

You know that guy, the guy that hangs around your girlfriend, (or, in this case, WIFE), and says things like

“If anything ever happens to (insert your name here) I’ll always be there for you…..”

You know.

The creeper

That, in it’s entirety, is Chris Exeris / Chris Sevanick / Christopher Michael Sevanick.

Chris Sevanick is “That Guy”

“Love Bombing”

Love bombing is an attempt to influence a person by lavish demonstrations of attention and affection. The phrase can be used in different ways. Members of the Unification Church (who reportedly coined the expression) use or have used it themselves to mean a genuine expression of friendship, fellowship, interest, or concern. Critics of cults use the phrase with the implication that the “love” is feigned and the practice is manipulative. It has also been used to refer to abusers in romantic relationships showering their victims with praise, gifts, and affection in the early stages of a relationship.

Love bombing is an attempt to influence a person by lavish demonstrations of attention and affection. The phrase can be used in different ways. Members of the Unification Church (who reportedly coined the expression) use or have used it themselves to mean a genuine expression of friendship, fellowship, interest, or concern. Critics of cults use the phrase with the implication that the

Love bombing is an attempt to influence a person by lavish demonstrations of attention and affection. The phrase can be used in different ways. Members of the Unification Church (who reportedly coined the expression) use or have used it themselves to mean a genuine expression of friendship, fellowship, interest, or concern. Critics of cults use the phrase with the implication that the “love” is feigned and the practice is manipulative. It has also been used to refer to abusers in romantic relationships showering their victims with praise, gifts, and affection in the early stages of a relationship.

Love Bombing is a tool that narcissistic sociopaths, such as Ania and Chris use, and use well, until you know precisely what it is.

Ania Love Bombing Chris She tried this with me often, and I could tell it was insincere then, as it is now

Ania Love Bombing Chris
She tried this with me often, and I could tell it was insincere then, as it is now Both elect to ignore she’s still married, though.

As for “Amazing Communication”, something that will be revisited later, Ania cannot blame ME for that –

Ania stopped communicating with me, And then decided we should get married Just like everything else concerning me, her refusal to communicate without hurting is an after thought, buried in a bunch of other diversions.

Ania stopped communicating with me, And then decided we should get married Just like everything else concerning me, her refusal to communicate without hurting is an after thought, buried in a bunch of other diversions.

Narcissists are notorious for treating the general public better than the people closest to them. Why is this? Narcissists are intensely concerned with the quality of their public image, or

What you see is NEVER what you get.

It’s a trap, a snare, one they lay on thicker than a child icing their first baked cake with their mother.
And one they both used on one another, as can be seen by the screen shot above, and this, below

Ania Love bombing Chris on the Brooklyn Bridge, July 1, 2012

Ania Love bombing Chris on the Brooklyn Bridge, July 1, 2012

Ania And Chris, on the first night in NYC

Ania And Chris, on the first night in NYC

This is a walk they took on their first night in New York City, which is something Ania has her mates do every time she cons them to moving to a new city

Ania Anicca talking about our first night in Old Town She tries to repeat instances of previous relationships in new relationships, because narcissists are incapable of originality. Her Journals will make appearances in future blogs entries.

Ania Anicca talking about our first night in Old Town
She tries to repeat instances of previous relationships in new relationships, because narcissists are incapable of originality.
Her Journals will make appearances in future blogs entries.

Remember, this is 2 years after Ania called me an “Ignorant Ass Nigger”…..

Okay, enough of that. This is about Chris Exeris, and how he manipulates others, in this case, with praise and flattery.

Which brings us back to Love Bombing.
The definition above is a good synopsis, however there are better, more descriptive explanations –

This can take many forms. Excessive texting, constant comments on your social network page, emails, telephone calls, or just literally bombarding you verbally in face to face communication. He might overwhelm you with gifts and will constantly flatter you. It feels overwhelming, you are swept off your feet.

At first you will not perceive this as bombardment. You will initially be flattered that he is paying so much attention to you. He will leave you small love notes, send you sweet texts, it is like something from a movie. That’s because it is like that, its more fiction than reality.

Already he has assessed you, and he is now mirroring you, so he is reflecting back to you exactly what you want to hear. But he wants control over you. He wouldn’t have your full attention or control, if you were busy doing other things.

This is an important manipulation tool for a sociopath, love bombing does the following things.

Or, from the same source

“Love bombing is effective, as it moves the relationship forward very quickly. You might spend 10 hours talking on a telephone conversation. Or might receive constant text messages during the day. Numerous emails, or Facebook contact.

This is mind control. The message that you receive is:

It blinds you to reality

It is important for the sociopath to move the relationship forward very quickly. If he didn’t you might notice that there is a lack of friends from his past. You might notice that he doesn’t actually have a job. You might notice that he doesn’t actually earn what he says he does.

His motive, is always control. By love bombing you, he effectively, in a very short space of time, has control over you. Ownership. He isolates you from other people. You can, within a very short space of time, feel that you have been with someone for 3 years, or that have that feeling that you have known this person all of your life. This gives you the false impression that this man is your soul mate. Someone special, that you do not want to let go of. It feels good.

And it’s that flattery, that “feel good factor”, that they use to get you to do whatever they want.
I find it humorous, almost baffling, that Ania did not even notice her same tool, her trick, being used on her, as she has used it on so many before her, however, that is precisely what has happened.
Chris uses a similar tool on so many others. It’s how he has so many so devoted to him.
So easy to stroke the Id, that no one even bothers to see if it is real, or genuine, or not…….

“Feel good factor

Having all this attention, will feel good. In your mind, you reason that this is the right person. This is special. This is my soul mate.  We rarely want to let go of that ‘feel good’ feeling. And not forgetting that a sociopath will often target someone who has needs, perhaps they are lonely. And he walks in and fulfills this part more than well.

Within a short period of time, he will be staying at your place regularly. Your friends and family might raise an eyebrow at how quickly this has progressed. But you reassure them, thinking, ‘they do not know how this feels, it feels so absolutely RIGHT’.”

And this following part applies to both of them. I mean, Ania needed a place to live, without begging back to me and actually apologizing, and Chris needed the extra funds to move to NYC (But we’ll go into the details of that in a later blog).
And, how else could the failure of a tour he’s been on for a year (which has mostly been Poland and Berlin), been accomplished, if Ania’s family didn’t have an apartment in Warsaw (her expired grandmother’s old home, that we were supposed to live in, and raise our children in)?

Of course Chris has out manipulated Ania.

London is so expensive! (Because Ania is paying for everything)

London is so expensive! (Because Ania is paying for everything)

That post was made so it won’t seem as though Chris is COMPLETELY living off of Ania…….

London is so Expensive, because Ania is paying for everything That has to be embarrassing, so Ania helps to cover their embarrassment

London is so Expensive, because Ania is paying for everything
That has to be embarrassing, so Ania helps to cover their embarrassment

However, if that doesn’t hit home, there’s also this one

Must be nice to have someone Buy a laptop for themselves, just for YOUR own sole usage, huh, Chris?

Must be nice to have someone Buy a laptop for themselves, just for YOUR own sole usage, huh, Chris?

Not too long ago (2012), Chris was speaking as though he was the one buying a new laptop, however, how did that happen, if his is still 6 years old?
And then you realize, and I do have the post where Ania says so, as she was literally GIVING him HER laptop, to take to the Sahara desert, that Ania bought the laptop, probably from whatever she had left from the 401K she used me to cash out, so he could use it.
Of course, this begs the question of how Chris can help anyone buy a laptop, when he doesn’t even know how to fix one?

I always fixed our computers when Ania was abusing me.

But, the interesting development, is that he’s recently begun to come forward and state it’s Ania’s Laptop, and not his own.
Wonder what brought that on?
Because she now controls where they live and how they live and he doesn’t?

But, again, I digress…..

See, Chris manipulates Ania, through flattery and Love Bombing, so she will continue to “buy” his love, just as he manipulates others the same exact way.
It’s amazing how many have not even bothered to notice this, because, like Ania, they are so desperate to have their egos stroked, they never bother to see that they are actually being manipulated.
He turned the tables on her, and her codependency has allowed him to manipulate her to no end.

This is the emotional abuser’s trap. They are invincible. They groom you to shower them with praise & adoration, so you effectively checkmate yourself once the abuse begins. Survivors often find their own friends taking the side of their abuser. It’s devastating, and this trap is the final nail in the psychopathic coffin.

She is, in essence, His “Cash Cow”.

And why buy that cow, when you can get the milk, the barn, and even her own grain, for free, right?

Truth be told, I have several other examples of this, and may revisit this in a future time, however, to be honest, I truly despise formatting in wordpress, which is why I don’t write as often as I would like.

Satya – Revisited: Her twisted mind

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In yoga, as part of the Yamas and Niyamas, you will learn of Satya, or “truth”. However, as it seems all in Yoga are hedonistic and live in only their “Id” ego construct, they will also do whatever they can to escape blame and fault.  –

“The id acts according to the “pleasure principle”, seeking to avoid pain or unpleasure (not ‘displeasure’) aroused by increases in instinctual tension.”

An Antisocial Personality disorder will do ANYTHING to defend their REPUTATION, including moving to a new city and convincing people of the “NEW ME”, even Playing for pity is a tool used –

Subtypes Of Antisocial Behavior: Theodore Milton identified five subtypes for antisocial behavior; however, someone with Antisocial Personality Disorder may experience none or many of these subtypes:

  1. Malevolent Antisocial – includes paranoid, sadistic traits.
  2. Covetous Antisocial – variation of the pure pattern wherein the individual feels that life has been excessively unfair.
  3. Risk-Taking Antisocial – includes histrionic traits.
  4. Reputation-Defending Antisocial – includes narcissistic traits.
  5. Nomadic Antisocial – includes schizoidavoidant features.

Antisocial Personality Disorders also NEVER APOLOGIZE.
Ania Ziolkowska Never apologized unless she was TOLD TO.

Ania Ziolkowksa has completed Yoga Teacher Training and has even been to India.
These are from Ania Ziolkowska to myself (the originals can be provided upon request)

You can see where Ania Ziolkowska attempts to defend her reputation –

On Feb 11, 2011, at 12:03, Anna Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

The first statement is about as ego filled as can be. the remainder is just you going to your friends again, and not being able to think for yourself. and what do you think you are doing letting people read personal emails between us? the emails are meant for your eyes only.
(Author’s note: remember that sociopaths work to keep their abuses and manipulations PRIVATE.)

Ania Ziolkowska Destroys and runs. Here she is dancing at Riou, In queens, at Psychill Psysundays. Ania Ziolkowska Knocked out my teeth, then

Ania Ziolkowska Destroys and runs. Here she is dancing at Riou, In queens, at Psychill Psysundays.
Ania Ziolkowska Knocked out my teeth, then “punished” herself by jumping on another dick, and partying around New York City.

Ania Ziolkowska will say, later, in the emails below, that she did, in fact, apologize.

Below is the supposed apology from Ania Ziolkowska –

On Nov 29, 2010, at 12:03, Anna Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

I had a couple of insights at the meditation. Both concerned my behavior in relationships with others. The first was in relation to my relationship with Charles, the second, with my parents. I realized that I was certainly not faultless no …matter what my perceptions at the time were. When I was a small child, I thought I was faultless and I could not understand how I could have been punished for anything. Instead of seeing how I could be making my parents life less stressful, I only saw the pain that was being caused to me. I could not see them as human beings with feelings themselves. I figured that as parents who demanded utmost respect and authority, they must have been on the path themselves. Now as an adult myself, I see that that was not necessarily the case. The other insight concerned my relationship with Charles. I was bitter that he did not give me the love and affection that I expected from a relationship, and so I acted out. I did not have he skill of communication. I was immature. I pushed him further away.

As for my relationship with you, I think it began similarly with me continuing this with you. I had certain expectations of what a relationship should be like, and how the perfect partner should behave, that I did not see my own faults. For years this trend continued till I finally began to find my own way thru meditation and yoga. But you might not be ready to allow me to change. You still remember me as this little brat who would throw fits when she didn’t get her way, and feel I need to pay for this before I am allowed to move forward into happiness. Perhaps you feel that for years I made your life miserable, and now do not deserve to be happy. I can understand where you would be coming from especially in light of the most recent events of drama in our lives. Know that I have always done and am continuing to do the best that I can. I am sure that I have hurt many along the way including you as I was coming from a place of pain myself. I am sorry for hurting you.

Sent from Ania’s iPad

It may seem like an “apology”, however, notice the date? Notice the date of the messages that preceded it?
Ania Ziolkowska’s supposed apology was just another act, one she had played so many times before, that I fell for so many times, but was no longer going to fall for ever again.

Basically, Ania Ziolkowska has, though she refuses to realize this, DESCRIBED HERSELF AS A SOCIOPATH –

“Ultimately, the sociopath typically emotionally destroys those who are close to him or her, but the sociopath destroys them in a way consistent with their unique approach to others: They take them out like your average person kills off characters in a video game. Those in the wake of the sociopath suffer because they have the liability sociopaths don’t: actual human feelings that stem from a deep sense of social obligations to others, a moral anchor that is supposed to be part and parcel of having relationships.

The sense of entitlement that comes with sociopathy is astonishing to those who abide by the social laws and conventions of our culture. Where does the entitlement come from? It stems from an underlying sense of rage. Sociopaths feel deeply angry and resentful underneath their often-charming exterior, and this rage fuels their sense that they have the right to act out in whichever way they happen to choose at the time. Everything is up for grabs with sociopaths and nothing is off limits.

In relationships, sociopaths are the epitome of Machiavellian creatures. If they were astrological signs, they would be Geminis, with two distinct ‘selfs’ at work. They are duplicity incarnate, with a polished self shown to the world and a covert, hidden self that has a rigid and calculating agenda: assume the highest level of the social hierarchy and win, win, win. It is often the kindest and most trusting individuals who suffer the most at the hands of sociopaths, and the healing process for these individuals continues long after the relationship has ended. Those in the wake of the sociopath are often left wondering, What happened to me? Why does this one individual have such a powerful effect on me?”

Basically, Ania Ziolkowska is a sociopath, pretending to be a yogi.
And she, like all blinded by the new age, want’s a free pass.

Ania Ziolkowska refuses to see there are steps to apology, that, after years of abuse, expect to just say “sorry”, and it all brushes under the carpet, expect it all to suddenly change to what SHE wants.

See, that supposed apology may seem like an apology on the SURFACE, however what it really is, is just another sociopathic manipulation. It’s a way for her to seem as though she made an effort, when no effort was made at all.

It’s the average narcissistic sociopath manipulation, blurring the lines, so that she seems the victim.

Ania Ziolkowska has just found a new mask to don, a new part to play.

That should have been made clear, due to the fact the “apology” came in 2010, and the correspondence that preceded it, came in 2011.

That mask fell away quickly, because it was apparent to her that I wasn’t falling or it.

It should be obvious, no change was made at all.

Also, that apology is no apology at all, and her supposed apology to ME is an AFTER THOUGHT.

Narcissists, especially female narcissists, deserves oscars for their performances. They are relentless actors, and masters of crocodile tears. They'll put on a show, IF they ever apologize (rarely), but will somehow make that apology all about themselves.

Narcissists, especially female narcissists, deserve oscars for their performances.
They are relentless actors, and masters of crocodile tears.

Ania Ziolkowska is one of the only people on the planet that can make apologizing to some ELSE all about HER.

Narcissists, especially female narcissists, deserve Oscars for their performances.

They are relentless actors, and masters of crocodile tears.

They’ll put on a show, IF they ever apologize (rarely), but will somehow make that apology all about themselves.

And they’ll cry. Especially the females. They’ll cry, make you feel uncomfortable, and manipulate you, and then go right back to acting the same way they acted before.

Apology has three stages:

An acknowledgment that admits what you’ve done (and without being asked, or told, you must apologize), restitution (making up for what you’ve done), and EFFORT (ensuring you do not repeat that action, or SIMILAR actions).

A narcissist will play with this.

They will put on the show to manipulate you into forgiving them, they’ll expect to SKIP that restitution step, and they’ll play with the effort part, gaslighting you into believing they didn’t do the SAME EXACT thing, so how can they be at fault when they knowingly do something similar, AGAIN?

Now begins the display of her sociopathic delusions, Do not believe the flattery she so freely lavishes about. It’s another manipulation I refused to fall for

Ania Ziolkowska, Still married to me, no legal separation, committing adultery with Chris M Sevanick / Chris Exeris

Ania Ziolkowska / Ania Anicca , Still married to me, no legal separation, committing adultery with Chris M Sevanick / Chris Exeris

On Jan 31, 2011, at 5:14, Ania Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

I read your journals because I was in love with you. I wanted to know everything about how brilliant you were. I was in awe of you. I am sorry this hurt you, as that was not my intention. I called Ross because I wanted a guys perspective, but also from someone who loved you because I wanted to give you the benefit of doubt. I wanted to understand you because I loved you. Same with the situation with your mom. She loves you and will always love you no matter what. I felt safe sharing my worries with her and did so from the perspective of someone who also loved you. I never cheated on you with Long. There was nothing at all physical that happened between us. As for Joel and Liz, yes I lied a lot. I am sorry. I did not mean to hurt you. I respect you and was and am remorseful. With time my interests began to change, and I made friends. I never said for you not to go to yoga or hooping with me. I do not like for anyone to be disrespected. Not me, not you, not my friends, not my family, not my coworkers. No one. I did not call your job and tell them you were suicidal. At yogaville, I told you not to visit because I was studying. You came and brought Shiro. You sat in the rain and made people worry for me thru your emails and behavior. I wasn’t talking to people about you. You sent the emails. You got people talking. I can only take so much. Eventually my emotions get the best of me and I begin to fall apart and then I finally talk for support, but not out of hate. You came to my job and the police came there. I talked about you at work as little as possible. Always out of love not hate. I do not want anyone to think you are a horrible person. I do not want to be in the middle of hate between anyone. I do not want to be around people that hate you.

Sent from Ania’s iPad

Pawel Tulin & Ania Ziolkowska Ania Anicca Pawel lied to me and stated he did not know them - See the Psytrance Cults Blog - Not realizing I already knew he was lying

Pawel Tulin & Ania Ziolkowska
Pawel lied to me and stated he did not know them – See the Psytrance Cults Blog

NO. Ania, like every sociopath, read my journals to learn how to pick me apart, control, and manipulate me. I was respectful enough to never read her journals, at least until after she left, and intentionally left them behind. Her leaving her journals behind, was like the protagonist in “Gone Girl”, another way to manipulate and still come off as the victim.

On Jan 31, 2011, at 3:50, Hector Barrientos-Bullcok <********@gmail.com> wrote:

Early 2001 you go through my things in my room and read things that are personal to me without permission from me. Sometime in 2002 you call Ross to ask him some personal questions concerning me instead of speaking with me about it like a rational person. Sometime in 2003, I let you go to the club with Long, Completely trusting you, and I find out after that you have a crush on your co-worker, Long. While that’s happening you tell others I am the problem, it’s all my fault. It’s all about you. Sometime in 2004, we meet Joel and Liz and YOU decide you want to have a lesbian experience with Liz. I point out that this is not a good idea and you try to go through with it anyway, making a further mess of our relationship. You LIE to me for a month about everything that occurred during this incident, including being in touch with Liz for that time. You establish at that time you are capable of lying without remorse and that you have absolutely no respect for me in any way. Multiple incidents after this, but sometime in 2005 you decide to talk to my mother about how I am supposedly a horrible person, while not realizing she has witnessed how horrible a person you are and how much patience I have had with you. Again, multiple incidents, but sometime in 2010 you choose to meet your new friends, you create incidents that have no reason to be as problematic as you make them but you choose to anyway, further illustrating your disrespect of me. Incident occurs over the summer after a canoeing trip with Brandon, Katie, and Angelina wherein you disrespect me, friends that are doing you a favor AND saving you money, then you punctuate that by further disrespecting me due to a mistake YOU made on the way home. You did again what you did with Joel and Liz, making a mistake, attempting to make me look at fault for your mistake, and then using the pity caused by that align yourself with people I initially took the initiative in meeting. Not able to make friends on your own HONESTLY, but able to steal the ones I make for US, DISHONESTLY. Again you messed up and ran to SOMEONE ELSE. 2010, you state you are not saying negative things about me, only for me to find out you are, then I demand a public apology, as I was sick of you embarrassing me publicly and you renege of that and also talk to people you told me you were not talking to. You go to marriage counseling, make an agreement, and then violate it immediately. You align yourself with someone I have had to hear from for years about how much you and his girlfriend look alike and had just recently confirmed want to be swingers. You call a friend in LA and destroy the vacation I had prepared for myself, my vacation from you, so I could get MY head sorted out, and then force me to go to PEX with you. You lose my apartment for me, you call my job and tell them I am suicidal, you create so much negativity I am pushed to my wits end and I have done nothing, NOTHING to deserve any of this treatment, whether it be the past years I have been more than patient with you, or whether it be the last few months. You tell your parents I have done things I have not done, you tell your friends a warped version of events (And then send me a BULLSHIT email 2 DAYS AGO about how it’s all perception. Facts are facts, and perception does not color facts.) You have an intimate encounter at PEX, in an environment any idiot could see was sexually charged, and then act as though I am just too thin skinned and I just need to get over it. You asked me questions in some previous emails?

Since you refuse to see reality as it is I will say this: YOU are too thin skinned. Get over it.

  • Couldn’t forget THIS one. It’s where Ania Ziolkowsia admits to trying to cheat on me with Elizabeth Stephens. She also lies about how she speaks about people, as you already know, and can see in the emails before this. Ania Ziolkowska is not capable of saying ONE HONEST THING.
    By the time Ania Ziolkowska had written that email, she had had both a lesbian experience and threesome experience, adulterously, with Eva Annika Backstrom, and Uzi Grindler (More will come on those two, later), and had already begun her adulterous relationship with Chris Exeris (Christopher Michael Sevanick)

Also, Ania Ziolkowska would always tell me

“You are too thin skinned.”

And, again, Ania Ziolkowska is LYING about calling my Job.
Denise Kane is willing to give a statement to this. Denise Kane was MY BOSS THAT ANIA CALLED AND TOLD I WAS SUICIDAL, which I WAS NOT AT THAT TIME. That came after all this. Ania Ziolkowska lies about not talking about me.

Email from Simon Padgham about her talking to him about divorce, but above she says she talked to NO ONE in YOGAVILLE about me –

Begin forwarded message:

From: Simon Padgham <simon@simonpadgham.com>

Date: September 6, 2010 10:03:22 AM EDT

To: annaziolko1@gmail.com

Subject: Hey Ania

Hi Ania,

How are you doing? I’m sorry that I didn’t get to say goodbye to you before you left Yogaville but I thought you were staying on for a few days. Anna and I came back late on Sunday and you’d already gone! So how are you doing? I hope you’ve managed to make all those big changes in your life that you were planning to do and things have been working out for you. Its always very hard to make such big changes and have the courage to walk away from things that may provide security, familiarity or safety but if you know deep down that they don’t serve you or that you don’t want them you have to do what is necessary to move on, grow and change. Otherwise you’re just going to stress yourself out massively, make yourself ill and be generally unhappy. Its hard to thrive, be at your best and reach your potential if you are working against yourself and compromising yourself I find. Still what you were planning to do requires courage, support and having to face many of fears. Have you talked to Anna at all? She has done what she intended to do and, despite continual stresses and problems, seems to be moving in the right direction for her. Maybe you should drop her a line? So are you going to come back here? There is lots to do and plenty of need for a lady of your talents! Michael mentioned that he had invited you back if you needed to return. Well, life here at Yogaville has been pretty good. The first few days after all you guys left was very strange for me. I felt pretty lonely and a bit down……but then so did Michael so I’m guessing that was a pretty normal thing to feel, especially after such an eventful and emotional month. I saw Satya today and she likened a place to a morgue last week!! So funny coming from her! I was quite busy and involved last week with the Taiwanese group which provided a nice distraction and kept me occupied. It was quite nice to sit in on their lectures and join them for morning practice. This week I have been doing the Structural Yoga Therapy course with Mukunda Stiles, which has been quite entertaining and eye opening. I have to admit I find all the A&P stuff very dry and I do tend to switch off when he does diagnostics and starts looking at people’s knees! He does talk a lot about Ayurveda and the Sutras though, which is more my thing. We finished the course on Friday and I then went to Charlottesville to pick up a rental car. I just want to be able to get about, go shopping and eat some different food every know and then. I am finding that I really need to eat some animal protein as I am feeling a bit weak and seem to be constantly hungry. My Ayurvedic doctor has told me to get some meat at all costs as soon as I can. I had thought about trying to snare the squirrels or deer hear but I don’t think that would go down too well! Only kidding! I’m going to keep the car for couple of weeks so Michael and I are planning a trip away for 4 or 5 days to the Outer Banks in NC. He loves it there and knows the place inside out so I’m happy to drive if he navigates and plans everything. Apparently he knows this great place to get freshly caught Yellow Fin tuna, which is supposed to be sublime. Sounds good to me. I imagine we’ll go next week or the week after, certainly in Sept and before the split TT starts…….which we are both involved in staffing for Swami Dyananda. The weather here is so much nicer now. The intense humidity and heat has gone and has been replaced with those lovely cool air. Its still beautifully sunny and hot but just no humidity. Its perfect for hiking and cycling, which I’ve been doing a lot of lately. Michael and I are off out this afternoon I think. He knows all the great places around here so I’m making use of his knowledge whilst I can before he leaves in early October! So I’d better get a move on an get ready. I’ve laundry and some major room cleaning to do before lunch. Anyway, you take care Ania. Namaste, Simon

One lie after the next.

Notice the date of THIS email and the dates of the others?

Notice how Ania Ziolkowska thought she could manipulate me even AFTER I already had all the facts?

That’s also a trait of AntiSocial Personality Disorder.

Even after her Yoga Teacher Training, Ania Ziolkowska still kept lying.

Ania Ziolkowska was violent with me.

Ania Ziolkowska had me sit her on a kitchen counter, so we could, I thought, TALK, and then proceeded to head butte me in the mouth, knocking out my front teeth, as she leaned back and smiled at her work.

And I never hit Ania Ziolkowksa.

I never touched her.

Ania Ziolkowska would begin physical fights, then, as I RESTRAINED her, she would say –

“I’ll call the police. You’re black and I’m a girl.”

Ania Ziolkowska is an Aries, by the Zodiac –

Ania Ziolkowska Ania Anicca is an Aries, by her birthday, which just happens to be April 1, 1976

Ania Ziolkowska is an Aries, by her birthday, which just happens to be April 1, 1976

(Ania Ziolkowska / Ania Anicca has a terrible habit of having photos taken of her while she is high on Ecstasy)

I NEVER cheated on Ania Ziolkowska / Ania Anicca , while it is obvious SHE commits adultery, FREELY Again, high on E, at the Third Eye Rave, in Washington, DC, January 26, 2012

I NEVER cheated on Ania Ziolkowska / Ania Anicca , while it is obvious SHE commits adultery, FREELY
Again, high on E, at the Third Eye Rave, in Washington, DC, January 26, 2012

I NEVER cheated on Ania Ziolkowska / Ania Anicca , while it is obvious SHE commits adultery, FREELY Again, high on E, at the Third Eye Rave, in Washington, DC, January 26, 2012

I NEVER cheated on Ania Ziolkowska / Ania Anicca , while it is obvious SHE commits adultery, FREELY
Again, high on E, at the Third Eye Rave, in Washington, DC, January 26, 2012

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Ania Ziolkowska / Ania Anicca high on MDMA infecting our Siamese, Shiro
MDMA comes out through your pores and infects cats through their pores.

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Ania Ziolkowska / Ania Anicca high on MDMA infecting our Siamese, Shiro
MDMA comes out through your pores and infects cats through their pores.

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Eva Annika Backstrom high on MDMA

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Eva Annika Backstrom high on MDMA

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Eva Annika Backstrom high on MDMA

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Annika Backstrom high on MDMA

Ania on MDMA, Infecting our cat, Shiro

Ania Ziolkowska / Ania Anicca high on MDMA infecting our Siamese, Shiro
MDMA comes out through your pores and infects cats through their pores.

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Ania Ziolkowska / Ania Anicca thinks she’s a model when she’s high on MDMA

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Ania Ziolkowska / Ania Anicca thinks she’s a model when she’s high on MDMA

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Ania Ziolkowska / Ania Anicca thinks she’s a model when she’s high on MDMA

Below is Ania Plotting with her mother, while lying to me. You will have to run the text through google translate, as they thought I couldn’t translate the polish –

From: Gosia Ziolkowska <gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com>

Date: August 26, 2010 4:54:31 PM EDT

To: Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com>

Subject: Re: rozne

If you are both responsible for lease payment, if you leave and stop paying your share, he will have to pick up your share. If he does not and the apartament management does not receive the full monthly payment, they will make him move out. If he picks up your share and pays the full montly rent , he will stay and later if you decide to divorce, I am sure he will make you return the money, but it will be money you owe him and it will not break yur credit record. what if you write a statement and send it with registered mail and keep track of delivery and keep the original – a statement to the apartament management that you are not able to continue staying in the apartament for personal resons . The besst reason is if you have legal paper like restraining order or seperation papers. Please check what needs to be done, So many couples split, break lease etc , it has to be a way out. —

On Thu, 8/26/10, Ania<annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

From: Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com>

Subject: Re: rozne

To: “Gosia Ziolkowska” <gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com>

Date: Thursday, August 26, 2010, 3:17 PM

Wrzystko ok. Byłam w kinie z Kasią.  Dzięki za troskę. Zadzwonie jutro.

On Aug 26, 2010, at 2:29 PM, Gosia Ziolkowska <gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com> wrote:

jestesmy w domu czy mozesz zadzwonic na Mokotow Caly czas o tobie myslimy i rozmawiamy Zadzwon to Victorii. Ona mi powiedziala tydzien temu zebyscie dzwonily do niej jak problem. Kasia ma komorke Victorii i rowniez Hanki —

On Mon, 8/23/10, Ania<aniazmail@gmail.com> wrote:

From: Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com>

Subject: Re: rozne

To: “Gosia Ziolkowska” <gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com>

Date: Monday, August 23, 2010, 5:08 PM

Wrzyystko ok. Jestem w pracy.  rozmawiam z Grzesiem.

On Aug 23, 2010, at 4:15 PM, Gosia Ziolkowska <gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com> wrote:

Aniu, co slychac, gdzie mieszkasz czy bylas w pracy czy wszystko w porzadku wrocilismy wlasnie do domu —

On Sun, 8/22/10, Ania<annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

From: Ania <aniazmail@gmail.com>

Subject: Re: rozne

To: “Gosia Ziolkowska” <gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com>

Date: Sunday, August 22, 2010, 6:22 PM

Nie martw się. Będzie ok.

On Aug 22, 2010, at 5:57 PM, Gosia Ziolkowska <gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com> wrote: —

On Sun, 8/22/10, Gosia Ziolkowska<gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com>wrote:

From: Gosia Ziolkowska <gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com>

Subject: rozne

To: annaziolko1@gmail.com

Date: Sunday, August 22, 2010, 5:51 PM

pisze tylko po polsku, bo moze on ma dostep do twojej poczty szukalam na google i jest duzo informacj napisz na google how to get restraining order in virginia i pisze jaka jest procedura jakie sa rodzaje orders na przyklad stalking/ abuse etc i jakie sa forms, gdzie to sie starac. dlatego powiedzialam ci zeby isc do shelter dla kobiet bo oni tam codziennie pomagaja i wiedza co zrobic i jak pomoc kobiecie nie ma co sie obrazac , bo sa ksiazki i filmy, ze to sie zdarza i kobieta ktora sie wstydzi isc nie dostanie pomocy. tu te services sa dobrze zorganizowane. Jesli planujesz Aniu wyjazd gdzie indziej tak jak do Polski , to pamietaj ,ze twoje 4 tygodnie podybu na obozie nic nie pomogly. trzeba najpierw zaczac cos robic , zeby czas na ciebie pracowal. jesli twoja decyzja jest wystapic o seperacje to zrob to przed wyjazdem. co do mieszkania to nie mam pojecia jak to zrobic i to trzeba sie dowiedziec. pozdrawiam bardzo sie o ciebie martwie

Ania Ziolkowska made such a mess of THIS one, I’ll let YOU figure it out, however, notice the cognitive dissonance, attempts at manipulation, the backtracking, and the “I can do it to you, but you can’t do it to me” mindset that is indicative of Antisocial and Narcissistic personality disorders.
And don’t be fooled by the flattery she offers. They do this in further attempts to manipulate their prey.

———- Forwarded message ———-

From: Ania Ziolkowska <annaziolko69@gmail.com>
Date: Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 1:56 PM
Subject: Re: relationship
To: HVBB Gmail <*******@gmail.com>

How is not cheating advers to trying to cheat? Both are not cheating. The only diff is that in one you accuse me of not doing something which I didn’t do. Were both agreeing that I didn’t cheat.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 19:22, HVBB Gmail <*********@gmail.com> wrote:

You are so self important you can’t even read what’s in front of you. I can put your response against the message you are responding to and it shows you blatantly tried to confuse the point, something you always do verbally, in writing this time. Why don’t you re-read the original message and see who you are REALLY calling a liar? Correct, I didn’t cheat, which is the adverse of you trying to many times. I compared you to me, and showed I was faithful while you were always disrespectful and self absorbed with no regard for anyone but you, but you state I am the one in search of a potty party for stating the facts? See how that works? See, you made yourself self important. You continue to make yourself self important and you also neglect to admit to facts you already admitted. Kirsten, Molly, Joel, Liz, Flight, and even Annika and Uzi all know you headbutted me in the mouth. You ADMITTED IT TO ANNIKA AND UZI. All the others listed were there when you did it.

This is another example of you attempting to edit facts.

Simple fact- the tooth was pushed down due to you headbutting me in the mouth, an action you never apologized for and smiled after you did it.

There is an X-ray to prove this.

This cause a root canal to have to occur. You made my perfectly straight teeth crooked. You went to another dentist to ask if he could knock it back up an straighten it.

YOU DID THiS ON YOUR OWN TO YOUR DENTIST.

The now dead tooth with a hole in it came out shortly after.

Those are the facts so get them straight.

I would still have a tooth of you had never headbutted me in the first place.

Not only did you do that and there are witnesses and evidence, but YOU created evidence by consulting more doctors.

Talk about trying to run away from your responsibilities….

On Feb 11, 2011, at 13:06, Anna Ziolkowska <aniazmail@gmail.com> wrote:

according to you insanity is saying you didnt cheat when you didnt cheat.

and you are calling me insane? and dont even try to say that i called pablo a liar. i do not need to go to him for anything.

the three of us as well as the owner of the restaurant know the truth. you are just fishing for pitty once again. get a backbone.

learn to rely on your own strength rather than building your house on other peoples weakneses. and you are the only one who thinks he is crazy and seems obsessed with proving to others that you are not. you never forced me to do anything, not even admitting to lying.

I didnt have to admit to anything, nor did i need to apologize, which i did both. i am not looking for you to accept my apology. you can only make peace with your own self.

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 6:54 PM, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

And in response to the cheating, you just sent an email last week that admitted ti how selfish you were concerning Joel and Liz, but attempt to retract that in this email?

Yes, that is insanity.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 12:43, Anna Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

Oh, and you don’t lie?????

Do not talk to me about lying, till you don’t yourself…

At least I admit to lying when I do and recognize it as a fault that I am working on. You on the other hand call me and as for me to lie for you, but then criticize me for lying.

Yes, i have lied to you for selfish reasons, but not with the intention of hurting you.

I have already admited to this, so this is not major discovery on your part.

As for your teeth, all I can say that Pablo was there, so he knows exectly what happened.

You think that just because you tell everyone something, that makes it so?

You and I both know the truth. You are wondering perhaps why you can’t find a job, and why you have other problems???

Karma.

TRIED to cheat on you?????

Get real!

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 6:36 PM, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

Again you don’t see reality for what it is.

That is psychosis.

You went to marriage counseling and then backtracked on your agreement – FACT.

You lied and have admitted to lying (you really should read your previous emails before writing these responses or at least improve your memory, which is hard to do being a compulsive liar) – FACT

YOU left to Poland, lying the entire time before going and while there-FACT, proven by YOUR OWN WRITING

You were violent to me, knocking out my teeth-FACT

You tried to cheat several times and constantly pushed me away-WITNESSED FACTS.

You really have walked over the edge when you compose a message such the one you just did while ignoring even THOSE SIMPLE FACTS and there are SO MANY MORE that are verifiable and proveable. Maybe you should read this, then re-read what you wrote and then MAYBE you might see reality for what it is.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 12:26, Anna Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

> Why do you speak as though I can do something to salvage our relationship. You are the one who has called me a liar and has sent me away with your words.

I threw my things out of the apartment, and have locked me out on multiple occasions, not the other way around.

This shows that you dont want me as a wife. I was too deaf to hear it.

You contacted my friends family and coworkers to tell them what a terrible person I was according to you, so you do not want me as a wife.

So there is not me coming back to you. Coming back on what terms?

You are the one who doesnt want me. It is not my fault that i am not there right now. I was finally respecting your words.

———- Forwarded message ———-

From: Hector Barrientos-Bullcok <********@gmail.com>

Date: Wed, Mar 16, 2011 at 7:46 AM

Subject: Fwd: relationship

To: anniqq@gmail.com, grandbleu@gmail.com, kandykidd13@gmail.com

The 3 of you know the incident in question but apparently the person who actually did it lives in psychosis. So, does that mean that all that crap that happened years ago, the reason we ever met Kirsten in the 1st place, suddenly didn’t happen?

Go figure.

———- Forwarded message ———-

From: Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com>

Date: Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 2:40 PM

Subject: Re: relationship

To: HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com>

You are attacking my emotional stability and memory by saying I tried to cheat?

What else did I TRY to do???

If I had WANTED to cheat on you, I would have.

You are really fishing for drama and sympathy.

Is your addiction to drama this intense that you would rather not have a wife than a made up dramatic relationship?

Sent from Ania’s iPad

On Feb 11, 2011, at 20:17, HVBB Gmail <hvbbmail@gmail.com> wrote:

Wrong again.

You made an effort that I never did and then you try to say I was the one that pushed YOU away when you tried to cheat LONG before I ever got sour. Your treatment of me AND your attempts to cheat are what MADE me sour in the first place.

Cause and effect.

You refuse to acknowledge basic logic and physics.

But that is no surprise.

Logic comes from emotion.

The fact you cannot fathom logic shows your lack of emotion.

To use a fictional character, the vulcans are highly logical, but ALSO highly emotional.

They combat for emotional control all the time. Memory also comes from the emotional attachment one places on events and facts. This has been proven via study. You have a poor, actually horrible, memory. What does that say about grasp of emotional ability?

On Feb 11, 2011, at 13:56, Ania Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

How is not cheating advers to trying to cheat? Both are not cheating. The only diff is that in one you accuse me of not doing something which I didn’t do. Were both agreeing that I didn’t cheat.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 19:22, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

You are so self important you can’t even read what’s in front of you.

I can put your response against the message you are responding to and it shows you blatantly tried to confuse the point, something you always do verbally, in writing this time.

Why don’t you re-read the original message and see who you are REALLY calling a liar?

Correct, I didn’t cheat, which is the adverse of you trying to many times.

I compared you to me, and showed I was faithful while you were always disrespectful and self absorbed with no regard for anyone but you, but you state I am the one in search of a potty party for stating the facts?

See how that works?

See, you made yourself self important. You continue to make yourself self important and you also neglect to admit to facts you already admitted.

Kirsten, Molly, Joel, Liz, Flight, and even Annika and Uzi all know you headbutted me in the mouth.

You ADMITTED IT TO ANNIKA AND UZI.

All the others listed were there when you did it.

This is another example of you attempting to edit facts.

Simple fact– the tooth was pushed down due to you headbutting me in the mouth, an action you never apologized for and smiled after you did it.

There is an X-ray to prove this.

This cause a root canal to have to occur. You made my perfectly straight teeth crooked.

You went to another dentist to ask if he could knock it back up an straighten it.

YOU DID THIS ON YOUR OWN TO YOUR DENTIST.

The now dead tooth with a hole in it came out shortly after.

Those are the facts so get them straight.

I would still have a tooth of you had never headbutted me in the first place.

Not only did you do that and there are witnesses and evidence, but YOU created evidence by consulting more doctors.

Talk about trying to run away from your responsibilities….

On Feb 11, 2011, at 13:06, Anna Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

according to you insanity is saying you didnt cheat when you didnt cheat. and you are calling me insane?

and dont even try to say that i called pablo a liar. i do not need to go to him for anything. the three of us as well as the owner of the restaurant know the truth.

you are just fishing for pitty once again.

get a backbone.

learn to rely on your own strength rather than building your house on other peoples weakneses. and you are the only one who thinks he is crazy and seems obsessed with proving to others that you are not.

you never forced me to do anything, not even admitting to lying.

I didnt have to admit to anything, nor did i need to apologize, which i did both.

i am not looking for you to accept my apology. you can only make peace with your own self.

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 6:54 PM, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

And in response to the cheating, you just sent an email last week that admitted to how selfish you were concerning Joel and Liz, but attempt to retract that in this email?

Yes, that is insanity.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 12:43, Anna Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

Oh, and you don’t lie?????

Do not talk to me about lying, till you don’t yourself…

At least I admit to lying when I do and recognize it as a fault that I am working on. You on the other hand call me and as for me to lie for you, but then criticize me for lying.

Yes, i have lied to you for selfish reasons, but not with the intention of hurting you.

I have already admited to this, so this is not major discovery on your part.

As for your teeth, all I can say that Pablo was there, so he knows exectly what happened. You think that just because you tell everyone something, that makes it so? You and I both know the truth. You are wondering perhaps why you can’t find a job, and why you have other problems???

Karma. TRIED to cheat on you????? Get real!

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 6:36 PM, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

Again you don’t see reality for what it is.

That is psychosis.

You went to marriage counseling and then backtracked on your agreement – FACT.

You lied and have admitted to lying (you really should read your previous emails before writing these responses or at least improve your memory, which is hard to do being a compulsive liar) – FACT

YOU left to Poland, lying the entire time before going and while there – FACT, proven BY YOUR OWN WRITING

You were violent to me, knocking out my teeth-FACT

You tried to cheat several times and constantly pushed me away – WITNESSED FACTS.

You really have walked over the edge when you compose a message such the one you just did while ignoring even THOSE SIMPLE FACTS and there are SO MANY MORE that are verifiable and proveable.

Maybe you should read this, then re-read what you wrote and then MAYBE you might see reality for what it is.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 12:26, Anna Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

> Why do you speak as though I can do something to salvage our relationship. You are the one who has called me a liar and has sent me away with your words.

I threw my things out of the apartment, and have locked me out on multiple occasions, not the other way around.

This shows that you dont want me as a wife. I was too deaf to hear it.

You contacted my friends family and coworkers to tell them what a terrible person I was according to you, so you do not want me as a wife.

So there is not me coming back to you. Coming back on what terms?

You are the one who doesnt want me. It is not my fault that i am not there right now.

I was finally respecting your words. Why don’t you re-read what you wrote and then try that again?

Or, how about this:

On Feb 11, 2011, at 19:22, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

See, you made yourself self important.

You continue to make yourself self important and you also neglect to admit to facts you already admitted.

Kirsten, Molly, Joel, Liz, Flight, and even Annika and Uzi all know you headbutted me in the mouth.

You ADMITTED IT TO ANNIKA AND UZI.

All the others listed were there when you did it.

This is another example of you attempting to edit facts.

Simple fact– the tooth was pushed down due to you headbutting me in the mouth, an action you never apologized for and smiled after you did it. There is an X-ray to prove this.

This cause a root canal to have to occur. You made my perfectly straight teeth crooked.

You went to another dentist to ask if he could knock it back up an straighten it. YOU DID THIS ON YOUR OWN TO YOUR DENTIST.

The now dead tooth with a hole in it came out shortly after. Those are the facts so get them straight. I would still have a tooth of you had never headbutted me in the first place.

Not only did you do that and there. Are witnesses and evidence, but YOU created evidence by consulting more doctors. Talk about trying to run away from your responsibilities….

See how you attempted to ignore those facts to attempt to twist this to your favor as you always do?

they were listed, but because they were provable you ignored them and therefore decided to just attempt to backtrack onto the Pablo issue instead.

You will ignore this again, because it doesn’t support the reality you are attempting to create, but it’s provable none the less.

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 5:28 PM, Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

I am speaking for myself saying he was there when your tooth came out. I am not putting any words into his mouth, and therefore, am not speaking for him.

Sent from Ania’s iPad

On Feb 11, 2011, at 23:22, Hector Barrientos-Bullcok <********@gmail.com> wrote:

You spoke for him by attempting to say what he saw when.

That is speaking FOR someone.

Or should I cut and paste that message as well since you are too lazy to read over what you wrote before attempting to retract it.

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 5:13 PM, Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

I was not speaking for Pablo. I said he can speak for himself. I said he was there.

Sent from Ania’s iPad

On Feb 11, 2011, at 23:05, Hector Barrientos-Bullcok <********@gmail.com> wrote:

Funny, because I do believe you were trying to speak for Pablo, someone the does not like you.

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 4:35 PM, Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

Let people speak for themselves.

Sent from Ania’s iPad

On Feb 11, 2011, at 22:33, Hector Barrientos-Bullcok <********@gmail.com> wrote:

Funny how you had a lot to say when you thought you could turn it to pity for yourself but nothing to say when the facts state you are actually the one at fault, when you are actually the unstable one.

The only person wishing to live in DRAMA is YOU, as it always has been, witnessed by so many you separated yourself from them because you KNEW you shat where you ate.

Now you try to say they are all crazy, and they never saw you act the way you did.

This is called psychosis. You fall back on Pablo?

He despises you.

He has SEEN how you treated me and he thinks you are absolutely insane.

Do you really think he would LIE for you?

I sincerely doubt that, so stop trying to speak for Pablo.

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 3:10 PM, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

Let’s talk about me needing to sleep and you following me from the bedroom to the loving room to the bedroom over and over again, turning on lights, pulling blankets off of me, yelling at me, kicking me, hitting me, all because I was trying to sleep.

Then, when I finally locked the bedroom door and said “let me go to sleep or I’m tossing your clothes out the window”, you kicked in the door.

Really?

That’s rational behaviour?

You did all of this at 218 E Mason, more than once, I may add.

So don’t you even think about attempting to point fingers or try to name call as to who the drama causer was.

It’s ALWAYS been YOU.

Always looking to bully or control.

And I guarantee you won’t have anything to say to this because there is no way you can even TRY to turn it around as you have attempted to do with everything else.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 14:43, Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

I’m not even gonna bring up me getting locked out, and then you not letting me back in even though you had keys.

I’m referring to about a dozen or more situations where you locked the door and wouldn’t let me into our apartment.

Tell me those didn’t happen.

Go ahead.

You yourself said it takes me a while to figure things out. Well, here’s my delayed reaction. You wanted me out, now I am out.

Sent from Ania’s iPad

On Feb 11, 2011, at 20:20, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

Me me me me me me me.

You LEFT, remember?

Get it right.

You left both emotionally AND physically.

And if I remember correctly, you locked YOURSELF out and then ORDERED me, who was out with you, to let you back in.

You didn’t ask, you ORDERED.

That’s pretty disrespectful.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 13:58, Ania Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

You said I was disrespectful. And what do you call locking your wife out of your joint apartment???!!!! Answer that!

On Feb 11, 2011, at 19:22, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

You are so self important you can’t even read what’s in front of you.

I can put your response against the message you are responding to and it shows you blatantly tried to confuse the point, something you always do verbally, in writing this time.

Why don’t you re-read the original message and see who you are REALLY calling a liar?

Correct, I didn’t cheat, which is the adverse of you trying to many times. I compared you to me, and showed I was faithful while you were always disrespectful and self absorbed with no regard for anyone but you, but you state I am the one in search of a potty party for stating the facts?

See how that works?

See, you made yourself self important. You continue to make yourself self important and you also neglect to admit to facts you already admitted. Kirsten, Molly, Joel, Liz, Flight, and even Annika and Uzi all know you headbutted me in the mouth.

You ADMITTED IT TO ANNIKA AND UZI.

All the others listed were there when you did it. This is another example of you attempting to edit facts. Simple fact- the tooth was pushed down due to you headbutting me in the mouth, an action you never apologized for and smiled after you did it.

There is an X-ray to prove this.

This cause a root canal to have to occur. You made my perfectly straight teeth crooked. You went to another dentist to ask if he could knock it back up an straighten it.

YOU DID THIS ON YOUR OWN TO YOUR DENTIST.

The now dead tooth with a hole in it came out shortly after.

Those are the facts so get them straight.

I would still have a tooth of you had never headbutted me in the first place.

Not only did you do that and there. Are witnesses and evidence, but YOU created evidence by consulting more doctors.

Talk about trying to run away from your responsibilities….

On Feb 11, 2011, at 13:06, Anna Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

according to you insanity is saying you didnt cheat when you didnt cheat. and you are calling me insane? and dont even try to say that i called pablo a liar. i do not need to go to him for anything.

the three of us as well as the owner of the restaurant know the truth. you are just fishing for pitty once again. get a backbone.

learn to rely on your own strength rather than building your house on other peoples weakneses. and you are the only one who thinks he is crazy and seems obsessed with proving to others that you are not.

you never forced me to do anything, not even admitting to lying.

I didnt have to admit to anything, nor did i need to apologize, which i did both. i am not looking for you to accept my apology. you can only make peace with your own self.

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 6:54 PM, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

And in response to the cheating, you just sent an email last week that admitted ti how selfish you were concerning Joel and Liz, but attempt to retract that in this email?

Yes, that is insanity.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 12:43, Anna Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

Oh, and you don’t lie????? Do not talk to me about lying, till you don’t yourself… At least I admit to lying when I do and recognize it as a fault that I am working on. You on the other hand call me and as for me to lie for you, but then criticize me for lying.

Yes, i have lied to you for selfish reasons, but not with the intention of hurting you. I have already admited to this, so this is not major discovery on your part. As for your teeth, all I can say that Pablo was there, so he knows exectly what happened. You think that just because you tell everyone something, that makes it so? You and I both know the truth. You are wondering perhaps why you can’t find a job, and why you have other problems???

Karma. TRIED to cheat on you?????

Get real!

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 6:36 PM, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

Again you don’t see reality for what it is. That is psychosis.

You went to marriage counseling and then backtracked on your agreement – FACT.

You lied and have admitted to lying (you really should read your previous emails before writing these responses or at least improve your memory, which is hard to do being a compulsive liar) – FACT

YOU left to Poland, lying the entire time before going and while there-FACT, proven by YOUR OWN WRITING

You were violent to me, knocking out my teeth-FACT

You tried to cheat several times and constantly pushed me away-WITNESSED FACTS.

You really have walked over the edge when you compose a message such the one you just did while ignoring even THOSE SIMPLE FACTS and there are SO MANY MORE that are verifiable and proveable.

Maybe you should read this, then re-read what you wrote and then MAYBE you might see reality for what it is.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 12:26, Anna Ziolkowska <annazioko1@gmail.com> wrote:

> Why do you speak as though I can do something to salvage our relationship. You are the one who has called me a liar and has sent me away with your words.

I threw my things out of the apartment, and have locked me out on multiple occasions, not the other way around.

This shows that you dont want me as a wife. I was too deaf to hear it. You contacted my friends family and coworkers to tell them what a terrible person I was according to you, so you do not want me as a wife.

So there is not me coming back to you.

Coming back on what terms? You are the one who doesnt want me. It is not my fault that i am not there right now. I was finally respecting your words.

THIS is who Ania Ziolkowska really is – Here is another Ania Ziolkowska tactic. She will ensure the email she is responding to is not in the email history, as though the history does not exist on the other end. This is a form of gas lighting via digital medium :

On Oct 27, 2010, at 10:01, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

I’m just forwarding YOUR email, so who looks crazier?

The one that lied and then shows they lied in their own words or the one that let’s everyone know they were lied to?

I don’t care either way. You painted a picture of me being crazy BEFORE the emails were sent.

You only don’t realize this because you lime to play with timelines to support your lies.

That’s why I also have an email from you that says to forget the timeline.

Your lies fall apart under scrutiny and chronological order.

So none of these people had any intention of getting the real story or they would have made an effort to meet me and I don’t care how I look in front of hypocrites.

They look worse by definition.

They are no one to me as I am no one to them.

I should care about how I look WHY, again?

On Oct 27, 2010, at 9:51, Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

Nothing I do would make you look crazier than the emails which you yourself have sent out. What one says about another is an opinion, what one does oneself can’t be disputed. I am not dying the emails make you look crazy, because that is not my place to judge, but just think about this.

Sent from Ania’s iPad

On Oct 26, 2010, at 21:58, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

It is because you have shown a history of saying one thing to ME, but saying the OPPOSITE to EVERYONE else, so I am covering myself due to having become tired of being made to look “crazy” by you.

I am sorry, but that is the price of “the boy who cried wolf” method you have been using.

You may become angry in seeing this, but you may want to “put yourself in MY shoes.” When toughening yourself from the emotion of being “embarrassed” you may see that I am justified in doing this.

-Hector

The email that followed –

On Oct 27, 2010, at 10:43, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

It’s also funny it took you 3 days to get to this but only about 5 minutes to get back to your friends.

Something to be said there.

Next time I will follow my OWN instincts….

On Oct 27, 2010, at 9:51, Ania <aniazmail@gmail.com> wrote:

Nothing I do would make you look crazier than the emails which you yourself have sent out.

What one says about another is an opinion, what one does oneself can’t be disputed. I am not dying the emails make you look crazy, because that is not my place to judge, but just think about this.

Sent from Ania’s iPad

On Oct 26, 2010, at 21:58, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

It is because you have shown a history of saying one thing to ME, but saying the OPPOSITE to EVERYONE else, so I am covering myself due to having become tired of being made to look “crazy” by you.

I am sorry, but that is the price of “the boy who cried wolf” method you have been using.

You may become angry in seeing this, but you may want to “put yourself in MY shoes.” When toughening yourself from the emotion of being “embarrassed” you may see that I am justified in doing this.

-Hector

The email that followed THAT

On Oct 27, 2010, at 16:27, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

And now we step into Ania world, where the facts and actions of the people around her are in NO WAY an indication of any action she may have taken.

And let’s not forget his friends are so intelligent they do not tell in themselves and therefore tell on her as well. Aren’t the rest of us happy we do not live in Ania world?

Yes.

Yes we are.

On Oct 27, 2010, at 10:15, Ania <annnazioko1@gmail.com> wrote:

You do not know that.

What if in fact I do not tell people that you are crazy, but that instead you have made yourself look crazy due to your emails?

What if in fact I tell everyone that we have a normal relationship with ups and downs, and then you go forwarding my nice emails to you to all of my family and friends attempting to show them that in fact they are proof that I am crazy and a liar.

Who looks crazy in the end? I do not want my friends and family thinking you are crazy!

I am married to you.

Either way I love you.

Are you at work?

Sent from Ania’s iPad

On Oct 26, 2010, at 21:58, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

It is because you have shown a history of saying one thing to ME, but saying the OPPOSITE to EVERYONE else, so I am covering myself due to having become tired of being made to look “crazy” by you.

I am sorry, but that is the price of “the boy who cried wolf” method you have been using.

You may become angry in seeing this, but you may want to “put yourself in MY shoes.” When toughening yourself from the emotion of being “embarrassed” you may see that I am justified in doing this.

-Hector

See how she attempts to manipulate, even via a date stamped email?

THIS is NOT “Satya”.

I should have done this YEARS ago.

You now know you cannot believe a WORD SHE SAYS, VIA HER OWN WORDS. And there’s still text messages and voice recordings.

That’s when it gets REAL interesting.

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Psytrance Cultism – Grains of Sound: Delusions of Grandeur

What you just heard isn’t “Grains of Sound”, but it was put here to make a point.

I made that.

I am a novice, just beginning in the electronic music scene, at least as a producer. I’ve been a dancer since 1993, in nearly every genre of electronic dance music there is, from house, breaks, to gabber hardcore, to, yes, even psytrance (though I’ve left that scene behind).

This will be a first HONEST review of the one man act known as “Grains of Sound”.

First……that NAME!!!
Seriously, let’s just think about that name. What, and I mean what, if anything, would anyone think when hearing that name?
I personally think of fingernails across a black board, but that’s just me.

Any sound that seems granular also seems ABRASIVE, like SAND PAPER.

It really comes from “Granular Synthesis”, the most simplistic technique any DJ or producer can use.

So simple, it’s actually a core component of every single DAW ever made.

To stake an entire career on something so simplistic, in an industry that is constantly evolving, is very telling.

But let’s move on……

Here we see that Grains of Sound is advertising both their New Year‘s Eve show, in Berlin, and their [supposed] European “Tour”(Poland. It’s mostly Poland).

Let’s look at the New Years Eve Show –

Grains of Sound - New Year's Eve JOKE

Grains of Sound – New Year’s Eve JOKE

The show in question is being done at this BARR19 , in Berlin, Germany.

Now, let’s look at other information about the party in question, specifically, the line up –

What's that? Do you see it?

What’s that? Do you see it?

Now, I know it may not be immediately apparent, so we’ll bring it a little closer –

Still not seeing it?

Still not seeing it?

Okay, we know it’s not immediately apparent, so we shall point out the glaring fact to you –

NOW do you see it?

NOW do you see it?

See, I don’t know about anyone else, but this is New Year’s Eve, and it’s also Europe, where things begin MUCH LATER than the United States, except for maybe New York City, Los Angeles, and Vegas.
However, also realize this is nearly right after midnight.

Who is going to be in the Chill Out Room that early?

NOBODY

That’s the truth.
Most will still be dancing to something more lively and not giving a damn about chilling out.
Let’s face it – Most people won’t even show up till near midnight as it is.

However, and this is the most hilarious aspect:

There’s a much LARGER event happening on the same night, in the same city, in the SAME GENRE. 

This is happening the Same time as Grains of Sound, in Berlin, on NYE 2013

This is happening the Same time as Grains of Sound, in Berlin, on NYE 2013

This is happening the Same time as Grains of Sound, in Berlin, on NYE 2013

This is happening the Same time as Grains of Sound, in Berlin, on NYE 2013

Now, I don’t know about YOU, but if I’m supposedly on a “European Tour”, I would think I would be going where I would get THE MOST EXPOSURE, right???

The definition of “Delusions of Grandeur” is –

Grains of Sound: Delusions of Grandeur

Grains of Sound: Delusions of Grandeur

And he utilizes lies and deception.
I have been to Playa Del Fuego. And I especially went to Playa Del Fuego in the fall of 2013 (Spoiler alert!!! PDF never occurs in August. It has two dates: Labor Day weekend and Memorial Day weekend). In August of 2013, Chris Exeris was in Poland with Ania Anicca / Ania Ziolkowska.
So how does he have a picture claiming to be at PDF at the same exact time???

Chris trying to lure the burner crowd He's NEVER played Playa Del Fuego

Chris trying to lure the burner crowd
He’s NEVER played Playa Del Fuego

It’s another lie. A deception, trying to sway the Burner crowd, to say “Look! I’m one of you!!!”  in hopes it will get him more bookings.

Which, of course, reflects Narcissistic Personality Disorder quite well, doesn’t it?

Chris Exeris Sevanick - Grains of Sound

Chris Exeris Sevanick – Grains of Sound

We all hope you are laughing at this as much as we are.
Our next installment will show how this is New York City all over again, and show additional pictures as to how Grains of Sound never had anyone show up to their shows, with pictures of him playing to empty fields, with only Ania Ziolkowska watching……

Ania Ziokowska essentially the only one watching Chris Exeris play his Grains of Sound set at an outdoor festival called Respect Gatherings

Ania Ziokowska essentially the only one watching Chris Exeris play his Grains of Sound set at an outdoor festival called Respect Gatherings August 2013
Apparently his “celebrity” status makes Ania Ziolkowska more devoted than she was to ANYONE else

Happy Holidaze!!!

Update:

Seems Grains of Sound / Chris Exeris, was NOT invited back to the Life Celebration Festival –

Chris not invited back to the Life Celebration Festival for 2014

Chris not invited back to the Life Celebration Festival for 2014

UPDATE 2:

Seems we were correct.
Anyone with a Facebook account can see that, as we suspected, barely anyone showed up for Grains of Sound’s set.

One last thing –

Chris Sevanick (Exeris) is a chill out producer.
That’s right, chill out.

To make a point as to how simple it is to make chill out, I made this track today. It’s not complete, since it needs editing and some EQ, however, using NO STOCK SAMPLES, and keying every note in with my Nektar Panorama P6, this was the result –

Try stepping into my arena, Chris.
Try making HOUSE

You know……something that requires more than knowledge of a few chords and the ability to add ambient filler to make the rest of a “song”……..

Every time I listen to one of his tracks, I think he’s taken stock footage from a George Lucas film.
When they fire up the Deathstar to fire on the Rebel Planet?
THX-1138?

Yeah.
Just like that.

HACK

The Covert Narcissist – The Chameleon

We are constantly attempting to give REAL examples of Narcissism, Spiritual Narcissism, and Covert Stealth Narcissism. Above is a video that illustrates the most dangerous, and the most PREVALENT form of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, of which Ania Ziolkowska is a prime example of –

Ania Ziolkowska / Ania Anicca holds at least SIX of these nine traits

Ania Ziolkowska / Ania Anicca holds at least SIX of these nine traits

Ania Ziolkowska Destroys and runs. Here she is dancing at Riou, In queens, at Psychill Psysundays. Ania Ziolkowska Knocked out my teeth, then

Ania Ziolkowska Destroys and runs. Here she is dancing at Riou, In queens, at Psychill Psysundays.
Ania Ziolkowska Knocked out my teeth, then “punished” herself by jumping on another dick, and partying around New York City.

It should be said, that BOTH Ania Ziolkowska and Chris “Exeris” Sevanick have made every effort for this to not be known, including attempted defamation of character of myself, the author (which they have backed away from, now that the most famous entry on Id exists) because, as with any Covert Stealth Narcissist, they need to maintain

“Their overt behavior projects an innocent, angel-like,good as gold persona which builds them a credible and faultless reputation yet they fail to reach their true potential due to their own self-doubt.”

Covert Narcissists, of which both Ania Ziolkowska, and Chris “Exeris” Sevanick are, are damaging, without empathy, opportunistic, and what we would all consider the exact description of “evil” The most pitiful aspect of this disorder is something we would consider so simple, yet seems so difficult, even impossible for THEM

The basic idea is that a narcissist wants to secure himself against the need to say, “Okay, I made a mistake, I was wrong.”  To a narcissist, this is a fate worse than death, and many narcissists quite literally suffer death to avoid the possibility. Normal people are willing to be found wrong, over and over again, because this is in the nature of life. Such people expect their personal creative process to eventually bear fruit, and are willing to experiment with reality, walk paths not yet explored, sometimes stumble and fall, in the hope of contributing something new to the store of human knowledge. At some risk of oversimplification, a normal person is willing to be wrong 100 times in order to create something uniquely new and useful, while a narcissist sacrifices this opportunity, this stage of personal evolution, in order to be secure against the possibility of being found wrong.  For a normal person, being wrong is the price we pay for the creative process. For a narcissist, being wrong is too high a price to pay — better to label other people as wrong, from within an impregnable fortress of mediocrity. Unfortunately, in exchange for an infantile kind of security, narcissists sacrifice any chance to positively influence the world.

Dr. Brene Brown illustrates so eloquently something I attempted to show Ania Ziolkowska for an entire decade how to be –

This is something Ania Ziolkowska, and later, many of her mutual friends, such as Angelina Panaugua, Kirsten Norman, and Eva Annika Backstrom, began to resent me for (Ironically, it was also the more they dove into teaching of Wayne Dyer, Eckhart Tolle, “The Secret”, Ram Dass, Osho, etc, that they began to resent me more for pointing out the one thing NONE of those ever point out, which is vulnerability. The one thing all of them refuse to acknowledge.)

Even their friends in New York City, now that Ania and Chris have left to Warsaw, Poland, to live in the apartment that Ania and I were meant to raise our children in (it’s all revenge tactics, designed to hurt me, for not letting Ania Ziolkowska have her way) are now willing to come out and say, honestly, what they think of them.

Charlee Zee Monkee's opinion of Ania / Ania Anicca and Chris Exeris

Charlee Zee Monkee’s opinion of Ania / Ania Anicca and Chris Exeris

There is much more that can be said, however, now that I am finally getting back into the actual writing of this blog, and need to clean up the earlier entries, And my need to complete previous series, as well as an upcoming entry illustrating all the people that have thanked us for helping them through their narcissistic abuse, I will attempt to keep things concise, and end with two visual points. One humorous, and both serious.

Happy Holidaze to all.

Ania Ziolkowska / Ania Anicca - Ugly on the outside, and the inside as well

Ania Ziolkowska / Ania Anicca – Ugly on the outside, and the inside as well

Narcissistic Sociopath Traits - Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca on

Narcissistic Sociopath Traits – Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca on “E”

Narcissistic Sociopath Traits – Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca on “E”

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Id – The ego of Maya, the Shadow

I should begin by saying I never stole the phone. I’m not even in New York City. John gave me access to his account so I could watch them, then pretended I stole it, so this opening could occur. However, this example makes a point I wanted to make –

“The id “knows no judgements of value: no good and evil, no morality…. Instinctual cathexes seeking discharge — that, in our view, is all there is in the id.”

What that means is the Id has no concept of right or wrong, just what IT wants. In Buddhism this is known as The Shadow, and in hinduism it is called Maya. I said once before that you could compare all modern spirituality to most of the Cluster B and Cluster C Personality Disorders in the DSMIV, as in if you took three of the Cluster B disorders – Borderline, Narcissistic, and Antisocial – and also one of the Cluster C disorders – Avoidant – you would get the exact behavior of those believing they are practicing spirituality at this time. Less the FIRST incident where Ania Ziolkowska called me an “Ignorant ass nigger!” merely because I asked her to hold a flashlight where I could see it, to fix something I never blamed her for, everything started off great for the first few years in our relationship also. Then, as Cluster B Personality Disorders are wont to do, she rapidly declined. I took us to counselors, but there was no effort from Ania at all. Ania would promise to do better, to change, but she would remain unapologetic and have complete disregard for anyone but herself.

“You’re just too thin skinned!” Ania would say.

Ania Ziolkowska Destroys and runs. Here she is dancing at Riou, In queens, at Psychill Psysundays. Ania Ziolkowska Knocked out my teeth, then

Ania Ziolkowska Destroys and runs. Here she is dancing at Riou, In queens, at Psychill Psysundays.
Ania Ziolkowska Knocked out my teeth, then “punished” herself by jumping on another dick, and partying around New York City.

See, yoga has Yamas and Niyamas, while Buddhism has the Five Precepts (Which can go up to 8, or even 10 in some practices) and the 8 Fold Path. These, if anyone has noticed, have been completely ignored by most yoga and sangha circles. Why? Is it not obvious that the “Id consciousness” has completely overtaken practice? Really think about what is taught in current self help spiritually, such as Eckhart Tolle, or Wayne Dyer, or even Ram Dass, and you will see it is obvious they appeal to the “Id Consciousness” that the personality disorders feed upon. I get emails on how to be a motivational speaker all the time, and the first thing said is

“write a book and get it published, even if it’s self published.”

Because that’s the formula, that’s how they get to become public speakers and charge large amounts to regurgitate flawed information they have put their own twist on, to gain a following. Osho didn’t even hide it. He blatantly celebrated selfishness and amorality And the theme remains the same – the celebration of Maya, the protection and avoidance of The Shadow, the precise anti-thesis of what these practices are meant to do. There is a reason my Indian friends have told me the Indians in India only follow the “Gurus” that the westerners go to…….. An Id will do anything to protect itself. It cannot be wrong. A Cluster B personality disorder is the precise locus of the Id Consciousness, it’s bastion. And the one major thing it will always protect is it’s reputation –

The narcissist presents to their victim, usually their relationship partner, a false self made up of a collection of simple and subtle pathological lies. Lies which make them seem angelic and builds them a reputation of being ‘as good as gold’ and ‘would never do anything to hurt anyone’. What I appreciate most is rather than attempt to explain this, I can provide such ready made examples, due to the behavior of others. The following is a ready made example of just this type of behavior.

You'll see in future articles that Ania Patrycja Ziolkowska ALWAYS played the victim. There will be text conversations where she would pass me off as the abuser behind my back, revealed to me only recently. Of course they never believed her, but the fact is she tried. They will smile at you, making you think everything is okay, while they are secretly engaged in a campaign of slandering you, to make themselves look better.

You’ll see in future articles that Ania Patrycja Ziolkowska ALWAYS played the victim.
There will be text conversations where she would pass me off as the abuser behind my back, revealed to me only recently.
Of course they never believed her, but the fact is she tried.
They will smile at you, making you think everything is okay, while they are secretly engaged in a campaign of slandering you, to make themselves look better.

  • Douche Bag Icon7:54pm Dj-vj Exeris Hey, just seeing these now, eek, yea Shiva is crazy, sorry that he involved you, glad you got your page back, but how did he steal your phone?
  • 7:54pm John We were chillin. He’s in NYC  I got trashed and he dipped with my phone Motherfucker
  • Exeris Icon7:57pm Dj-vj Exeris I recommend you report it to the police.
  • 7:57pm John Already did but I don’t know where he lives
  • You mentioned Hector is planning some nastystuff?
  •  8:00pm John He’s plannin some fucked up shit man. He’s talking to the department of state and the polish embassy Says his girl illegally adopted out their kid or something He’s completely lost it
  • Douche Bag Icon8:00pm Dj-vj Exeris Well she never had a kid so not sure what he’s going to do.
     Yea we were not sure if he believed his lies or not.
     If so then yes he has lost it.
  • 8:01pm John He thinks she did. Says she got fat real fast and lost weight real fast
    But he’s got an appointment tomorrow
  • Exeris Icon8:01pm Dj-vj Exeris she gained 10 lbs while in nepal cause she at desert 3 times a day for a monnth
  • 8:02pm John 9:30 in the now in the morning or some shit
  • Grains of Sound Icon8:02pm Dj-vj Exeris Maybe you can tell the police
  • Douche Bag Icon8:02pm Dj-vj Exeris they should even be able to call and find out when the appt is
  • 8:02pm John He’s doing it in DC
  • Exeris Icon8:03pm Dj-vj Exeris Ania contacted the polish consulate and they forwarded her email to the embassy in DC.
  • 8:03pm John They said they can’t do shit about that. But she don’t have no kid so he’ll just look crazy
  • Grains of Sound Icon8:03pm Dj-vj Exeris That was on Fri
  • Douche Bag Icon8:04pm Dj-vj Exeris email to consulate in nyc
    so maybe get a reply tomorrow
  • 8:04pm John Sounds good
  • Exeris Icon8:04pm Dj-vj Exeris yea crazy that he even has an appt when ania never had a kid
  • 8:04pm John  She got that far from eating dessert?
  • Grains of Sound Icon8:05pm Dj-vj Exeris she didn’t get fat
    just 10lbs
  • 8:05pm John Wow Looks totally different now
  • Douche Bag Icon8:05pm Dj-vj Exeris she was wearing her smaller friends clothese on NYE
  • 8:06pm John I saw the pics on your wall Her face lost weight
  • Exeris Icon8:06pm Dj-vj Exeris there are pics of ania in india which show he thin (Author’s note – Notice he didn’t offer to actually provide these supposed pictures?)
  • 8:06pm John He made a website too He showed me last night
  • Grains of Sound Icon8:07pm Dj-vj Exeris so how do you know him?
  • 8:07pm John Yeah he showed me those I’m a paramedic so she did look a little bloated
     I met him on FB He came up to meet me
     We went to a party last night and then he dipped when I got trashed
  • Douche Bag Icon8:08pm Dj-vj Exeris i wish the guy would get help (Author’s Note – Dropped that “she wasn’t pregnant” angle pretty quickly, didn’t he?)
  • 8:09pm John What happened to make him so fucked up?
  • Exeris Icon8:09pm Dj-vj Exeris he’s been that way for a long time
  • 8:09pm John He says she abused him for 10 years
  • Grains of Sound Icon8:09pm 

    Dj-vj Exeris made worse by doing meth every day for 3 years (Author’s note – Hearsay. He does not know this, nor can he prove it, which makes this SLANDER.)

  • 8:09pm John  Says he begged her to move to NYC and she said no
  • Douche Bag Icon8:09pm Dj-vj Exeris yea he has twisted everything (Author’s note – This catches up to him later.)
  • 8:10pm John When did he do that? He looked healthy to me?
  • Exeris Icon8:10pm Dj-vj Exeris not sure if he belives his lies or not (Author’s note – Pot calling the kettle black…..)
  • 8:10pm John  He doesn’t even smoke
  • Grains of Sound Icon8:10pm Dj-vj Exeris 97-2000 (Author’s note – Interesting as neither Ania Ziolkowska, nor I met Chris Sevanick until 2008. And we only hung out with him a total of THREE TIMES between 2008 and 2010. I met him again after Ania Ziolkowska lied and went to Poland, then India, and told him everything that happened between us, and even have additional proof. As I said, this catches up with him later.)
  • 8:10pm John  I offered and he refused
  • Douche Bag Icon8:10pm Dj-vj Exeris and then tones of E from 2001-present (Author’s note – At this time, you might want to skip down to the pictures of Ania Ziolkowska at the end, or remember this, and then wait for the surprise.)
  • 8:10pm John  So…wait….she was with him for 10 years after that.
  • Exeris Icon8:11pm 

    Dj-vj Exeris she was with him for 10 years ania didn’t abuse him (Author’s note – Remember this point, it will be important later on.)

  • 8:11pm John  Okay so he did meth while she was with him?
  • Grains of Sound Icon8:11pm Dj-vj Exeris didn’t knock out his teeth
  • 8:11pm John  How did his teeth get knocked out?
  • Douche Bag Icon8:11pm Dj-vj Exeris no he did meth before they got together (Author’s note – Slanderous statement. Can HE prove this?)
  • 8:12pm John  He says he’s got statements from a dentist and some polish dentist she talked to that she admitted it to
  • Exeris Icon8:12pm Dj-vj Exeris at a thai restaurant
  • 8:12pm John  He did meth when they were together?
  • Grains of Sound Icon8:12pm Dj-vj Exeris no E
    meth before they got together (Author’s note – Interesting. So Exeris CAN’T prove this.)
  • 8:12pm John  Then why did she stay with him for 10 years?
  • Douche Bag Icon8:12pm Dj-vj Exeris she says it was only 9 years
    cause she kept trying to prove to him that she was good (Author’s note – If Ania Ziolkowska is a “good person”, why did she have to “prove” it? If Ania was actually making an effort in not repeating abuses, then why did she constantly have to “prove” anything? Not that she ever did, as will be seen in reading further.)
  • 8:13pm John  He says she doesn’t talk to anybody they know together except to people in Maryland
  • Exeris Icon8:13pm Dj-vj Exeris she has been trying to get divorced for at least 3 years
    (Author’s note – why doesn’t this match the timeline presented by THEM as the conversation progresses forward? )
  • 8:13pm John  Why did she have to prove she was good of she was good?
    So why doesn’t she?
  • 8:14pm John  I’m confused
  • Ania Ziolkowska plays the victim game. Narcissists will say the abused is the abuser. Meanwhile, they work to turn everyone they know against them, behind their back, by lying.

    Ania Ziolkowska plays the victim game. Narcissists will say the abused is the abuser. Meanwhile, they work to turn everyone they know against them, behind their back, by lying.

  • How did he get inside her head?
  • 8:15pm John  Look I been fucked by him too
  • yea he fucks a lot of people over
  • 8:16pm John  But you gotta understand that makes no sense right?
  • 8:16pm John How did his teeth get knocked out at a thai restaurant?
  • Douche Bag Icon8:17pm Dj-vj Exeris but she left him 3 years ago and still isn’t free of him
    he keeps saying he wants to get divorced but then puts up all kinds of roadblocks
  • 8:17pm John  But how did his teeth get knocked out at a thai place?
  • 8:17pm Dj-vj Exeris he then lies and says he needs our address to file but that is BS (Author’s note -then why do THEY need MY address?)
  • 8:17pm John But how did his teeth get knocked out at a thai place?
  • 8:17pm Dj-vj Exeris they can’t file in NYC because neither of them has residency
    as soon as Ania gets residency she can file
  • 8:18pm John  Look he showed me some emails from her
    That’s how he got me on his side
    Have you seen them
  • 8:18pm John  So you see they make her look a little bad right?
    how did his teeth get knocked out at a thai place?
  • 8:19pm Dj-vj Exeris they didnt his teeth have never gotten knocked out
  • 8:19pm John  Wait wait wait
  • 8:19pm Dj-vj Exeris its even on his page (Author’s note – They BOTH BLOCKED ME. How are THEY seeing MY page?)
  • 8:19pm John  He’s missing teeth How did they get knocked out?
  • 8:20pm Dj-vj Exeris he says himself that he had a cavity
    he got a temporary filling
    and never went to get a permanent filling
  • 8:20pm John  He said they did a weekend in wildwood nj

    she had him sit her on a counter and she hit him in the mouth with her head on purpose

  • 8:20pm Dj-vj Exeris it spread to his root
  • 8:20pm John  Then leaned back and smiled
  • 8:21pm Dj-vj Exeris when was that? 

    what year?

  • 8:21pm John  That’s what he said
    He didn’t say
    Why
  • 8:21pm Dj-vj Exeris he bit into a lamb chop at a thai restaurant and his tooth got loose
    (Author’s note – If THIS is “true”, then why does it matter what year she head butted me in the mouth?)
  • 8:22pm John That’s not gonna make a tooth come out though I’m a paramedic There had to be trauma before that
  • 8:22pm Dj-vj Exeris the fact that he didnt get the filling done and then it infected the root
  • 8:23pm John I’m not takin sides but something’s not adding up, you dig?
    That’s not what he said
  • 8:23pm Dj-vj Exeris there were witnesses
    (Author’s note – Really? Produce these witnesses.)
  • 8:24pm John  He said he got a root canal because she pushed the tooth down with the head but and it was pressing on the nerve
    What witnesses? He called some guy when I was next to him He said she head butted him
    See what I mean?
  • 8:24pm Dj-vj Exeris also when did she supposedly get pregnant? did he tell you that?
  • 8:25pm John  He gave me the phone The guy said it too
    He said the pic in India is six months after she left
    He said they had sex in a dump hotel the night before she left
    No condom no birth control
  • 8:26pm Dj-vj Exeris she was in india 3 months and then nepal for 2.5
    (Author’s note – All that time in India and Nepal, and Ania Ziolkowska STILL MISSED THE MARK. Also, she’s lying. She was only in india until MAY, 2011. She then came back to Chris, in Baltimore, and PRETENDED to be in India, per her passport records.)
  • 8:26pm John Did she go to India in march? He said she went in march
  • 8:26pm Dj-vj Exeris end of february
  • 8:26pm John  Six months after she left him
  • 8:26pm Dj-vj Exeris like last day or so
  • 8:27pm John  He said she talked to him march first We’re you with her?
  • 8:27pm 

    Dj-vj Exeris you know the doctors can prove if someone has been pregnant or had a child she has never been pregnant

    (Author’s note – Remember this. There WILL be a “quiz”)

  • 8:27pm John  I know that
  • 8:27pm Dj-vj Exeris it can be proved by the doctors (Author’s note – Still paying attention?)
  • 8:27pm John    Is she willing to prove he’s crazy? That would help
  • 8:28pm Dj-vj Exeris we didn’t start dating till Januray 1st 2012 (Author’s note – What does this have to do with Ania Ziolkowska being pregnant?????)
  • 8:29pm John  So you don’t know anything but what she’s told you? Look I’m not takin sides and the fucker stole my phone but you gotta see where he might look right, right?
    I’m gonna kick his fuckin ass when I find him regardless
  • 8:31pm Dj-vj Exeris Yes I know more (Author’s note – It really doesn’t seem so, does it?)
  • 8:31pm John  I just wanna know why he’s so crazy and he seems to have a lot to back up his side
  • 8:32pm Dj-vj Exeris Well number one he is not in touch with reality. Or at least does’t appear to be IF he believes his lies. (Author’s note – More slander, but that’s to be expected of these two, right?)
  • 8:32pm John  But you gotta see that he seems coherent and got a lot of paperwork
  • 8:32pm Dj-vj Exeris He has twisted things in his head so much. Ania has proof.
  • 8:32pm John  He told me she tried to get a protection order on him
  • 8:33pm Dj-vj Exeris She can get proof that she never had a kid He is wrong about that simple thing! (Author’s note – This is actually Ania Ziolkowska speaking, but I won’t tell if you won’t tell…..)
  • 8:33pm John  Then he said she called him his family everybody right after she got it
  • 8:33pm Dj-vj Exeris She never tried to get protection order in NYC. She did get one in VA many years ago.
  • 8:33pm John  He’s got a statement that said she just wanted him to pay rent
    And she withdrew it
    He didn’t contact her. She just withdrew it
    That’s what he said
    See what I mean? (Author’s note – Wasn’t I the one that was supposed to be the “bully”? Why withdraw the protection order?)
  • 8:34pm Dj-vj Exeris Why has he not filed for a divorce yet?
  • 8:34pm John  He’s got a lot of people and shit to back him up He said he’s filing in New York
  • 8:34pm Dj-vj Exeris she even offered to pay him to file for a divorce.
  • 8:35pm John  He won’t take it
    (Author’s note – Because it doesn’t even come CLOSE to covering the teeth Ania Ziolkowska knocked out, among other debts her actions caused.)
  • 8:35pm Dj-vj Exeris but he cant file in new york for another year (Author’s note – This is STILL Ania Ziolkowska talking.)
  • 8:35pm John  He said New York rules are different and since she loves there he’s filing there. He’s already got a lawyer. Some chick
  • 8:36pmDj-vj Exeris so he is planning on waiting a year to file?
    (Author’s note – Isn’t that what Ania Ziolkowska is doing? Why does it matter if I wait a year, or Ania wait’s a year?)
  • 8:36pm John  Said the lawyer said since she lives there it don’t matter.
  • 8:36pm Dj-vj Exeris it does matter she needs to have lived there for 2 years (Author’s note – Why does Ania Ziolkowska care? The sooner the better, right? Why not be happy it can be SOONER?)
  • 8:36pm John  He said he’ll wait that long but the lawyer told him he can file now because she’s living there She can’t file but he can
  • 8:36pm Dj-vj Exeris doesn’t he want to start dating?
  • 8:37pm John  I’m gonna talk to a lawyer to see if he’s right I think he is
  • 8:37pm Dj-vj Exeris no, hes wrong
  • 8:37pm John  He says he won’t because he has her in adultery
  • 8:37pm Dj-vj Exeris one of the parties needs to have been a resident of NY for either party to file
  • 8:37pm John  He won’t give her the same option so he’s staying single The lawyer said the rules changed
  • 8:38pm Dj-vj Exeris no, they haven’t
  • 8:38pm John  Said he can file against her because she lives there Look buddy I don’t know
  • 8:38pm Dj-vj Exeris not for another year i know
  • 8:38pm John  That’s what the email from his lawyer said
  • 8:38pm Dj-vj Exeris have looked into it and consulted with lawyers did he tell you his lawyers lame (Author’s note – I have a “Burner” attorney in NYC on standby for retainer for BOTH cases. Ania Ziolkowska consulted with ONE VIRGINIA attorney – Nathan Olson. And why does she need my attorney’s name if she’s waiting a year to file anyway?)
  • 8:39pm John  He said he’s got her for abuse abandonment and adultery
  • 8:39pm John  I saw the email I got trashed after I don’t remember
  • 8:39pm Dj-vj Exeris you cant get alimony based on any of those (Author’s note – In VIRGINIA.)
  • 8:39pm John  Some chick in manhattan In New York you can
  • 8:40pm Dj-vj Exeris equal pay equal education (Author’s note – In VIRGINIA. Also, it’s apparently NOT equal, if Ania Ziolkowska can be in NYC for a YEAR and also be able to take a month long vacation to Eastern Europe this summer.)
  • 8:40pm John  That’s what the email said anyway
  • 8:40pm Dj-vj Exeris no alimony equal earning potential (Author’s note –Again,  In VIRGINIA. Also, it’s apparently NOT equal, if Ania Ziolkowska can be in NYC for a YEAR and also be able to take a month long vacation to Eastern Europe this summer.)
  • 8:40pm John  Look I don’t know
  • 8:40pm Dj-vj Exeris there is zero chance of alimony
    that is certain
    have already checked with lawyers (Author’s note – REALLY worried about that alimony, isn’t she?)
  • 8:40pm John Longo Is she working? Cuz if she is she might have some problems
  • 8:40pm Dj-vj Exeris why? problems with what? (Author’s note – “Why?”)
  • 8:41pm John   Why don’t she just file by newspaper in va?
  • 8:41pm Dj-vj Exeris because she doesnt have va residency
  • 8:41pm John  If she’s working and he’s right she might have problems That’s what the email said
  • 8:41pm Dj-vj Exeris but he can file if he lives there
  • 8:41pm John  It proves her residency too.
  • 8:42pm Dj-vj Exeris you mean alimony problems? not possible… (Author’s note – REALLLLLLY worried about that alimony, isn’t she?)
  • 8:42pm John Longo Yeah (Author’s note – Playing along at this point.)
  • 8:42pm Dj-vj Exeris even if she is working the law doesnt work that way (Author’s note – “IF”)
  • 8:42pm John Well his lawyer thinks different
  • 8:42pm Dj-vj Exeris they have the same earning potential
    (Author’s note –AGAIN,  In VIRGINIA. Also, it’s apparently NOT equal, if Ania Ziolkowska can be in NYC for a YEAR and also be able to take a month long vacation to Eastern Europe this summer.)
  • 8:42pm John If she ain’t working or of she’s in school no problem
  • 8:42pm Dj-vj Exeriand the same aproximate education no, doesnt work that way (Author’s note – So Ania Ziolkowska isn’t working, and isn’t in school, so what IS she doing? Pay attention. There WILL be a “quiz”.)
  • 8:43pm John Longo Look I don’t know
  • 8:43pm Dj-vj Exeris there is zero chance of alimony i know for sure (Author’s note – She really doesn’t, and isn’t good at bluffing.)
  • 8:43pm John  But that’s what the lawyer said
  • 8:43pm Dj-vj Exeris have checked with the best lawyers (Author’s note – Really? Because they can’t afford a tent for the Smoke on the Water Festival at Echo Lake on May 10, 2013, and Ania Ziolkowska HAD a $4oo Big Agnes tent – I have the same one – so…..)
  • 8:43pm John  So she got a lawyer?
  • 8:43pm Dj-vj Exeris sounds like you need a better lawyer
    a much better lawyer
    one that knows the law (Author’s note – Sounds like Ania Ziolkowska needs a NEW YORK lawyer, not a VIRGINIA one.)
  • 8:43pm John  She can file by newspaper in va if she knows he lives there
  • 8:44pm Dj-vj Exeris he can file in va if thats where he lives
    she will file in nyc in 1 yr
    she cant prove his residency
    (Author’s note – Ania Ziolkowska doesn’t have the money. She’s getting “haughty”. This is when you know Ania has trapped herself in her own web of lies.)
  • 8:44pm John  But she can file in va too
    Why can’t she?
    I got divorced like that
    Wife dipped
  • 8:45pm Dj-vj Exeris he has already tried (Author’s note – No, she really didn’t.)
  • 8:45pm John  Had to hire a PI
  • 8:45pm Dj-vj Exeris but he gave a different address to the lawyer
    she did hire a pi (Author’s note – Remember that “address” point from several lines up? Also, she paid $100 to a PI, gave him my SSN, found I have not submitted change of address forms, gave up.)
  • 8:45pm John Then had to use last know address So why didn’t she file?
  • 8:45pm Dj-vj Exeris she did file he provided a va address so she filed (Author’s note – Why did she need an address? Didn’t she say I don’t need an address for THEM?)
  • 8:45pm John  So why ain’t they divorced? If she hired a PI she’s working so that’s good But she coulda used that to get divorced
  • 8:46pm Dj-vj Exeris but then after filing he gave the lawyer a dc address so the lawyer had to drop the case
  • 8:46pm John Why didn’t she So? She could still file
  • 8:47pm Dj-vj Exeris she can not prove his residency
  • 8:47pm John Ad in a newspaper where she thinks she is and end that’s it Didn’t her lawyer tell her that?
  • 8:47pm Dj-vj Exeris she cant file in va because she is not a resident there any more (Author’s note – That’s not what was asked, was it?)
  • 8:48pm John But if she thinks he is she can still file That’s what I had to do
  • 8:48pm Dj-vj Exeris its not enough to file based on you have to have proof of residency (Author’s note – Untrue. Not for filing by newspaper. Why is she resisting filing by newspaper? Why is Ania Ziolkowska delaying this one more year? SHE want’s to be divorced, right?)
  • 8:49pm John  Miserable bitch dipped so I hired a PI and filed in the newspaper
  • 8:49pm Dj-vj Exeris you had residency she doesnt
  • 8:49pm John  The court accepted it and I got remarried
  • 8:49pm Dj-vj Exeris no idea where the guy is maybe dc maybe va
  • 8:49pm John  Naw. This was in Florida. I’m in Yonkers
  • 8:49pm John Longo Why didn’t she just do this clean?
  • 8:50pm Dj-vj Exeris they were talking about a divorce when she was in poland
  • 8:50pm John  Maybe this wouldn’t be a problem of she just sat down with him and told him how it was
  • 8:50pm Dj-vj Exeris he wouldnt provide his lawyers name
  • 8:50pm John  He showed me the emails and played me the recordings
    She kept saying she had not come to that decision yet
    It looks like she jerked him around man
    It looks like she was eating for him to come find her
  • 8:51pm Dj-vj Exeris there are emails where she asks for his lawyers info but he wont give it to him
  • 8:51pm John  I’m just saying
  • 8:51pm Dj-vj Exeris she did not jerk him around she was very up front about it
  • 8:51pm John That’s after she got back. He showed me those He showed me everything
  • 8:51pm Dj-vj Exeris no, she asked for his lawyers name when she was in poland
  • 8:51pm John He wasn’t nice in a lot of those emails But from what he told me I couldn’t blame him Now I don’t know He showed me all the emails She didn’t ask for that
  • 8:52pm Dj-vj Exeris she separated from him in May of 2010 (Author’s note – Remember this point. There WILL be a quiz.)
  • 8:52pm John She had her bro send something but she never asked for it He said she left end if September 2010 There ain’t no legal separation on file
  • 8:53pm Dj-vj Exeris yes, but before then they were on and off, (Author’s note – Really? News to me, since we lived together for the entire ten years.)
  • 8:53pm John  He said he looked
  • 8:53pm Dj-vj Exeris 1 party can not file for legal separation that is an agreement between two people they didnt speak or have sex for many months till just before she left
  • 8:54pm John  He said they lived together until some quack marriage counselor told them to live separate and date Said she didn’t last one day and he was trying to Do what the counselor asked
  • 8:54pm Dj-vj Exeris and they only got married because he wanted to use his va home loan to buy a condo
  • 8:54pm John So she had sex before they left right? So she married him to get a house? Do you see how that sounds?
  • 8:55pm Dj-vj Exeris they were going to buy a condo together there was no engagement
  • 8:55pm John But do you see how that sounds?
  • 8:55pm Dj-vj Exeris just a quick marriage before work
  • 8:55pm John She married him to get the house, right? And a honeymoon in Puerto Rico he said
  • 8:56pm Dj-vj Exeris he married her to get a condo she wanted to be married
  • 8:56pm John He said she proposed to him and set everything up
  • 8:56pm Dj-vj Exeris because she was hoping that if they got married, he would finally believe her (Author’s note – Again, WHY did Ania Ziolkowska have to “prove she was a good person?”)
  • 8:56pm John Even the honeymoon
  • 8:56pm Dj-vj Exeris but nothing changed after they got married
  • 8:56pm John So she had to prove she was a good person and married him for a condo? That don’t sound right man. He said she got worse after they get married
  • 8:57pm Dj-vj Exeris the relationship was always on the rocks some people just shouldnt be together
  • 8:57pm John He’s carrying journals around that she wrote
    She said right after they got married she wasn’t gonna talk to him any more
    Something about how her words were hiring him.
    It’s not his handwriting that’s for damn sure
    He said he’s got something from her ex Before him
  • 8:59pm Dj-vj Exeris this guy just needs to move on with his life there are other women out there (Author’s note – SEE how DISMISSIVE she becomes when anything concerning HER fault is mentioned?)
  • 8:59pm John He said she abused some guy named Charles too
  • 8:59pm Dj-vj Exeris he might be a better match with someone else well this guy had a prior with his ex (Author’s note – Ania Ziolkowska – “the attention needs to get off of ME….”)
  • 8:59pm John Said she spent this dudes entire trust fund
  • 8:59pm Dj-vj Exeris she had a protection order against him he spent months in jail for violating it (Author’s note – Ania Ziolkowska – “the attention needs to get off of ME….People can’t know my PAST….”)
  • 9:00pm John He showed me the report got it from Seattle in case she tried to use that
    Shows they both had orders against each other and his is time stamped before hers
  • 9:00pm Dj-vj Exeris when this guy met Ania he blamed all his problems on his ex
    now he blames all his problems on Ania
    same pattern (Author’s note – Actually, THAT NEVER HAPPENED.)
  • 9:01pm John He went first but told her she was and they give em out like candy in Seattle
    So she called and he didn’t
    That’s what he said
    Told me she apologized to him on stage at some show in Seattle
    I’m just tellin you what he said
  • 9:03pm Dj-vj Exeris why doesnt this guy just move on with his life?
     shes moved on
     and tells others about him
  • 9:04pm John Maybe she don’t want to admit some things? I don’t know but he’s got a lot of shit.
  • 9:04pm Dj-vj Exeris he is the one who talks about her non stop
    he is obsessed with her
    his whole fb page and now his web page is about her
  • 9:04pm John He has an email from her about how she used to talk to people about him
    Says she lied to people so they would feel sorry for her
    Says she with you because you’re popular
  • 9:05pm Dj-vj Exeris now he lies to people (Author’s note – This point is sad, as nearly every line that’s been said here by THEM is a PROVABLE lie.)
  • 9:05pm John Says she got with him for the same reason
  • 9:05pm Dj-vj Exeris he says she had his kid and sold it that is complete and utter bs
  • 9:05pm John But can you prove that? He can he’s got paper and shit from her
  • 9:05pm Dj-vj Exeris i cant think of a lie worse than that
    prove what ?
  • 9:06pm John Can you prove he’s lying about anything? Everything?
  • 9:06pm Dj-vj Exeris about her having his kid?
  • 9:06pm John Longo Can you prove it?
  • 9:06pm Dj-vj Exeris yeah, there are tons of pics from her in Poland and india and nepal. she was never pregnant
    (Author’s note – Wait, wait, WAIT….what happened to “Doctors can prove that”? Pictures prove NOTHING. baggy clothes in India and Nepal, and you can be pregnant and not even show. Notice how they backed away from SCIENTIFIC proof?)
  • 9:06pm John Right now it looks like she beat him up dipped out and he’s got everything to say he can be passed off at her
    So she went on a vacation
    That’s not proof
  • lots of people leave relationships
    he should have left if he was unhappy (Author’s note – She just realized her argument wasn’t convincing, so now she has to justify the “Why” of it.)
  • 9:07pm John She didn’t get a separation and he’s got shit that says she led him on
    He said he was in love with her tried counseling everything
  • 9:08pm Dj-vj Exeris all he says not is how badly she treated him, but she is the best gf i have ever had
    we dont even argue (Author’s note – Is it obvious that this is Ania Ziolkowska, yet? Not that it matters. For all intents and purposes, it is still Chris M Sevanick, legally.)
  • 9:08pm John Did she call him a nigger and not say she was sorry until she was told to? That’s what he said
  • 9:08pm Dj-vj Exeris for a year and a half
    did he ever call her any names? (Author’s note – Was that the question? See the refusal for accountability? For someone that has been to India and Nepal, and spent so long in yoga, WHY IS THE SAME BEHAVIOR SHE ALWAYS HAD STILL PRESENT?????)
  • 9:08pm John Said she would call him a nigger and not say she was sorry until he told her she needed to
    That’s not what I asked buddy
    You know that
  • 9:09pm Dj-vj Exeris listen, people say things they later regret (Author’s note – That’s still not an apology, restitution, or EFFORT, is it? It’s just a less than creative way to dodge responsibility.)
  • 9:09pm John Lets be straight here
  • 9:09pm Dj-vj Exeris they learn from their mistakes (Author’s note – What did Ania Ziolkowska “LEARN”, exactly? So far it was leave a mess SHE made (running away from those she hurts), travel the world (selfish self delusion), jump in someone else’s bed (selfish survival), this time a white guy, convince everyone she is better than she actually is (deception), and try to act as though she’s done nothing wrong (Narcissistic Personality Disorder 101), ever. Ania Ziolkowska has ALWAYS done this, so I’m still wanting to see what she’s learned.)
  • 9:09pm John Did she do that? But he said she kept doing it
    Would whisper it in his ear
  • 9:09pm Dj-vj Exeris she hasnt talked to him at all in 3 yrs (Author’s note – Not what was asked, was it?)
  • 9:10pm John Has friends that saw her do it
    That’s what he says
    Look I’m not racist I’d have a problem with that
  • 9:10pm Dj-vj Exeris could you hold on a sec?
  • 9:10pm John Sure whatever
  • 9:13pm Dj-vj Exeris his friends also saw him treat her badly
    listen, from what i hear it just wasnt a good relationship (Author’s note – Ania Ziolkowska said the same thing about Charles, the boyfriend before me, her husband.)
  • 9:13pm John His friends said she treated him badly he called a bunch of people while he was here.
    Said he knew she would do that so he found everyone for the divorce
  • 9:14pm Dj-vj Exeris so why did he stay with her?
  • 9:14pm John But who’s fault was that really?
    He said he loved her
  • 9:14pm Dj-vj Exeris does he enjoy being in a bad relationship? (Author’s note – Does she enjoy destroying every relationship she’s in when her lies catch up to her?)
  • 9:14pm John He wanted kids with her
    He just wanted her to stop beating him up that’s what he said
  • 9:15pm Dj-vj Exeris he must, because instead of moving on and finding a happy relationship, he is still bad mouthing her (Author’s note – See the concern by Ania Ziolkowksa of her IMAGE over everything else? NO acknowledgment of her wrongs or actions. Only constant deflection toward the victim she created, while attempting to make herself a “victim”.)
  • 9:15pm John One sec
  • 9:15pm Dj-vj Exeris he would rather complain about what he says happened years ago than to be happy (Author’s note – Ania Ziolkowska destroyed EVERYTHING about our lives, my jobs, my credit, my home, my sanity, and in the process stole my dreams – going to India, living in NYC – while leaving me broke and penniless in a recession, and then just jumped in someone else’s bed, her life handed to her, by both stealing and destroying mine. “Let them eat cake!” is how Ania Ziolkowska sounds. And, as usual, she NEVER is required to face karma, somehow passing it to those she was closest to. She did the exact same thing to Charles, before me, leaving him broke, and nearly homeless, and just went home to mommy and daddy, and then a buddhist monastery and crewed on a sailboat for a short time.)
  • 9:17pm John But he wanted to know why she can’t admit what she did. That’s all the fucker talked about how she treated him like shit and just won’t admit it even when everybody else saw it
    He’s gotta have at least 20 witnesses. He called that many peeps
  • 9:17pm Dj-vj Exeris did you see the emails he posted?
  • And they make her look nuts
    Just saying
  • 9:17pm Dj-vj Exeris she did admit and apologize
    he wouldnt accept her apologies (Author’s note – “If anything an apology from a Narc is yet another way of excersizing his “power” and control over you in order to get what he wants — Narcissistic Supply. Because apologies don’t have to be sincere to work in the Narcs favor.” – see the link)
  • 9:18pm John He said she apologized before after he told her she needed to and then kept getting worse like she resented having to apologize
  • 9:18pm Dj-vj Exeris everyone makes mistakes in every relationship (Author’s note – Do I even have to say it?)
  • 9:18pm John He said she put no work behind the apology (Author’s note – An apology is “apology, restitution, and effort”. Ania Ziolkowska made GENERAL apologies, after being TOLD SHE NEEDED TO, and none of the rest.)
  • 9:19pm Dj-vj Exeris no one is gona think it is crazy that they didnt get along all the time
  • 9:19pm John Just kept treatin him like worse shit
  • 9:19pm Dj-vj Exeris he only saw what he wanted to see (Author’s note – Apparently so did Charles and everyone else she left behind, except Eva Annika Backstrom, the ex girlfriend of Chris M Sevanick, that connected the two of them, and Uzi Grindler, Annika’s boyfriend that stabbed me in the back.)
  • 9:19pm John But look at how you sound buddy
  • 9:19pm Dj-vj Exeris listen, they were together a while
    (Author’s note – Not really helping her case with this one.)
  • 9:19pm John I’m not takin sides. I just want my fuckin phone
  • 9:19pm Dj-vj Exeris they both grew up and changed (Author’s note – Again, HOW did Ania Ziolkowska “change”, exactly? So far it was leave a mess SHE made (running away from those she hurts), travel the world (selfish self delusion), jump in someone else’s bed (selfish survival)this time a white guy, convince everyone she is better than she actually is (deception), and try to act as though she’s done nothing wrong (Narcissistic Personality Disorder 101), ever. Ania Ziolkowska has ALWAYS done this, so I’m still wanting to see what she’s “Changed”.)
  • 9:19pm John But it looks like your talkin for her
    And makin excuses for her
    Like she can’t do it herself
    See how that looks?
  • 9:20pm John That don’t do much for his mental state I think that’s why he’s crazy
    He’s textbook PTSD
    I saw that shit in 911
  • 9:21pm Dj-vj Exeris i am not making any judgements
    dont need to
  • 9:21pm John She did a number on him
    Right right you got his girl
    Why should you?
    Right?
    I don’t give a shit
  • 9:22pm Dj-vj Exeris the only reason she hasnt gotten a divorce yet is because she cant
    she is not his girl
    (Author’s note – Notice the irritation? This is the beginning of Narcissistic Rage Response. Ania Ziolkowska actually threw SEVERAL tantrums while with me, in PUBLIC. One in Springfield Mall, in Springfield, VA, in front of my mother, and one at 2 Amy’s, in DC, off Wisconsin Ave., in front of Annika, Uzi, and the ENTIRE RESTAURANT. )
  • 9:22pm John I just want my fuckin phone back and I’m done with this shit
  • 9:22pm Dj-vj Exeris and hasnt been for way before we started dating
  • 9:22pm John But you don’t sound right and by law she is
    And that’s all he needs
    Dig?
  • 9:22pm Dj-vj Exeris she is not his property (Author’s note – See the rage rising?)
  • 9:22pm John Who said property?
    She agreed she set up the wedding she set up the honeymoon
    She didn’t try to work shit out is what he said
    She just bossed him around is what he said
  • 9:23pm Dj-vj Exeris and when the relationship didnt work out she left (Author’s note – Translation, we couldn’t buy the condo, because the conversion changed back to apartments, so she had nothing to gain, and left. See the link for “Narcissistic Supply”.)
  • 9:23pm John Work for who?
    He’s got bills from counselors and is gonna make then give statements
  • 9:24pm Dj-vj Exeris for him the way he makes it sound (Author’s note – So…..wait a minute….it didn’t work for ME, so Ania Ziolkowska left? WHAT?!?!?)
  • 9:24pm John They don’t do that you know that
    I’m beginning to see why he’s crazy
  • 9:25pm Dj-vj Exeris do you think hes crazy? (Author’s note – Why does THAT matter?)
  • 9:25pm John I think he’s pissed
    So you been with her since January 1st of 2012, right?
  • 9:26pm Dj-vj Exeris why is he pissed? (Author’s note – Did she SERIOUSLY just ask that question?)
  • 9:26pm John I think from what we talked about he might have real good reason to be pissed off
    So you been with her since January 1st of 2012, right?
  • 9:27pm Dj-vj Exeris we started dating Jan 1 2012
    what reason does he have to be pissed?
    hes the one posting her personal info on fb (Author’s note – Am I the ONLY one that sees the absolute narcissism in that statement?)
  • 9:28pm John  Look he tried to work things out with her and she kept leading him on
  • 9:28pm Dj-vj Exeris how did she lead him on?
  • 9:28pm John He says she went to India knowing he wanted to go since 2001
    Then moved to NYC when he kept begging her to
  • 9:28pm Dj-vj Exeris when she left for India he was asking for her address in Poland to send the divorce papers to
  • 9:29pm John Something about how it was too cold and her knees or some shit
    Can you prove that?
  • 9:29pm Dj-vj Exeris he can go to India whenever he wants
    and she didnt want to move to ny
    i was gonna move there already (Author’s note – 1. See how dismissive Ania Ziolkowska is on the India issue? Had to steal my ideas. She is incapable of an original thought. 2. If Ania did not want to move to NYC she would not have. Chris is her next “HOME”, her next bed she jumped into to have a “HOME”. He’s so gullibly dense and obsessed he couldn’t see the obvious?)
  • 9:29pm John He’s got nothing saying that and he showed me every email
  • 9:29pm Dj-vj Exeris before we started dating (Author’s note – just digging that gold digger hole deeper, huh?)
  • 9:29pm John So why is she in NYC then?
    Because of you?
    And you don’t see why he’s pissed?
    You don’t see that?
    Forget I asked that.
    So what about her spending all the money?
  • 9:30pm Dj-vj Exeris and she didnt talk to him for a year and a half after that last conversation about a divorce (Author’s note – Not entirely true, however Ania Ziolkowska had to make sure she had another bed to jump into, before deciding to file for divorce. She can’t survive ALONE.)
  • 9:30pm John He said she kept them broke while she loved large and he even made more than her
  • 9:31pm Dj-vj Exeris and even that conversation was requesting an address for a divorce
  • 9:31pm John You still don’t see why he’s pissed off?
  • 9:31pm Dj-vj Exeris they have been talking about a divorce for years now
  • 9:31pm John Man I can see why he’s pissed off
  • 9:31pm Dj-vj Exeris when she left she left him with everything
    the apartment
    even paid for the apartment for a whole year
    gave him half of her 401K
  • 9:32pm John He said she caused him to get a DUI because he was trying to get away from her while fighting
    Said Shee lost him three jobs and two apartments
    Lost him his car
    She tell you anything About that?
  • 9:32pm Dj-vj Exeris he got a DUI because he swallowed a whole jar of ambien or some other such pills and then got into a car
    he didnt have to do that
    she didnt make him do that
    you see how he is not taking responsibility for his actions? (Author’s note – JAR???? Also, there are details missing to that explanation, as she full well knows.)
  • 9:33pm John He said he did not get half her 401k she paid for an apartment so she wouldn’t have no eviction on her record
  • 9:33pm Dj-vj Exeris he wrecked his car
  • 9:33pm John He told me about that but why was she fighting with him? (Author’s note – first time asked. Pay attention. This is a tactic Ania uses.)
  • 9:33pm Dj-vj Exeris she saved both of them from having an eviction on their record. she didnt have to do that
  • 9:34pm John He told me all that. But why was she fighting with him and why did he leave?
    She saved herself from having an eviction then
  • 9:34pm Dj-vj Exeris the point is he took the pills and got into the car
  • 9:34pm John Look I sorta don’t care but none of this makes sense
    Why did he leave?
  • 9:35pm Dj-vj Exeris didnt he tell you?
    leaving is not a crime, but getting into a car after taking so many pills is
  • 9:35pm John Because she was fighting with him and she tried that domestic violence thing before so he left
  • 9:35pm Dj-vj Exeris he was lucky not to have killed anyone (Author’s note – Avoidance.)
  • 9:36pm John He said he wished they’d left him in his burning car after finding out what she did
    He has the report where she told them they were fighting and he left
  • 9:36pm Dj-vj Exeris doesnt change the fact that he took a whole bottle of pills and got into a car (Author’s note – Deferral of fault. Still doesn’t acknowledge the FIGHT.)
  • 9:36pm John Then calmly told then she thought he was trying to kill himself and what he took
    Was she fighting with him?
    Did she try to do that before?
    You seein where it makes no sense?
    It was his place why would he leave?
  • 9:37pm Dj-vj Exeris makes sense that if he was laying passed out she would be afraid for his life and tell the police he took pills (Author’s note – HOW does that answer the question, and what does that have to do with the question? )
  • 9:38pm John Unless she was fighting with him and he didn’t want to deal with her lying to the cops
  • 9:38pm Dj-vj Exeris and its not her fault he took the pills
    and got into a car (Author’s note – STILL avoiding that fight point, isn’t she? Deferral and deflection. Narcissism one oh one.)
  • 9:38pm John Why was she fighting with him? (Author’s note – This is the THIRD time this question has been asked DIRECTLY.)
  • 9:38pm Dj-vj Exeris he could have killed someone (Author’s note – Deflected again. You get the point, so I will not point it out any longer.)
  • 9:39pm John Why was she fighting with him? (Author’s note – This is the FOURTH time this question has been asked DIRECTLY.)
  • 9:39pm Dj-vj Exeris lots of people fight
  • 9:39pm John Why was she fighting with him? (Author’s note – This is the FIFTH time this question has been asked DIRECTLY.)
  • 9:39pm Dj-vj Exeris but who takes a bottle of pills and gets into a car? (Author’s note – Avoidance. Attempting to put the onus upon the victim. Victim blaming.)
  • 9:39pm John Why was she fighting with him? (Author’s note – This is the SIXTH time this question has been asked DIRECTLY.)
  • 9:39pm Dj-vj Exeris that is really irresponsible (Author’s note – OMISSION and victim blaming.)
  • 9:39pm John Why was she fighting with him? (Author’s note – This is the SEVENTH time this question has been asked DIRECTLY.)
  • 9:40pm Dj-vj Exeris beyond irresponsible
    he could have killed someone (Author’s note – Further attempt at redirection from the TRUTH.)
  • 9:40pm John Look it looks like he’s not the only one avoiding their issues (Author’s note – Obviously THEY are avoiding more than I am.)
  • 9:40pm Dj-vj Exeris sounds like they were both arguing with each other
    and it sounds like they did that a lot
  • 9:41pm John I deal with psych patients all the time and she hasn’t accepted her fault in anything That’s just my two cents
  • 9:41pm Dj-vj Exeris sounds like it was a good thing that the relationship ended (Author’s note – Here’s where the Narcissistic Personality Disorder aspect of Ania Ziolkowska REALLY shows. All that yoga, all that mediation, India, Nepal, and still THE EXACT SAME ISSUES. Actually, DUE to all of that, she has gotten WORSE.)
  • 9:41pm John I’m not judging, but you might wanna really wonder why she’s really with you.
  • 9:41pm Dj-vj Exeris and you can tell by whats going on now who the victim was all along (Author’s note – YES, we CAN.)
  • 9:42pm John Just lookin out for my boy
  • 9:42pm Dj-vj Exeris he says he is the victim (Author’s note – And Ania Ziolkowska’s words and actions PROVE THAT TO BE TRUE.)
  • 9:42pm John He’s fucked up yeah (Author’s note – Playing along, obviously.)
  • 9:42pm Dj-vj Exeris but he is the one posting her personal info on facebook (Author’s note – Concern with image and reputation. Narcissistic Personality Disorder 101.)
  • 9:42pm John But she don’t sound right either
  • 9:42pm Dj-vj Exeris that show intent to harm someone (Author’s note – Really? I’m pretty sure it only “injures” Ania Ziolkowska’s EGO and PRIDE.)
  • 9:42pm John Just because she avoids it don’t mean it didn’t happen
  • 9:42pm Dj-vj Exeris normal people just dont do that (Author’s note – Of course, because Ania Ziolkowska is the benchmark for “normal”, correct?)
  • 9:42pm John I ain’t seen no attempt to harm nobody
  • 9:43pm Dj-vj Exeris he is still writing emails to her friends and family even though they have told him to stop
    that is not normal (Author’s note – Concern for reputation. Ania Ziolkowska has no issue of people only knowing HER side, however did not like her words being sent to her friends, as they showed she was lying and only telling a lie. I will post that email when it is found.)
  • 9:43pm John I see a guy pissed off cuz somebody he loved fucked him over bad
  • 9:43pm Dj-vj Exeris everyone can see that
    he is a bully
    everyone can see that (Author’s note – Ania Ziolkowska really needs to revisit the definition of “Bully”. “Ally Building” is part of being a “bully”, which she and Exeris are guilty of.)
  • 9:43pm John And this ain’t helping that much
  • 9:43pm Dj-vj Exeris he is obsessive (Author’s note – Obsessive? And what, may I ask, is cherry picking people I met as friends a year before her, while she was out of the country? I wouldn’t exactly call that “NORMAL” or “SANE”.)
  • 9:43pm John Can you blame him?
  • 9:43pm Dj-vj Exeris and cant move on with his life
    that is not normal
    there is no blame (Author’s note – Then why BEGIN the conversation SLANDEROUSLY? Of course, Ania Ziolkowska has “moved on”…..)
  • 9:43pm John Looks like she bullied him for 10 years
    Can you blame him?
  • 9:44pm Dj-vj Exeris this is just an observation of what is going on right now
    she does not post negative things about him online (Author’s note – No, Ania just gets her new “friends” to do that FOR her. Links to follow.)
  • 9:44pm John Look I’m gonna find him and get my phone back but I’m not sure I’m gonna kick his ass now
  • 9:44pm Dj-vj Exeris based on his behavior now, he is making it look like he is the one who bullied her for 9 years (Author’s note – Interesting. This entire conversation to this point OBVIOUSLY supports that.)
  • 9:44pm John She’s avoidant and worried about how she looks don’t mean she’s right
  • 9:45pm Dj-vj Exeris and is continuing that behavior now
    how is she worried about how she looks?
    he is the one on the defensive
    the one attacking her (Author’s note – Wait, wait, wait…..isn’t “HE” the one that opened the conversation with slanderous statements of my having supposedly done “METH for THREE YEARS” – which is physically impossible, by the way – and “tones of E” – which there are pictures of her under the influence of?)
  • 9:45pm John Look from what I see she whatever her name is Anya? Avoids what she does to peeps and just goes to new peeps to pretend she wasn’t like that
    How can he be defensive and attacking?
    My wife was like that
  • 9:46pm Dj-vj Exeris he thinks he needs to be defensive (Author’s note – ????)
  • 9:46pm John Then she left and I divorced her
  • 9:46pm Dj-vj Exeris but she is not attacking him (Author’s note – Numbers 1 and 5 of THIS LIST)
  • 9:46pm John That makes no sense
    Looks like she messed up and just left instead of working it out
    That’s what my wife did
  • 9:47pm Dj-vj Exeris ok, so you divorced your wife. why can’t this guy divorce Ania? (Author’s note – Why can’t Ania divorce ME?)
  • 9:48pm John Why can’t she admit what she did?
  • 9:48pm Dj-vj Exeris she tried to work it out, and finally why she realized there was no hope of ever working anything out, she left
    that was years ago (Author’s note – Hector : “So I’m supposed to treat YOU like gold, and you can treat me however you WANT?” Ania Ziolkowska [sitting on the back of our couch in a black dress] – “YES!” – For Ania, that’s “trying to work it out.”)
  • 9:48pm John The counselors don’t say that
    Looks like he just wouldn’t let her walk all over him anymore so she left
  • 9:49pm Dj-vj Exeris he had her post everything she ever did wrong on her facebook for all of her friends to see
    she did that
  • 9:49pm John Just saying
  • 9:49pm Dj-vj Exeris but it wasnt good enough for him
    nothing she did was ever good enough for him
  • 9:49pm John No he told me about that. She made some general statement with no details and then she said he hacked her account (Author’s note – This is true. Ania Ziolkowska gave me the password to her account, due to her past lying, and it was exactly as said above.)
  • 9:50pm Dj-vj Exeris there were details (Author’s note – See the anger? Ania Ziolkowska is caught in her lie of “I’m such a victim!”)
  • 9:50pm John He said she’d just embarrass him in front of peeps and act like it never happened.
  • 9:50pm Dj-vj Exeris so why did he stay with her?
    that doesnt add up
  • 9:51pm John Does she still have the post? Can she prove it?
    Because he loved her
    That part adds up
    We do stupid shit for love (Author’s note – At THIS point they should have figured out who they were actually talking to. She knows she is lying about the post.)
  • 9:51pm Dj-vj Exeris sounds like an unhealthy love
    or maybe not love at all (Author’s note – Minimization of the other party to justify her own wrong doing. That is symptomatic of sociopathy.)
  • 9:51pm John She stayed too
    He loved her
  • 9:51pm Dj-vj Exeris people make mistakes (Author’s note – Further minimization.)
  • 9:52pm John Looks like she never loved him
    Just used him
    Looks like she’s got a habit if using peeps.
  • 9:53pm John Said she jumped into bed with her ex before him to get out of her parents house at 18
  • 9:53pm Dj-vj Exeris like they were both at a bad place in their lives when they got together (Author’s note – Ania tries to get you to “share” in HER fault. She can’t survive alone, and she can’t be AT FAULT ALONE.)
  • 9:53pm John Said she jumped into his bed to get out of her parents house again
    Now she jumped in your bed
    Spent everybody’s money
    Left when they caught on
  • 9:54pm Dj-vj Exeris she doesnt spend my money (Author’s note – Lie. If she asks him to buy her something, she’s spending HIS MONEY.)
  • 9:54pm John This looks like a pattern to me
  • 9:54pm Dj-vj Exeris we split everything 50 50
    so your pattern doesnt match (Author’s note – Who want’s to bet that’s a lie also?)
  • 9:54pm John You only been with her a year and a half
  • 9:54pm John She always does it near the end he said
  • 9:54pm Dj-vj Exeris sounds like her relationship with him was always the same
  • 9:55pm John And the one before him
    Pattern
    See it?
  • not with me (Author’s note – I wonder if he realizes how he looks right now?)
  • 9:55pm John Went to a Buddhist monastery when Charles got her to leave
    Went to yoga and India this time
    That looks like a pattern.
  • 9:56pm Dj-vj Exeris nothing wrong with going to a buddhist monastery
    or to yoga and india
  • 9:56pm John Something wrong with doing it after every relationship she walked out on
  • 9:57pm Dj-vj Exeris she says she went to the buddhist monastery at the beginning of her relationship with Charles
  • 9:57pm John He says different and so does Charles he got a statement
    Says Charles told him she cheated on him while they were together
  • 9:57pm Dj-vj Exeris no, she has never cheated (Author’s note – How does HE know? Charles refuses to have ANYTHING TO DO WITH HER.)
  • 9:57pm John And she used to attack him
  • 9:57pm Dj-vj Exeris on anyone (Author’s note – Get ready for THIS one……)
  • 9:58pm John She’s cheating now. By law.
  • 9:58pm Dj-vj Exeris she is not in a relationship with him
    she just cant get a divorce yet
    thats not her fault (Author’s note – Ania Ziolkowska could have filed by publication, remember?)
  • 9:58pm John She’s not separated that’s still cheating he’s got her on that
    She didn’t try to get separated did she?
  • 9:59pm Dj-vj Exeris its not cheating if you’re not in a relationship with the other person anymore
    he brought up divorce when she was still in Poland before India (Author’s note – I asked REPEATEDLY if that was what ANIA wanted. Ania refused to decide – “I haven’t come to that decision yet…”she needed another bed to jump into, another “SUCKER” first. That’s voice recorded from skype.)
  • 9:59pm John By law she’s cheating not divorced no separation she’s cheating
    He’s got recordings
  • 10:00pm Dj-vj Exeris they have been separated since September 2010
    (Author’s note – Chris Sevanick / Ania Ziolkowska said MAY 2010 before, remember?)
  • 10:00pm John She did not say she wanted a divorce
    He’s got emails that say she was just there to figure thugs out
  • 10:00pm Dj-vj Exeris yes, she did
    he would not provide his lawyer’s name
    says he wanted to mail the paperwork to her brother’s house
  • 10:01pm John After she was already with you, right? So she’s cheating now and was then
    Nope
    He’s got all the emails
  • 10:01pm Dj-vj Exeris no, that was in February 2011
    1 year before we started dating
  • 10:01pm John No it was June of 2012
  • 10:02pm Dj-vj Exeris that was the 2nd time she asked for the paperwork for a divorce
  • 10:02pm John She’s not gonna look good in any of this
  • 10:02pm Dj-vj Exeris like I said, they hadn’t seen each other since September of 2010
  • 10:03pm John The court won’t see it that way. I see that shit all the time
    It’s like she wants things to be her way but that’s not how it is
  • 10:03pm Dj-vj Exeris she has spoken to lawyers
  • 10:03pm John I’m just try na warn you man
  • 10:04pm John Lawyers will tell you anything for cash and you know that.
    (Author’s note – Ania Ziolkowska saw ONE attorney in Virginia. The rest is her going off of information I sent her via email, calling her bluff. However, since she can file by newspaper in any state, why is she stalling?)
  • 10:04pm Dj-vj Exeris this guy just doesnt know his stuff
  • 10:04pm John Looks like she’s not telling everything herself
  • 10:04pm Dj-vj Exeris its very open and shut
  • 10:04pm John Or else she’d be divorced by now and this wouldn’t be an issue
  • 10:04pm Dj-vj Exeris no property, no kids
    thats all there is to it
  • 10:05pm John That’s in va. NYC is different
  • 10:05pm Dj-vj Exeris the only reason she is not divorced yet is because she cant file
  • 10:05pm John Because nobody owns shit in NYC
  • 10:05pm Dj-vj Exeris she would have filed when she returned from Poland, but she didnt have residency
    that is the only reason she is not divorced yet
    its very clear (Author’s note – The REAL reason is Ania Ziolkowska had not found another bed to jump into yet.)
  • 10:06pm John That’s not sounding right. She can divorce by newspaper I did it
    That’s not sounding right. She can divorce by newspaper I did it
    She had residency until she moved to NYC
  • 10:06pm Dj-vj Exeris no, she didnt
  • 10:06pm John She had a va license right?
    So she had residency
  • 10:07pm Dj-vj Exeris she left va for a year
    when she came back she didnt have residency
  • 10:07pm John That’s not how it works
  • 10:07pm Dj-vj Exeris or at least not domesticity
    yes, it is
  • 10:07pm John She was traveling as long as she had a license she had residency
    What lawyers did she talk to?
    We’re thy just billing for hours buddy?
  • 10:08pm Dj-vj Exeris otherwise the lawyers would have happily taken her money for a divorce when she got back
    you need residency and domesticity
    she didnt live in VA for 6 months prior to wanting to file
    so she couldnt file
    only reason she doesnt have a divorce right now (Author’s note – Untrue. Ania Ziolkowska could have used a last known address and filed via publication. If I were her boyfriend, I would want to know why she has not done this.)
  • 10:11pm John Look, she had residency in va She coulda filed in va it looks like she as waiting for him to find her and when he didn’t she just jumped in your sack That’s what it looks like and that’s what a NYC judge will say
  • 10:11pm John  I’m just lettin you know from my experience
  • 10:11pm Dj-vj Exeris if you dont believe me, look it up
    if she wasnt living in va for 6 months prior to filing, she couldnt have filed (Author’s note – Like Ania looked it up, and is saying she went to “the best lawyers”?)
  • 10:11pm John What a lawyer tells you and what happens are two different thugs
  • 10:11pm Dj-vj Exeris thats the law (Author’s note – Ania Ziolkowska could have filed by newspaper by now.)
  • 10:12pm John  Just coz she was traveling doesn’t mean she wasn’t a resident
    He’s got her last address in va so she still looks like a resident on paper
    And if she was being clean about it why all the game playing?
    Why not just he clean about it?
    I can see why he’s pissed.
  • 10:13pm Dj-vj Exeris she wasnt in va for 6 months prior to wanting to file, so she couldnt file
    thats as clean as it comes (Author’s note – Is she insane? Clean is discussion of separation, the mediation process, communication, etc. Yes, we all know she is insane. Rhetorical question.)
  • 10:13pm John It looks like she stabbed him in the back and everybody he knows stabbed him in the back for her
  • 10:14pm Dj-vj Exeris there was never any game play on her end
  • 10:14pm John That’s why he’s got PTSD
  • 10:14pm Dj-vj Exeris it was all in his head
    he played games with him self
    if that is the case
    (Author’s note – and all the witnesses imagined this also? And the voice recordings are also imaginary?)
  • 10:14pm John She left she kept telling him she ain’t come to that decision yet when he asked
    That’s game playing
    He’s got her voice on his phone
  • 10:14pm Dj-vj Exeris she asked for his lawyers name before going to India
    he wouldnt give it
  • 10:15pm John  No she didn’t he ain’t got anything saying that
  • 10:15pm Dj-vj Exeris he said he had a lawyer, but then wouldnt give their name
    sounds like he was playing games
  • 10:15pm John  He said he was pissed when he found out she was gong to India after trapping him where he never wanted to be
  • 10:16pm Dj-vj Exeris he kept posting things about being interested in other girls on his facebook page (Author’s note – Here is where the self justification and regret begin to show. See it? Yes, this is still Ania Ziolkowska, my wife, talking. I thought she was “happy”?)
  • 10:16pm John No it sounds like she was playin games
    That don’t mean nothin
    So he posted
  • 10:16pm Dj-vj Exeris to whom? yes, he did
  • 10:16pm John He was pissed
  • 10:16pm Dj-vj Exeris sounds like he was playing games then
  • 10:17pm John She was playin games and he got pissed off I can see that
    Looks like she cared more about how She looked than about him
  • 10:17pm Dj-vj Exeris but he made it clear that he was over her and that he had moved on
    thats how it looked to everyone else (Author’s note – Looked to WHOM, again? She has had my page blocked since before she went to India. She just revealed what I thought and said, while everyone thought I was crazy – THAT SHE HAS HAD PEOPLE SPYING ON ME AND MAKING UP STORIES. As long as I didn’t cheat, or was discreet, was I not supposed to try to distract myself from the mess my wife left me? )
  • 10:17pm John When? Where?
  • 10:17pm

    Dj-vj Exeris no one knows that he did that just cuz he was pissed

    (Author’s note – That’s what COMMUNICATION is for, idiot. Also, note the regret? )

  • 10:18pm 

    John     Does it matter? She wasn’t talking to him, right? Still looks like she cared more about how she looked than about him

  • 10:18pm Dj-vj Exeris it matters if now he is saying that she was stringing him along, when she did nothing of the sort
  • 10:18pm John And since she would make him look bad all the time, that’s a little messed up right?
    He’s got her voice on recordings saying she’s stringing him along
  • 10:19pm Dj-vj Exeris sounds like that was an immature relationship
    and unhealthy
    like she grew up, but he hasn’t yet
  • 10:19pm John

    She keeps sayin she ain’t come to that decision yet

  • 10:19pm Dj-vj Exeris he sounds like he is still a bully
    doesnt look good for him
  • 10:19pm John But you keep putting it on him when there were two people in it
  • 10:20pm Dj-vj Exeris him still harassing her friends and family does not show her to be a bully
    it shows him to be one
    i am saying they had an unhealthy relationship
  • 10:20pm John  It looks great for him from what I can see If he’s got peeps saying she bullied him and what you’re saying that’s not looking good for her
  • 10:20pm Dj-vj Exeris she left, but maybe he should have
    either way it ended a long time ago
    but he is showing that he is still the bully by being a jerk even now
  • 10:21pm John  But who made it unhealthy? He said he’s the one that asked for marriage counselors and there’s an email where she agrees to go into treatment for something
  • 10:21pm Dj-vj Exeris so it is not looking good for him
    but thats his own fault at this point
  • 10:21pm John  See he’s got those things from her that make her look bad
    I saw the email where she agreed to go to treatment then cussed at him right after
  • 10:22pm Dj-vj Exeris as she is not doing anything hurtful to him like posting his social security info on her facebook the way he is doing to her (Author’s note – Actually, it was her new friend, Daniel K Panzer that did that. Nice choice in friends they have. I have the entire conversation, which I will link here.)
  • 10:22pm John  So she’s not looking good right now. She looking like the true cause of his mental illness.
  • 10:22pm Dj-vj Exeris does he have a mental illness?
  • 10:23pm John  She’s lucky he can’t demand a psych evaluated for divorce
  • 10:23pm Dj-vj Exeris has he been diagnosed?
  • 10:23pm John  I think she’d fail
    Yes
    PTSD
    He showed me the paperwork from some do psychiatrist with Ab Indian name.
    And it says due to a past unresolved relationship
    Abusive relationship
    That don’t make her look good at all.
  • 10:25pm Dj-vj Exeris they were in the same relationship together
    the same stress
    the same trauma
  • 10:25pm John  Don’t look that way
  • 10:25pm Dj-vj Exeris both of them stayed for 9 years
    she left the country
    all of her friends
    to get her head straight
  • 10:26pm John Did she tell you about some bathtub incident in va?
  • seems like he still has not
    maybe he should take that trip to India?
  • 10:27pm John  He said he caught her in a bathtub with a girl half naked and she never apologized for it then she talked to the girl behind his back for a month.
    She didn’t leave the two friends that hooked you up behind though
    She’s looking like a textbook personality disorder fuck up one place and get a new start where no one knows her Gets lots of attention cuz she’s with you Sounds like NPD or ASPD to me But I’m not a doctor
    So all I’m sayin is watch your back My wife was the racy same way That’s why she went to Florida
    Either way, I just want my fuckin phone
  • 10:32pm Dj-vj Exeris Hey man, well good luck w that.
  • 10:32pm John  Not worried about it. I got insurance
  • 10:33pm Dj-vj Exeris cool
  • 10:33pm John  Yeah Thanks
  • 10:43pm John But you gotta accept he’s at least got her on adultery and you gotta look at why she was so easy to Dìp with you. When she starts asking for more shit you should take a step back I forgot to mention he knows where you live.

As for the “tons of E”…..well, all I have to say is this –

Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca high on MDMA, January 26th, 2012

Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca high on MDMA, January 26th, 2012

Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca high on MDMA, January 26th, 2012

Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca high on MDMA, January 26th, 2012

If Ania Ziolkowska WERE telling the truth (I wasn’t even on the east cost from 97-2000) I was NEVER THIS DUMB.

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Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca thinks she’s a model when she’s high on MDMA

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Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca thinks she’s a model when she’s high on MDMA

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Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca thinks she’s a model when she’s high on MDMA

Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca high on MDMA, infecting our cat Shiro. MDMA comes out of your pores and goes through cats pores.

Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca high on MDMA, infecting our cat Shiro. MDMA comes out of your pores and goes through cats pores.

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Eva Annika Backstrom high MDMA

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Eva Annika Backstrom high MDMA

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Eva Annika Backstrom high MDMA

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Eva Annika Backstrom high MDMA

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Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca high on MDMA, infecting our cat Shiro. MDMA comes out of your pores and goes through cats pores.

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Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca high on MDMA, infecting our cat Shiro. MDMA comes out of your pores and goes through cats pores.

What I find amazing is not only the hypocrisy of Chris, but also his complete gullibility, in that he believes everything Ania Ziolkowska has told him, without question. In this conversation, it’s apparent that Chris Sevanick plays a game of avoidance for subjects he knows are lies, or, basically not true. However, they have created this tale of supposed proof because it supports the Maya they have created for themselves. But, as they say –

Love is blind (and apparently deaf and illiterate as well….)

And if I am a bully, I learned it from Ania Ziolkowska, who taught me well.
I merely don’t care as much about my reputation as she does.
People will think what they wish to think, regardless.
Therefore I will remain telling the truth and being me, while she continues to lie about her part in past relationships, as Narcissistic Personality Disorders and Sociopaths are documented as doing. I mean, doesn’t he realize she down talked Charles Gudet when she first got with me as well? The problem is Charles and I are friends, and he told me what she did, in detail, right down to why he showed up at the Silver Diner in Woodbridge, Virginia, when she complained to friends about not having sex, still not recognizing that Charles was hurt by her and did not see her as sexual any longer.
Ania Ziolkowska Is Narcissistic, self absorbed, can put on a great act to get what she wants, unapologetic, and has complete disregard for the emotions of others. Why would Ania leave everything behind? Because that is textbook NPD, that’s why. Apparently he suffers from the same thing, but somehow neither of them are that good any longer. I guess you slip with age.
Chris IS a year older than me……..
A fool who knows his foolishness is wise at least to that extent, but a fool who thinks himself wise is a fool indeed.
~ The Dhammapada 

Ania Ziolkowska refuses to face her shadow, living in “Maya”, the illusion. All of this illustrates that refusal, that self delusion, that finding solace from her damages to others by living the lie she has convinced others she is, or has “become”.

This is “Maya”.

ADDENDUM – I have a voice recording, I believe from somewhere between November 2010 and February 2011, of Ania Ziolkowska saying

“I think I’m going to gain weight. You know, be healthy.”

While Chris believes that when Ania was hiking up and down the mountains of Nepal, with her $300 back pack and her $400 REI tent, that she gained merely 10 pounds (the weight of a baby) because

“She ate dessert three times a day for a month.”

However, Ania KNEW she was going to be fat, SEVERAL MONTHS BEFORE. I wish I had been born a girl. It’s just TOO EASY.

ADDENDUM 2 –  “Maya” (mayainka1@gmail.com) in the comments section is actually Daniel K Panzer, part of the network of spies, cyberbullies, and Flying Monkeys, that Ania Ziolkowska and Chris “Exeris” Sevanick set up in order to achieve a middle school level of slander toward me, further betraying their decline into Cluster B Personality Disorder. As with most Cluster B’s, they choose the most mentally and morally corrupt of allies. Yet it also falls within the pattern. He, Adwen Jameson, Inna Kurtser…..if they are against ME, they immediately add them as “friends” on Facebook. It’s done them more harm than good. Further reading on The Shadow. 

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Satya

In yoga, as part of the Yamas and Niyamas, you will learn of Satya, or “truth”. However, as it seems all in Yoga are hedonistic and live in only their “Id” ego construct, they will also do whatever they can to escape blame and fault.  –

“The id acts according to the “pleasure principle”, seeking to avoid pain or unpleasure (not ‘displeasure’) aroused by increases in instinctual tension.”

An Antisocial Personality disorder will do ANYTHING to defend their REPUTATION, including moving to a new city and convincing people of the “NEW ME” Playing for pity is a tool used –

Subtypes Of Antisocial Behavior: Theodore Milton identified five subtypes for antisocial behavior; however, someone with Antisocial Personality Disorder may experience none or many of these subtypes:

  1. Malevolent Antisocial – includes paranoid, sadistic traits.
  2. Covetous Antisocial – variation of the pure pattern wherein the individual feels that life has been excessively unfair.
  3. Risk-Taking Antisocial – includes histrionic traits.
  4. Reputation-Defending Antisocial – includes narcissistic traits.
  5. Nomadic Antisocial – includes schizoidavoidant features.

Antisocial Personality Disorders also NEVER APOLOGIZE.
Ania Ziolkowska Never apologized unless she was TOLD TO.

Ania Ziolkowksa has completed Yoga Teacher Training and has even been to India.
These are from Ania Ziolkowska to myself (the originals can be provided upon request)

You can see where Ania Ziolkowska attempts to defend her reputation –

Pawel Tulin & Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca  Pawel lied to me and stated he did not know them - See the Psytrance Cults Blog

Pawel Tulin & Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca
Pawel lied to me and stated he did not know them – See the Psytrance Cults Blog

Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca , Still married to me, no legal separation, committing adultery with Chris M Sevanick / Chris Exeris

Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca , Still married to me, no legal separation, committing adultery with Chris M Sevanick / Chris Exeris

On Jan 31, 2011, at 5:14, Ania Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:
I read your journals because I was in love with you. I wanted to know everything about how brilliant you were. I was in awe of you. I am sorry this hurt you, as that was not my intention. I called Ross because I wanted a guys perspective, but also from someone who loved you because I wanted to give you the benefit of doubt. I wanted to understand you because I loved you. Same with the situation with your mom. She loves you and will always love you no matter what. I felt safe sharing my worries with her and did so from the perspective of someone who also loved you. I never cheated on you with Long. There was nothing at all physical that happened between us. As for Joel and Liz, yes I lied a lot. I am sorry. I did not mean to hurt you. I respect you and was and am remorseful. With time my interests began to change, and I made friends. I never said for you not to go to yoga or hooping with me. I do not like for anyone to be disrespected. Not me, not you, not my friends, not my family, not my coworkers. No one. I did not call your job and tell them you were suicidal. At yogaville, I told you not to visit because I was studying. You came and brought Shiro. You sat in the rain and made people worry for me thru your emails and behavior. I wasn’t talking to people about you. You sent the emails. You got people talking. I can only take so much. Eventually my emotions get the best of me and I begin to fall apart and then I finally talk for support, but not out of hate. You came to my job and the police came there. I talked about you at work as little as possible. Always out of love not hate. I do not want anyone to think you are a horrible person. I do not want to be in the middle of hate between anyone. I do not want to be around people that hate you.

                                                                                                                            Sent from Ania’s iPad

On Jan 31, 2011, at 3:50, Hector Barrientos-Bullcok <********@gmail.com> wrote:

Early 2001 you go through my things in my room and read things that are personal to me without permission from me. Sometime in 2002 you call Ross to ask him some personal questions concerning me instead of speaking with me about it like a rational person. Sometime in 2003, I let you go to the club with Long, Completely trusting you, and I find out after that you have a crush on your co-worker, Long. While that’s happening you tell others I am the problem, it’s all my fault. It’s all about you. Sometime in 2004, we meet Joel and Liz and YOU decide you want to have a lesbian experience with Liz. I point out that this is not a good idea and you try to go through with it anyway, making a further mess of our relationship. You LIE to me for a month about everything that occurred during this incident, including being in touch with Liz for that time. You establish at that time you are capable of lying without remorse and that you have absolutely no respect for me in any way. Multiple incidents after this, but sometime in 2005 you decide to talk to my mother about how I am supposedly a horrible person, while not realizing she has witnessed how horrible a person you are and how much patience I have had with you. Again, multiple incidents, but sometime in 2010 you choose to meet your new friends, you create incidents that have no reason to be as problematic as you make them but you choose to anyway, further illustrating your disrespect of me. Incident occurs over the summer after a canoeing trip with Brandon, Katie, and Angelina wherein you disrespect me, friends that are doing you a favor AND saving you money, then you punctuate that by further disrespecting me due to a mistake YOU made on the way home. You did again what you did with Joel and Liz, making a mistake, attempting to make me look at fault for your mistake, and then using the pity caused by that align yourself with people I initially took the initiative in meeting. Not able to make friends on your own HONESTLY, but able to steal the ones I make for US, DISHONESTLY. Again you messed up and ran to SOMEONE ELSE. 2010, you state you are not saying negative things about me, only for me to find out you are, then I demand a public apology, as I was sick of you embarrassing me publicly and you renege of that and also talk to people you told me you were not talking to. You go to marriage counseling, make an agreement, and then violate it immediately. You align yourself with someone I have had to hear from for years about how much you and his girlfriend look alike and had just recently confirmed want to be swingers. You call a friend in LA and destroy the vacation I had prepared for myself, my vacation from you, so I could get MY head sorted out, and then force me to go to PEX with you (Biggest mistake you ever made, actually, as the BURNERS LOVE ME. You? Not so much.) You lose my apartment for me, you call my job and tell them I am suicidal, you create so much negativity I am pushed to my wits end and I have done nothing, NOTHING to deserve any of this treatment, whether it be the past years I have been more than patient with you, or whether it be the last few months. You tell your parents I have done things I have not done, you tell your friends a warped version of events (And then send me a BULLSHIT email 2 DAYS AGO about how it’s all perception. Facts are facts, and perception does not color facts.) You have an intimate encounter at PEX, in an environment any idiot could see was sexually charged, and then act as though I am just too thin skinned and I just need to get over it. You asked me questions in some previous emails?

Since you refuse to see reality as it is I will say this: YOU are too thin skinned. Get over it.

  • Couldn’t forget THIS one. It’s where Ania Ziolkowsia admits to trying to cheat on me with Elizabeth Stephens She also lies about how she speaks about people, as you already know, and can see in the emails before this. Ania Ziolkowska is not capable of saying ONE HONEST THING.

Also, Ania Ziolkowska would always tell me

“You are too thin skinned.”

And, again, Ania Ziolkowska is LYING about calling my Job.
Denise Kane is willing to give a statement to this. Denise Kane was MY BOSS THAT ANIA CALLED AND TOLD I WAS SUICIDAL, which I WAS NOT AT THAT TIME. That came after all this. Ania Ziolkowska lies about not talking about me.

Email from Simon Padgham about her talking to him about divorce, but above she says she talked to NO ONE in YOGAVILLE about me –

Begin forwarded message:

From: Simon Padgham <simon@simonpadgham.com>

Date: September 6, 2010 10:03:22 AM EDT

To: annaziolko1@gmail.com

Subject: Hey Ania

Hi Ania,

How are you doing? I’m sorry that I didn’t get to say goodbye to you before you left Yogaville but I thought you were staying on for a few days. Anna and I came back late on Sunday and you’d already gone! So how are you doing? I hope you’ve managed to make all those big changes in your life that you were planning to do and things have been working out for you. Its always very hard to make such big changes and have the courage to walk away from things that may provide security, familiarity or safety but if you know deep down that they don’t serve you or that you don’t want them you have to do what is necessary to move on, grow and change. Otherwise you’re just going to stress yourself out massively, make yourself ill and be generally unhappy. Its hard to thrive, be at your best and reach your potential if you are working against yourself and compromising yourself I find. Still what you were planning to do requires courage, support and having to face many of fears. Have you talked to Anna at all? She has done what she intended to do and, despite continual stresses and problems, seems to be moving in the right direction for her. Maybe you should drop her a line? So are you going to come back here? There is lots to do and plenty of need for a lady of your talents! Michael mentioned that he had invited you back if you needed to return. Well, life here at Yogaville has been pretty good. The first few days after all you guys left was very strange for me. I felt pretty lonely and a bit down……but then so did Michael so I’m guessing that was a pretty normal thing to feel, especially after such an eventful and emotional month. I saw Satya today and she likened a place to a morgue last week!! So funny coming from her! I was quite busy and involved last week with the Taiwanese group which provided a nice distraction and kept me occupied. It was quite nice to sit in on their lectures and join them for morning practice. This week I have been doing the Structural Yoga Therapy course with Mukunda Stiles, which has been quite entertaining and eye opening. I have to admit I find all the A&P stuff very dry and I do tend to switch off when he does diagnostics and starts looking at people’s knees! He does talk a lot about Ayurveda and the Sutras though, which is more my thing. We finished the course on Friday and I then went to Charlottesville to pick up a rental car. I just want to be able to get about, go shopping and eat some different food every know and then. I am finding that I really need to eat some animal protein as I am feeling a bit weak and seem to be constantly hungry. My Ayurvedic doctor has told me to get some meat at all costs as soon as I can. I had thought about trying to snare the squirrels or deer hear but I don’t think that would go down too well! Only kidding! I’m going to keep the car for couple of weeks so Michael and I are planning a trip away for 4 or 5 days to the Outer Banks in NC. He loves it there and knows the place inside out so I’m happy to drive if he navigates and plans everything. Apparently he knows this great place to get freshly caught Yellow Fin tuna, which is supposed to be sublime. Sounds good to me. I imagine we’ll go next week or the week after, certainly in Sept and before the split TT starts…….which we are both involved in staffing for Swami Dyananda. The weather here is so much nicer now. The intense humidity and heat has gone and has been replaced with those lovely cool air. Its still beautifully sunny and hot but just no humidity. Its perfect for hiking and cycling, which I’ve been doing a lot of lately. Michael and I are off out this afternoon I think. He knows all the great places around here so I’m making use of his knowledge whilst I can before he leaves in early October! So I’d better get a move on an get ready. I’ve laundry and some major room cleaning to do before lunch. Anyway, you take care Ania. Namaste, Simon

One lie after the next.

Notice the date of THIS email and the dates of the others?

Notice how Ania Ziolkowska thought she could manipulate me even AFTER I already had all the facts?

That’s also a trait of AntiSocial Personality Disorder.

Even after her Yoga Teacher Training, Ania Ziolkowska still kept lying.

Ania Ziolkowska was violent with me.

Ania Ziolkowska had me sit her on a kitchen counter, so we could, I thought, TALK, and then proceeded to head butte me in the mouth, knocking out my front teeth, as she leaned back and smiled at her work.

And I never hit Ania Ziolkowksa.

I never touched her.

Ania Ziolkowska would begin physical fights, then, as I RESTRAINED her, she would say –

“I’ll call the police. You’re black and I’m a girl.”

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Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca high on MDMA, January 26th, 2012

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Ania Ziolkowksa / Ania Anicca , High on MDMA, January 26th, 2012

I never even cheated on Ania Ziolkowska, while she has obviously committed adultery.

(Ania Ziolkowska has a terrible habit of having photos taken of her while she is high on Ecstasy)

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Ania Ziokowska / Ania Anicca thinks she’s a model when she’s high on MDMA

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Ania Ziokowska / Ania Anicca thinks she’s a model when she’s high on MDMA

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Ania Ziokowska / Ania Anicca thinks she’s a model when she’s high on MDMA

Ania Ziokowska / Ania Anicca high on MDMA, infecting our cat, Shiro. MDMA comes out through your pores, and goes into cats pores.

Ania Ziokowska / Ania Anicca high on MDMA, infecting our cat, Shiro. MDMA comes out through your pores, and goes into cats pores.

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Ania Ziokowska / Ania Anicca high on MDMA, infecting our cat, Shiro. MDMA comes out through your pores, and goes into cats pores.

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Ania Ziokowska / Ania Anicca high on MDMA, infecting our cat, Shiro. MDMA comes out through your pores, and goes into cats pores.

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Eva Annnika Backstrom, high on MDMA

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Eva Annnika Backstrom, high on MDMA

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Eva Annnika Backstrom, high on MDMA

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Eva Annnika Backstrom, high on MDMA

Below is Ania Plotting with her mother, while lying to me. You will have to run the text through google translate, as they thought I couldn’t translate the polish –

From: Gosia Ziolkowska <gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com>

Date: August 26, 2010 4:54:31 PM EDT

To: Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com>

Subject: Re: rozne

If you are both responsible for lease payment, if you leave and stop paying your share, he will have to pick up your share. If he does not and the apartament management does not receive the full monthly payment, they will make him move out. If he picks up your share and pays the full montly rent , he will stay and later if you decide to divorce, I am sure he will make you return the money, but it will be money you owe him and it will not break yur credit record. what if you write a statement and send it with registered mail and keep track of delivery and keep the original – a statement to the apartament management that you are not able to continue staying in the apartament for personal resons . The besst reason is if you have legal paper like restraining order or seperation papers. Please check what needs to be done, So many couples split, break lease etc , it has to be a way out. —

On Thu, 8/26/10, Ania<annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

From: Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com>

Subject: Re: rozne

To: “Gosia Ziolkowska” <gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com>

Date: Thursday, August 26, 2010, 3:17 PM

Wrzystko ok. Byłam w kinie z Kasią.  Dzięki za troskę. Zadzwonie jutro.

On Aug 26, 2010, at 2:29 PM, Gosia Ziolkowska <gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com> wrote:

jestesmy w domu czy mozesz zadzwonic na Mokotow Caly czas o tobie myslimy i rozmawiamy Zadzwon to Victorii. Ona mi powiedziala tydzien temu zebyscie dzwonily do niej jak problem. Kasia ma komorke Victorii i rowniez Hanki —

On Mon, 8/23/10, Ania<aniazmail@gmail.com> wrote:

From: Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com>

Subject: Re: rozne

To: “Gosia Ziolkowska” <gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com>

Date: Monday, August 23, 2010, 5:08 PM

Wrzyystko ok. Jestem w pracy.  rozmawiam z Grzesiem.

On Aug 23, 2010, at 4:15 PM, Gosia Ziolkowska <gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com> wrote:

Aniu, co slychac, gdzie mieszkasz czy bylas w pracy czy wszystko w porzadku wrocilismy wlasnie do domu —

On Sun, 8/22/10, Ania<annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

From: Ania <aniazmail@gmail.com>

Subject: Re: rozne

To: “Gosia Ziolkowska” <gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com>

Date: Sunday, August 22, 2010, 6:22 PM

Nie martw się. Będzie ok.

On Aug 22, 2010, at 5:57 PM, Gosia Ziolkowska <gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com> wrote: —

On Sun, 8/22/10, Gosia Ziolkowska<gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com>wrote:

From: Gosia Ziolkowska <gosiaziolkowska@yahoo.com>

Subject: rozne

To: annaziolko1@gmail.com

Date: Sunday, August 22, 2010, 5:51 PM

pisze tylko po polsku, bo moze on ma dostep do twojej poczty szukalam na google i jest duzo informacj napisz na google how to get restraining order in virginia i pisze jaka jest procedura jakie sa rodzaje orders na przyklad stalking/ abuse etc i jakie sa forms, gdzie to sie starac. dlatego powiedzialam ci zeby isc do shelter dla kobiet bo oni tam codziennie pomagaja i wiedza co zrobic i jak pomoc kobiecie nie ma co sie obrazac , bo sa ksiazki i filmy, ze to sie zdarza i kobieta ktora sie wstydzi isc nie dostanie pomocy. tu te services sa dobrze zorganizowane. Jesli planujesz Aniu wyjazd gdzie indziej tak jak do Polski , to pamietaj ,ze twoje 4 tygodnie podybu na obozie nic nie pomogly. trzeba najpierw zaczac cos robic , zeby czas na ciebie pracowal. jesli twoja decyzja jest wystapic o seperacje to zrob to przed wyjazdem. co do mieszkania to nie mam pojecia jak to zrobic i to trzeba sie dowiedziec. pozdrawiam bardzo sie o ciebie martwie

Ania Ziolkowska made such a mess of THIS one, I’ll let YOU figure it out, however, notice the cognitive dissonance, attempts at manipulation, the backtracking, and the “I can do it to you, but you can’t do it to me” mindset that is indicative of Antisocial and Narcissistic personality disorders?  –

———- Forwarded message ———-

From: Ania Ziolkowska <annaziolko69@gmail.com>
Date: Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 1:56 PM
Subject: Re: relationship
To: HVBB Gmail <*******@gmail.com>

How is not cheating advers to trying to cheat? Both are not cheating. The only diff is that in one you accuse me of not doing something which I didn’t do. Were both agreeing that I didn’t cheat. On Feb 11, 2011, at 19:22, HVBB Gmail <hvbbmail@gmail.com> wrote: You are so self important you can’t even read what’s in front of you. I can put your response against the message you are responding to and it shows you blatantly tried to confuse the point, something you always do verbally, in writing this time. Why don’t you re-read the original message and see who you are REALLY calling a liar? Correct, I didn’t cheat, which is the adverse of you trying to many times. I compared you to me, and showed I was faithful while you were always disrespectful and self absorbed with no regard for anyone but you, but you state I am the one in search of a potty party for stating the facts? See how that works? See, you made yourself self important. You continue to make yourself self important and you also neglect to admit to facts you already admitted. Kirsten, Molly, Joel, Liz, Flight, and even Annika and Uzi all know you headbutted me in the mouth. You ADMITTED IT TO ANNIKA AND UZI. All the others listed were there when you did it.

This is another example of you attempting to edit facts.

Simple fact- the tooth was pushed down due to you headbutting me in the mouth, an action you never apologized for and smiled after you did it.

There is an X-ray to prove this.

This cause a root canal to have to occur. You made my perfectly straight teeth crooked. You went to another dentist to ask if he could knock it back up an straighten it.

YOU DID THiS ON YOUR OWN TO YOUR DENTIST.

The now dead tooth with a hole in it came out shortly after.

Those are the facts so get them straight.

I would still have a tooth of you had never headbutted me in the first place.

Not only did you do that and there are witnesses and evidence, but YOU created evidence by consulting more doctors.

Talk about trying to run away from your responsibilities….

On Feb 11, 2011, at 13:06, Anna Ziolkowska <aniazmail@gmail.com> wrote:

according to you insanity is saying you didnt cheat when you didnt cheat.

and you are calling me insane? and dont even try to say that i called pablo a liar. i do not need to go to him for anything.

the three of us as well as the owner of the restaurant know the truth. you are just fishing for pitty once again. get a backbone.

learn to rely on your own strength rather than building your house on other peoples weakneses. and you are the only one who thinks he is crazy and seems obsessed with proving to others that you are not. you never forced me to do anything, not even admitting to lying.

I didnt have to admit to anything, nor did i need to apologize, which i did both. i am not looking for you to accept my apology. you can only make peace with your own self.

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 6:54 PM, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

And in response to the cheating, you just sent an email last week that admitted ti how selfish you were concerning Joel and Liz, but attempt to retract that in this email?

Yes, that is insanity.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 12:43, Anna Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

Oh, and you don’t lie?????

Do not talk to me about lying, till you don’t yourself…

At least I admit to lying when I do and recognize it as a fault that I am working on. You on the other hand call me and as for me to lie for you, but then criticize me for lying.

Yes, i have lied to you for selfish reasons, but not with the intention of hurting you.

I have already admited to this, so this is not major discovery on your part.

As for your teeth, all I can say that Pablo was there, so he knows exectly what happened.

You think that just because you tell everyone something, that makes it so?

You and I both know the truth. You are wondering perhaps why you can’t find a job, and why you have other problems???

Karma.

TRIED to cheat on you?????

Get real!

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 6:36 PM, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

Again you don’t see reality for what it is.

That is psychosis.

You went to marriage counseling and then backtracked on your agreement – FACT.

You lied and have admitted to lying (you really should read your previous emails before writing these responses or at least improve your memory, which is hard to do being a compulsive liar) – FACT

YOU left to Poland, lying the entire time before going and while there-FACT, proven by YOUR OWN WRITING

You were violent to me, knocking out my teeth-FACT

You tried to cheat several times and constantly pushed me away-WITNESSED FACTS.

You really have walked over the edge when you compose a message such the one you just did while ignoring even THOSE SIMPLE FACTS and there are SO MANY MORE that are verifiable and proveable. Maybe you should read this, then re-read what you wrote and then MAYBE you might see reality for what it is.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 12:26, Anna Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

> Why do you speak as though I can do something to salvage our relationship. You are the one who has called me a liar and has sent me away with your words.

I threw my things out of the apartment, and have locked me out on multiple occasions, not the other way around.

This shows that you dont want me as a wife. I was too deaf to hear it.

You contacted my friends family and coworkers to tell them what a terrible person I was according to you, so you do not want me as a wife.

So there is not me coming back to you. Coming back on what terms?

You are the one who doesnt want me. It is not my fault that i am not there right now. I was finally respecting your words.

———- Forwarded message ———-

From: Hector Barrientos-Bullcok <********@gmail.com>

Date: Wed, Mar 16, 2011 at 7:46 AM

Subject: Fwd: relationship

To: anniqq@gmail.com, grandbleu@gmail.com, kandykidd13@gmail.com

The 3 of you know the incident in question but apparently the person who actually did it lives in psychosis. So, does that mean that all that crap that happened years ago, the reason we ever met Kirsten in the 1st place, suddenly didn’t happen?

Go figure.

———- Forwarded message ———-

From: Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com>

Date: Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 2:40 PM

Subject: Re: relationship

To: HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com>

You are attacking my emotional stability and memory by saying I tried to cheat?

What else did I TRY to do???

If I had WANTED to cheat on you, I would have.

You are really fishing for drama and sympathy.

Is your addiction to drama this intense that you would rather not have a wife than a made up dramatic relationship?

Sent from Ania’s iPad

On Feb 11, 2011, at 20:17, HVBB Gmail <hvbbmail@gmail.com> wrote:

Wrong again.

You made an effort that I never did and then you try to say I was the one that pushed YOU away when you tried to cheat LONG before I ever got sour. Your treatment of me AND your attempts to cheat are what MADE me sour in the first place.

Cause and effect.

You refuse to acknowledge basic logic and physics.

But that is no surprise.

Logic comes from emotion.

The fact you cannot fathom logic shows your lack of emotion.

To use a fictional character, the vulcans are highly logical, but ALSO highly emotional.

They combat for emotional control all the time. Memory also comes from the emotional attachment one places on events and facts. This has been proven via study. You have a poor, actually horrible, memory. What does that say about grasp of emotional ability?

On Feb 11, 2011, at 13:56, Ania Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

How is not cheating advers to trying to cheat? Both are not cheating. The only diff is that in one you accuse me of not doing something which I didn’t do. Were both agreeing that I didn’t cheat.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 19:22, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

You are so self important you can’t even read what’s in front of you.

I can put your response against the message you are responding to and it shows you blatantly tried to confuse the point, something you always do verbally, in writing this time.

Why don’t you re-read the original message and see who you are REALLY calling a liar?

Correct, I didn’t cheat, which is the adverse of you trying to many times.

I compared you to me, and showed I was faithful while you were always disrespectful and self absorbed with no regard for anyone but you, but you state I am the one in search of a potty party for stating the facts?

See how that works?

See, you made yourself self important. You continue to make yourself self important and you also neglect to admit to facts you already admitted.

Kirsten, Molly, Joel, Liz, Flight, and even Annika and Uzi all know you headbutted me in the mouth.

You ADMITTED IT TO ANNIKA AND UZI.

All the others listed were there when you did it.

This is another example of you attempting to edit facts.

Simple fact– the tooth was pushed down due to you headbutting me in the mouth, an action you never apologized for and smiled after you did it.

There is an X-ray to prove this.

This cause a root canal to have to occur. You made my perfectly straight teeth crooked.

You went to another dentist to ask if he could knock it back up an straighten it.

YOU DID THIS ON YOUR OWN TO YOUR DENTIST.

The now dead tooth with a hole in it came out shortly after.

Those are the facts so get them straight.

I would still have a tooth of you had never headbutted me in the first place.

Not only did you do that and there are witnesses and evidence, but YOU created evidence by consulting more doctors.

Talk about trying to run away from your responsibilities….

On Feb 11, 2011, at 13:06, Anna Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

according to you insanity is saying you didnt cheat when you didnt cheat. and you are calling me insane?

and dont even try to say that i called pablo a liar. i do not need to go to him for anything. the three of us as well as the owner of the restaurant know the truth.

you are just fishing for pitty once again.

get a backbone.

learn to rely on your own strength rather than building your house on other peoples weakneses. and you are the only one who thinks he is crazy and seems obsessed with proving to others that you are not.

you never forced me to do anything, not even admitting to lying.

I didnt have to admit to anything, nor did i need to apologize, which i did both.

i am not looking for you to accept my apology. you can only make peace with your own self.

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 6:54 PM, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

And in response to the cheating, you just sent an email last week that admitted to how selfish you were concerning Joel and Liz, but attempt to retract that in this email?

Yes, that is insanity.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 12:43, Anna Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

Oh, and you don’t lie?????

Do not talk to me about lying, till you don’t yourself…

At least I admit to lying when I do and recognize it as a fault that I am working on. You on the other hand call me and as for me to lie for you, but then criticize me for lying.

Yes, i have lied to you for selfish reasons, but not with the intention of hurting you.

I have already admited to this, so this is not major discovery on your part.

As for your teeth, all I can say that Pablo was there, so he knows exectly what happened. You think that just because you tell everyone something, that makes it so? You and I both know the truth. You are wondering perhaps why you can’t find a job, and why you have other problems???

Karma. TRIED to cheat on you????? Get real!

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 6:36 PM, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

Again you don’t see reality for what it is.

That is psychosis.

You went to marriage counseling and then backtracked on your agreement – FACT.

You lied and have admitted to lying (you really should read your previous emails before writing these responses or at least improve your memory, which is hard to do being a compulsive liar) – FACT

YOU left to Poland, lying the entire time before going and while there – FACT, proven BY YOUR OWN WRITING

You were violent to me, knocking out my teeth-FACT

You tried to cheat several times and constantly pushed me away – WITNESSED FACTS.

You really have walked over the edge when you compose a message such the one you just did while ignoring even THOSE SIMPLE FACTS and there are SO MANY MORE that are verifiable and proveable.

Maybe you should read this, then re-read what you wrote and then MAYBE you might see reality for what it is.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 12:26, Anna Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

> Why do you speak as though I can do something to salvage our relationship. You are the one who has called me a liar and has sent me away with your words.

I threw my things out of the apartment, and have locked me out on multiple occasions, not the other way around.

This shows that you dont want me as a wife. I was too deaf to hear it.

You contacted my friends family and coworkers to tell them what a terrible person I was according to you, so you do not want me as a wife.

So there is not me coming back to you. Coming back on what terms?

You are the one who doesnt want me. It is not my fault that i am not there right now.

I was finally respecting your words. Why don’t you re-read what you wrote and then try that again?

Or, how about this:

On Feb 11, 2011, at 19:22, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

See, you made yourself self important.

You continue to make yourself self important and you also neglect to admit to facts you already admitted.

Kirsten, Molly, Joel, Liz, Flight, and even Annika and Uzi all know you headbutted me in the mouth.

You ADMITTED IT TO ANNIKA AND UZI.

All the others listed were there when you did it.

This is another example of you attempting to edit facts.

Simple fact– the tooth was pushed down due to you headbutting me in the mouth, an action you never apologized for and smiled after you did it. There is an X-ray to prove this.

This cause a root canal to have to occur. You made my perfectly straight teeth crooked.

You went to another dentist to ask if he could knock it back up an straighten it. YOU DID THIS ON YOUR OWN TO YOUR DENTIST.

The now dead tooth with a hole in it came out shortly after. Those are the facts so get them straight. I would still have a tooth of you had never headbutted me in the first place.

Not only did you do that and there. Are witnesses and evidence, but YOU created evidence by consulting more doctors. Talk about trying to run away from your responsibilities….

See how you attempted to ignore those facts to attempt to twist this to your favor as you always do?

they were listed, but because they were provable you ignored them and therefore decided to just attempt to backtrack onto the Pablo issue instead.

You will ignore this again, because it doesn’t support the reality you are attempting to create, but it’s provable none the less.

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 5:28 PM, Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

I am speaking for myself saying he was there when your tooth came out. I am not putting any words into his mouth, and therefore, am not speaking for him.

Sent from Ania’s iPad

On Feb 11, 2011, at 23:22, Hector Barrientos-Bullcok <********@gmail.com> wrote:

You spoke for him by attempting to say what he saw when.

That is speaking FOR someone.

Or should I cut and paste that message as well since you are too lazy to read over what you wrote before attempting to retract it.

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 5:13 PM, Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

I was not speaking for Pablo. I said he can speak for himself. I said he was there.

Sent from Ania’s iPad

On Feb 11, 2011, at 23:05, Hector Barrientos-Bullcok <********@gmail.com> wrote:

Funny, because I do believe you were trying to speak for Pablo, someone the does not like you.

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 4:35 PM, Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

Let people speak for themselves.

Sent from Ania’s iPad

On Feb 11, 2011, at 22:33, Hector Barrientos-Bullcok <********@gmail.com> wrote:

Funny how you had a lot to say when you thought you could turn it to pity for yourself but nothing to say when the facts state you are actually the one at fault, when you are actually the unstable one.

The only person wishing to live in DRAMA is YOU, as it always has been, witnessed by so many you separated yourself from them because you KNEW you shat where you ate.

Now you try to say they are all crazy, and they never saw you act the way you did.

This is called psychosis. You fall back on Pablo?

He despises you.

He has SEEN how you treated me and he thinks you are absolutely insane.

Do you really think he would LIE for you?

I sincerely doubt that, so stop trying to speak for Pablo.

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 3:10 PM, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

Let’s talk about me needing to sleep and you following me from the bedroom to the loving room to the bedroom over and over again, turning on lights, pulling blankets off of me, yelling at me, kicking me, hitting me, all because I was trying to sleep.

Then, when I finally locked the bedroom door and said “let me go to sleep or I’m tossing your clothes out the window”, you kicked in the door.

Really?

That’s rational behaviour?

You did all of this at 218 E Mason, more than once, I may add.

So don’t you even think about attempting to point fingers or try to name call as to who the drama causer was.

It’s ALWAYS been YOU.

Always looking to bully or control.

And I guarantee you won’t have anything to say to this because there is no way you can even TRY to turn it around as you have attempted to do with everything else.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 14:43, Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

I’m not even gonna bring up me getting locked out, and then you not letting me back in even though you had keys.

I’m referring to about a dozen or more situations where you locked the door and wouldn’t let me into our apartment.

Tell me those didn’t happen.

Go ahead.

You yourself said it takes me a while to figure things out. Well, here’s my delayed reaction. You wanted me out, now I am out.

Sent from Ania’s iPad

On Feb 11, 2011, at 20:20, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

Me me me me me me me.

You LEFT, remember?

Get it right.

You left both emotionally AND physically.

And if I remember correctly, you locked YOURSELF out and then ORDERED me, who was out with you, to let you back in.

You didn’t ask, you ORDERED.

That’s pretty disrespectful.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 13:58, Ania Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

You said I was disrespectful. And what do you call locking your wife out of your joint apartment???!!!! Answer that!

On Feb 11, 2011, at 19:22, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

You are so self important you can’t even read what’s in front of you.

I can put your response against the message you are responding to and it shows you blatantly tried to confuse the point, something you always do verbally, in writing this time.

Why don’t you re-read the original message and see who you are REALLY calling a liar?

Correct, I didn’t cheat, which is the adverse of you trying to many times. I compared you to me, and showed I was faithful while you were always disrespectful and self absorbed with no regard for anyone but you, but you state I am the one in search of a potty party for stating the facts?

See how that works?

See, you made yourself self important. You continue to make yourself self important and you also neglect to admit to facts you already admitted. Kirsten, Molly, Joel, Liz, Flight, and even Annika and Uzi all know you headbutted me in the mouth.

You ADMITTED IT TO ANNIKA AND UZI.

All the others listed were there when you did it. This is another example of you attempting to edit facts. Simple fact- the tooth was pushed down due to you headbutting me in the mouth, an action you never apologized for and smiled after you did it.

There is an X-ray to prove this.

This cause a root canal to have to occur. You made my perfectly straight teeth crooked. You went to another dentist to ask if he could knock it back up an straighten it.

YOU DID THIS ON YOUR OWN TO YOUR DENTIST.

The now dead tooth with a hole in it came out shortly after.

Those are the facts so get them straight.

I would still have a tooth of you had never headbutted me in the first place.

Not only did you do that and there. Are witnesses and evidence, but YOU created evidence by consulting more doctors.

Talk about trying to run away from your responsibilities….

On Feb 11, 2011, at 13:06, Anna Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

according to you insanity is saying you didnt cheat when you didnt cheat. and you are calling me insane? and dont even try to say that i called pablo a liar. i do not need to go to him for anything.

the three of us as well as the owner of the restaurant know the truth. you are just fishing for pitty once again. get a backbone.

learn to rely on your own strength rather than building your house on other peoples weakneses. and you are the only one who thinks he is crazy and seems obsessed with proving to others that you are not.

you never forced me to do anything, not even admitting to lying.

I didnt have to admit to anything, nor did i need to apologize, which i did both. i am not looking for you to accept my apology. you can only make peace with your own self.

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 6:54 PM, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

And in response to the cheating, you just sent an email last week that admitted ti how selfish you were concerning Joel and Liz, but attempt to retract that in this email?

Yes, that is insanity.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 12:43, Anna Ziolkowska <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

Oh, and you don’t lie????? Do not talk to me about lying, till you don’t yourself… At least I admit to lying when I do and recognize it as a fault that I am working on. You on the other hand call me and as for me to lie for you, but then criticize me for lying.

Yes, i have lied to you for selfish reasons, but not with the intention of hurting you. I have already admited to this, so this is not major discovery on your part. As for your teeth, all I can say that Pablo was there, so he knows exectly what happened. You think that just because you tell everyone something, that makes it so? You and I both know the truth. You are wondering perhaps why you can’t find a job, and why you have other problems???

Karma. TRIED to cheat on you?????

Get real!

On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 6:36 PM, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

Again you don’t see reality for what it is. That is psychosis.

You went to marriage counseling and then backtracked on your agreement – FACT.

You lied and have admitted to lying (you really should read your previous emails before writing these responses or at least improve your memory, which is hard to do being a compulsive liar) – FACT

YOU left to Poland, lying the entire time before going and while there-FACT, proven by YOUR OWN WRITING

You were violent to me, knocking out my teeth-FACT

You tried to cheat several times and constantly pushed me away-WITNESSED FACTS.

You really have walked over the edge when you compose a message such the one you just did while ignoring even THOSE SIMPLE FACTS and there are SO MANY MORE that are verifiable and proveable.

Maybe you should read this, then re-read what you wrote and then MAYBE you might see reality for what it is.

On Feb 11, 2011, at 12:26, Anna Ziolkowska <annazioko1@gmail.com> wrote:

> Why do you speak as though I can do something to salvage our relationship. You are the one who has called me a liar and has sent me away with your words.

I threw my things out of the apartment, and have locked me out on multiple occasions, not the other way around.

This shows that you dont want me as a wife. I was too deaf to hear it. You contacted my friends family and coworkers to tell them what a terrible person I was according to you, so you do not want me as a wife.

So there is not me coming back to you.

Coming back on what terms? You are the one who doesnt want me. It is not my fault that i am not there right now. I was finally respecting your words.

THIS is who Ania Ziolkowska really is – Here is another Ania Ziolkowska tactic. She will ensure the email she is responding to is not in the email history, as though the history does not exist on the other end. This is a form of gas lighting via digital medium :

On Oct 27, 2010, at 10:01, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

I’m just forwarding YOUR email, so who looks crazier?

The one that lied and then shows they lied in their own words or the one that let’s everyone know they were lied to?

I don’t care either way. You painted a picture of me being crazy BEFORE the emails were sent.

You only don’t realize this because you lime to play with timelines to support your lies.

That’s why I also have an email from you that says to forget the timeline.

Your lies fall apart under scrutiny and chronological order.

So none of these people had any intention of getting the real story or they would have made an effort to meet me and I don’t care how I look in front of hypocrites.

They look worse by definition.

They are no one to me as I am no one to them.

I should care about how I look WHY, again?

On Oct 27, 2010, at 9:51, Ania <annaziolko1@gmail.com> wrote:

Nothing I do would make you look crazier than the emails which you yourself have sent out. What one says about another is an opinion, what one does oneself can’t be disputed. I am not dying the emails make you look crazy, because that is not my place to judge, but just think about this.

Sent from Ania’s iPad

On Oct 26, 2010, at 21:58, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

It is because you have shown a history of saying one thing to ME, but saying the OPPOSITE to EVERYONE else, so I am covering myself due to having become tired of being made to look “crazy” by you.

I am sorry, but that is the price of “the boy who cried wolf” method you have been using.

You may become angry in seeing this, but you may want to “put yourself in MY shoes.” When toughening yourself from the emotion of being “embarrassed” you may see that I am justified in doing this.

-Hector

The email that followed –

On Oct 27, 2010, at 10:43, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

It’s also funny it took you 3 days to get to this but only about 5 minutes to get back to your friends.

Something to be said there.

Next time I will follow my OWN instincts….

On Oct 27, 2010, at 9:51, Ania <aniazmail@gmail.com> wrote:

Nothing I do would make you look crazier than the emails which you yourself have sent out.

What one says about another is an opinion, what one does oneself can’t be disputed. I am not dying the emails make you look crazy, because that is not my place to judge, but just think about this.

Sent from Ania’s iPad

On Oct 26, 2010, at 21:58, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

It is because you have shown a history of saying one thing to ME, but saying the OPPOSITE to EVERYONE else, so I am covering myself due to having become tired of being made to look “crazy” by you.

I am sorry, but that is the price of “the boy who cried wolf” method you have been using.

You may become angry in seeing this, but you may want to “put yourself in MY shoes.” When toughening yourself from the emotion of being “embarrassed” you may see that I am justified in doing this.

-Hector

The email that followed THAT

On Oct 27, 2010, at 16:27, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

And now we step into Ania world, where the facts and actions of the people around her are in NO WAY an indication of any action she may have taken.

And let’s not forget his friends are so intelligent they do not tell in themselves and therefore tell on her as well. Aren’t the rest of us happy we do not live in Ania world?

Yes.

Yes we are.

On Oct 27, 2010, at 10:15, Ania <annnazioko1@gmail.com> wrote:

You do not know that.

What if in fact I do not tell people that you are crazy, but that instead you have made yourself look crazy due to your emails?

What if in fact I tell everyone that we have a normal relationship with ups and downs, and then you go forwarding my nice emails to you to all of my family and friends attempting to show them that in fact they are proof that I am crazy and a liar.

Who looks crazy in the end? I do not want my friends and family thinking you are crazy!

I am married to you.

Either way I love you.

Are you at work?

Sent from Ania’s iPad

On Oct 26, 2010, at 21:58, HVBB Gmail <********@gmail.com> wrote:

It is because you have shown a history of saying one thing to ME, but saying the OPPOSITE to EVERYONE else, so I am covering myself due to having become tired of being made to look “crazy” by you.

I am sorry, but that is the price of “the boy who cried wolf” method you have been using.

You may become angry in seeing this, but you may want to “put yourself in MY shoes.” When toughening yourself from the emotion of being “embarrassed” you may see that I am justified in doing this.

-Hector

See how she attempts to manipulate, even via a date stamped email?

THIS is NOT “Satya”.

I should have done this YEARS ago.

You now know you cannot believe a WORD SHE SAYS, VIA HER OWN WORDS. And there’s still text messages and voice recordings.

That’s when it gets REAL interesting.